If I want to learn self defense which one is better? I am too lazy to do an in depth research so here I am. I am 24 skinny and about 6ft. I want to totally wreck the next guy I get into a fight with. So far I have 50% win ratio In 2020 after 2 fights only because my last fight was against a Brazilian juitsu trainer wallahi I kid you all not. and I would like to drag that up to 80% at least. In this trump era Somali man should know how to defend himself and his family. What is better for overall self defense? I am leaning towards learning boxing because it less messy and less gay.