Can women and men become friends or nah

[Waa dhamatay]

Definitely not. I have felt creeped out too many times when just being my naturally friendly self. They take everything as a sign you are into them. Once they use the words beautiful or throw in any hints of them showing interest, I avoid them for a while. They behave normally after that.

My boundaries are stronger now so I don’t even joke with them like that and stop any non-work related convos in the beginning.

That’s the thing with nice girls. You think they’re showing interest but they’re nice to everybody. That’s why I avoid interacting with women, my mind plays tricks (and I’m high inhib). Headache

 

[Doctorabdi]

See, I used to think so at one point in time, but then I travelled though the Orient, and am now fascinated thinking they are indeed prettier than the Europeans.

And so are pure Africans.

Did you know Africans and people of the Orient look a lot alike? More so than any other group.

Define "Pure africans", unlike other continents. Africa is too diverse for that, gaalo and ajnabis don't realise how diverse it really is. The Maghreb is pretty much it's own thing, east africans are also their own thing. West Africa itself is very diverse even genetically speaking because phenotype does not always mean genotype.

 

[Kalsoon]

That’s the thing with nice girls. You think they’re showing interest but they’re nice to everybody. That’s why I avoid interacting with women, my mind plays tricks (and I’m high inhib). Headache

At least you’re honest. It’s not completely over for you.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

At least you’re honest. It’s not completely over for you.

Girls aren’t supposed to casually act overly nice and cute etc with men for a reason. It leads to catching feelings

 

[Kalsoon]

Girls aren’t supposed to casually act overly nice and cute etc with men for a reason. It leads to catching feelings

I guess I was trying to be welcoming to everyone and didn’t think of the consequences. Used to be really rude to men in the past so it took me some time to strike a good balance.

 

[Qeelbax]

My experiences says otherwise. Either he catches feelings or I do

 

[Qeelbax]

From top of my head, and without thinking, Angelina Jolie
Kate Moss
Naomi Campbell

I could make a whole list, but you get the gist of it.

This is the only one I agree with. Angelina and Naomi are cute but Kate is overhyped.

 

[Qeelbax]

I don't particularly find cadaans attractive, though there are a few groups that can be good looking. My point is though, to put it kindly not many find them good to look at. To me it seems, they have all the worst features of different groups. Not to mention the height of the men. No one pursues them much, even the Black American fellas go to South America.

I'm sure they have a lovely culture, we'll have to agree to disagree on this.

Edit: @𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈, I do find that South East Asians can be quite lovely looking. I don't know why East Asians give me a fright.

I feel like I’m being gaslight when people rank east asians highly. I feel like if they were not accepted by cadaans and had a backbone or weren’t developed, they’d be ranked a lot lower. Whenever cadaans approve of someone, their clout increases.

They are everywhere in my school and even plastic surgery can’t fix them.

 

[Qeelbax]

See, I used to think so at one point in time, but then I travelled though the Orient, and am now fascinated thinking they are indeed prettier than the Europeans.

And so are pure Africans.

Did you know Africans and people of the Orient look a lot alike? More so than any other group.

Asians are gonna kill themselves in masse if you tell them they look like lightskin blacks.

they genuinely think they look like cadaans especially the women

I was watching this dating show and this white guy said he only likes blondes. The asian girl put on blue contacts and dyed her hair blonde and was shocked he didn’t want her. Some of them are so delusionalz

@Nilotic you are laughing but it’s actually an Australian show

 

[Unbothered]

No , somehow these negros end up hitting on you.

 

[The Somali Caesar]

It depends on your definition of "friends"

But in all seriousness, I have female friends and it's fine for the most part. Would have it helped if they weren't attracted? Absolutely, but it is what is

 

[Ripemoos]

Casual friends yes but not close friends cause someone gonna catch feelings.

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

This is the only one I agree with. Angelina and Naomi are cute but Kate is overhyped.

And many would agree with you, and as the old Bard quipped 'Beauty is in the eye of the beholder'; you may see something I do not quite see, which is quite expected.

I learnt over the years, one's definition of beauty metamorphases with age, and over time; further, one's standard of beauty is heavily influenced by one's own family, perhaps more so than the environment, and mainstream beauty standards.

 

[Celery]

Such a tired question. Of course not, even if they’re not sexually attracted to each other. They have nothing in common and don’t find the same things interesting

 

[𐒋𐒖𐒆𐒔𐒖𐒕𐒈]

Define "Pure africans", unlike other continents. Africa is too diverse for that, gaalo and ajnabis don't realise how diverse it really is. The Maghreb is pretty much it's own thing, east africans are also their own thing. West Africa itself is very diverse even genetically speaking because phenotype does not always mean genotype.

By employing the term 'pure', I was qualifying it to mean 'indigenous' including those in the West, Southern, and Central Africa, with no admixture of other ethnicities, whilst excluding those found in the North, and East, who are deemed settlers to the Continent.