Wallahi this is cap
you’re regurgitating word for word bar for bar red/ blackpill talking points which don’t even apply in our community. What Somali woman in her mid 30s is sitting around waiting for a man to come rescue her? & the ones with kids rarely divorce their husbands. Pls get out of your echo chambers
With his situation I honestly wasn't expecting him to prioritize xalimo unless he wanted to get married soon. If he wants to get married to a xalimos it would be way quicker and easier if he just flew back home.
If he wants to find love here in the west the best thing for him in his situation is to broaden his dating field. Limiting it to xalimos is a death sentence. As long as he doesn't look like this
or this
than bro should be fine. He's financially stable so right now all he needs to do is get in shape. If he gets in shape his dating range with women could honestly be from ages 25-45.
im trying to give bro some useful advice.
if he wants to start hoeing it's going to be hard to start since he's 36 and never dated women. At this point all he can do now is start tricking and become a sugar daddy to a bunch of hoes. That's what most single dudes above 30 do.
"What Somali woman in her mid 30s is sitting around waiting for a man to come rescue her? & the ones with kids rarely divorce their husbands. "
Not expecting him to prioritize xalimos at this point unless he moves back home. 30 year old westernized xalimos are in a different realm than him. Plus most 30+ year old women mainly want financially stable men.
Ironic that a whole man is viewing women in a more individualistic light then you fraud defenders
