Just go out more with friends. Go to events. Don't be shy to say hi. It really isn't that hard.
Couple of sensible tips.
1. Be presentable. If you look filthy ain't nobody going for you. Exercise 30 minutes a day at least. Consume less sugar.
2. Don't be a weirdo. As in, don't say or do shit that is weird. If you don't know what is or isn't weird, good luck. I can't teach this shit, you either know or you don't.
3. Have a life. Being successful is more important than women. If you're looking for a girl but you're a grown man without a job, your priorities are fucked up.
4. Try to go for a woman who's into what you're into. Don't be fake, or she'll eventually find out. Ex. If you like video games and anime, own that shit. There are bare women who like that shit now from my experience. If you ain't hard, don't act hard. Or you'll eventually get punked.
5. Don't be a **** but don't be a doormat. Have standards.
Good luck. If you think you're an incel but don't go out and talk to people, then you really don't know if you're an incel. If you tried a lot and failed, be real with yourself and your problems. Fix em. Finally, expand your horizons when it comes to women. If you're only gonna go for Somali women (obviously the best option for us men, cultural affinity, beauty, etc), then statistics ain't on your side. Besides the Somali neighborhood, you're probably not gonna see a Somali. At which point, mack to other women from different cultures.
Good luck.