Black Women Dating White Men Support Group

[Aurelian]

The dillema of Americans, they don't want segregation but at the same point are against mixing.

I sometimes wonder each time I hear someone complaining about why race X woman married race Y guy, as if they have no other job to do.

 

[Angelina]

I don't advocate for race mixing but i point out the hypocrisy, any black dude who marries a white girl gets cooked in the comments go on insta, tiktok and twitter. The same never happens for black chicks we must end the hypocrisy

Black men go out of their way to say their women are ugly. Crying about it is pathetic. They might as well date out.

Also, tbh their behavior is similar to Somali men. Do they not hate it when Somali girls marry out but then have Abdiexit ect and celebrate when a Farax gets with an ajnabi?

Your self awareness is lacking.

 

[Lebron James]

Black men go out of their way to say their women are ugly. Crying about it is pathetic. They might as well date out.

Also, tbh their behavior is similar to Somali men. Do they not hate it when Somali girls marry out but then have Abdiexit ect and celebrate when a Farax gets with an ajnabi?

Your self awareness is lacking.

Go on lipstickalley and on youtube channels like cynthiag see what they say about black dudes and come back, you're only defending them because you are a woman. Stop being a hypocrite and choosing sides

 

[Dads]

Black men go out of their way to say their women are ugly. Crying about it is pathetic. They might as well date out.

Also, tbh their behavior is similar to Somali men. Do they not hate it when Somali girls marry out but then have Abdiexit ect and celebrate when a Farax gets with an ajnabi?

Your self awareness is lacking.

Cos they’d leave them like single mothers.

 

[Angelina]

Go on lipstickalley and on youtube channels like cynthiag see what they say about black dudes and come back, you're only defending them because you are a woman. Stop being a hypocrite and choosing sides

No, I actually see parallels between them and how some Somali men act and if you can't see it then you're a hypocrite.

Both hate IR relationships, but celebrate when they do it? Abdiexit, but abusing a Xalimo in the comments when she is with a non Somali.

I know you see it. Just admit.

 

[Lebron James]

No, I actually see parallels between them and how some Somali men act and if you can't see it then you're a hypocrite.

Both hate IR relationships, but celebrate when they do it? Abdiexit, but abusing a Xalimo in the comments when she is with a non Somali.

I know you see it. Just admit.

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[tariq moses]

Black men go out of their way to say their women are ugly. Crying about it is pathetic. They might as well date out.

As if African American women don't talk shit about African American men all day long on social media, it goes both ways, both are as bad as each other.

 

[sorevsa]

black women get offended far too easily. asian men have been getting slandered far far more than black women by their own for decades, you don't see them reacting the same way as bw.

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its a mateguarding tactic. somali chicks online bring down their own so other women don't see us as potential mates. thats why we have far more bad stereotypes than our women do. the idea is that we only have somali women as options while they branch out to other groups. if they can't for whatever reason our 'self esteem' will be low from all the slander that they can get back with us easily.

this is why i laugh when xalimos say stuff about faraxs not being able to get with ajanabis or us being ugly. theres a reason somali guys do well in all western diasporas with all groups of women compared to somalis women who you only see with blacks.

this ofc only really applies to online somali women, i doubt irl ones are as unhinged and care that much about putting our reputation down.

 

[Lebron James]

black women get offended far too easily. asian men have been getting slandered far far more than black women by their own for decades, you don't see them reacting the same way as bw.



its a mateguarding tactic. somali chicks online bring down their own so other women don't see us as potential mates. thats why we have far more bad stereotypes than our women do. the idea is that we only have somali women as options while they branch out to other groups. if they can't for whatever reason our 'self esteem' will be low from all the slander that they can get back with us easily.

this is why i laugh when xalimos say stuff about faraxs not being able to get with ajanabis or us being ugly. theres a reason somali guys do well in all western diasporas with all groups of women compared to somalis women who you only see with blacks.

this ofc only really applies to online somali women, i doubt irl ones are as unhinged and care that much about putting our reputation down.

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[Man with a garuun]

Is she grifting off swirlers? This is strange. What's even more off is they see this as an accomplishment. Very odd and desperate. Why attend a workshop for that? At least they aren't Somali scammers. So not our L. I do not think Somalis would pay nor need to try. I know this sounds sad but getting an ajnabi would be easy. Some of us just aren't interested. Is it that hard for them?

Could be a group of AA women who had bad experiences with AA men. People respond to their experiences. We were once renting a house located in a white neighborhood, and black women with kids were begging us to let rent it. Some stated they need to keep their distance from black-dominated neighborhoods.

Remember, there is no religious restriction between these 2 group of people.

 

[Sophisticate]

black women get offended far too easily. asian men have been getting slandered far far more than black women by their own for decades, you don't see them reacting the same way as bw.



its a mateguarding tactic. somali chicks online bring down their own so other women don't see us as potential mates. thats why we have far more bad stereotypes than our women do. the idea is that we only have somali women as options while they branch out to other groups. if they can't for whatever reason our 'self esteem' will be low from all the slander that they can get back with us easily.

this is why i laugh when xalimos say stuff about faraxs not being able to get with ajanabis or us being ugly. theres a reason somali guys do well in all western diasporas with all groups of women compared to somalis who you only see with blacks.

this ofc only really applies to online somali women, i doubt irl ones are as unhinged and care that much about putting our reputation down.

It's not mate guarding its socially inept keyboard warriors of both sexes with too much time. Ajnabi are not something to fear nor brag about unless you look miserable. In that case RIP. I will say one thing. You kids have lower self-esteem than older millennials. Gender wars were always around but it was confined to Somali spaces also older Abdis had higher self-esteem, thicker skin and could roll with the punches or craft quick comebacks.

 

[sorevsa]

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i only see this stuff from black women(somalis included), the most miserable race out of all women. never see white/asians complaining bout their men marrying out as much as these chicks. then they wonder why theyre the least desired on datings apps

It's not mate guarding its socially inept keyboard warriors of both sexes with too much time. Ajnabi are not something to fear nor brag about unless you look miserable. In that case RIP. I will say one thing. You kids have lower self-esteem than older millennials. Gender wars were always around but it was confined to Somali spaces also older Abdis had higher self-esteem, thicker skin and could roll with the punches or craft quick comebacks.

gender wars were mutual in those times and we all knew nobody was serious compared to now where some people have actual hatred for whatever reason.

talking bout the issue doesn't mean you don't have thick skin, has nothing to do with if youre offended or not. youre using the same rhetoric racists use when someone calls them out on their bs 'muh back in the day this was acceptable youre all soft now'.

and yes the definiton for what these femcels are doing is quite literally mateguarding.

 

[Shimbiris]

It's not mate guarding its socially inept keyboard warriors of both sexes with too much time. Ajnabi are not something to fear nor brag about unless you look miserable. In that case RIP. I will say one thing. You kids have lower self-esteem than older millennials. Gender wars were always around but it was confined to Somali spaces also older Abdis had higher self-esteem, thicker skin and could roll with the punches or craft quick comebacks.

Case in point: Sophisticate once called me a fat-assed vaccine taking waste so I called her a crazy cat-lady sociopath with a literal skeleton in her closet so she moved states and and had to assure the FBI I was lying. Quick comebacks.

 

[Angelina]

black women get offended far too easily. asian men have been getting slandered far far more than black women by their own for decades, you don't see them reacting the same way as bw.



its a mateguarding tactic. somali chicks online bring down their own so other women don't see us as potential mates. thats why we have far more bad stereotypes than our women do. the idea is that we only have somali women as options while they branch out to other groups. if they can't for whatever reason our 'self esteem' will be low from all the slander that they can get back with us easily.

this is why i laugh when xalimos say stuff about faraxs not being able to get with ajanabis or us being ugly. theres a reason somali guys do well in all western diasporas with all groups of women compared to somalis women who you only see with blacks.

this ofc only really applies to online somali women, i doubt irl ones are as unhinged and care that much about putting our reputation down.

Look at comments of Somali women marrying out vs Somali men.

Saying 'You can keep them' isn't the same as full blown calling any Somali girl that marries out a dh1llo and then creating Abdiexit. When many guys cus out a girl for marrying out, is that mate guarding?

Majority of the Somali community has an issues with women marrying out. So I don't understand how you can say Somali women have issues. Also there seems to be an obsession with madow men.

I don't know why you're being a hypocrite. There was literally a thread two days about IR and most of the guys here were going in on Somali girls that marry out. Even you commented!

 

[Dads]

It's not mate guarding its socially inept keyboard warriors of both sexes with too much time. Ajnabi are not something to fear nor brag about unless you look miserable. In that case RIP. I will say one thing. You kids have lower self-esteem than older millennials. Gender wars were always around but it was confined to Somali spaces also older Abdis had higher self-esteem, thicker skin and could roll with the punches or craft quick comebacks.

The man is allowed 4 wives we should not forget that.

 

[Unbothered]

White women date black men and have support groups, why can’t black women do the same

 

[Dads]

White women date black men and have support groups, why can’t black women do the same

It’s all about us all about me.

 

[sorevsa]

Look at comments of Somali women marrying out vs Somali men.

Saying 'You can keep them' isn't the same as full blown calling any Somali girl that marries out a and then creating Abdiexit. When many guys cus out a girl for marrying out, is that mate guarding?

Majority of the Somali community has an issues with women marrying out. So I don't understand how you can say Somali women have issues. Also there seems to be an obsession with madow men.

I don't know why you're being a hypocrite. There was literally a thread two days about IR and most of the guys here were going in on Somali girls that marry out. Even you commented!

read the xoogster sent. besides women express their emotions diff to men, those passive aggressive remarks have the same anger behind them akin to the guys

majority of somali community that care about women marrying out are boomers and few millenials and its all religious/cultural reasons. no guy i know talks about these topics irl
also its mostly somali habiyars that have a problem with interracial marriages, they'll see a xalimo w a white guy and gossip bout it. an adheer as long as it aint his daughter wont gaf.

you talking about the podcast one where those girls faked being half arab/european to get with their husbands? lol. if you read my comment in that thread you wouldn't even bring this up.

 

[Sophisticate]

Could be a group of AA women who had bad experiences with AA men. People respond to their experiences. We were once renting a house located in a white neighborhood, and black women with kids were begging us to let rent it. Some stated they need to keep their distance from black-dominated neighborhoods.

Remember, there is no religious restriction between these 2 group of people.

Churches are more segregated than Mosques. America is an odd place. They have employed redlining policies to prevent madows from living in cadaan neighbourhoods historically than employed it informally. There are entire middle class communities in the US that are madow and safe. So I don't know why they are fleeing. There are also communities with mixed demographics.

The man is allowed 4 wives we should not forget that.

What millennial born or raised in the west has more than one wife? My father doesn't believe in polygamy. And my grandparents only had one marriage. Monogamy is just as normal. Caadi iska dhiig.

i only see this stuff from black women(somalis included), the most miserable race out of all women. never see white/asians complaining bout their men marrying out as much as these chicks. then they wonder why theyre the least desired on datings apps



gender wars were mutual in those times and we all knew nobody was serious compared to now where some people have actual hatred for whatever reason.

talking bout the issue doesn't mean you don't have thick skin, has nothing to do with if youre offended or not. youre using the same rhetoric racists use when someone calls them out on their bs 'muh back in the day this was acceptable youre all soft now'.

and yes the definiton for what these femcels are doing is quite literally mateguarding.

The little confused Abdis dance whenever anyone marries a basic ajnabi. Then simultaneously hate on Halimos that marry ajnabis. Keep the same energy. I like consistency. I didn't see that in my generation Alx.

 

[Angelina]

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read the xoogster sent. besides women express their emotions diff to men, those passive aggressive remarks have the same anger behind them akin to the guys

majority of somali community that care about women marrying out are boomers and few millenials and its all religious/cultural reasons. no guy i know talks about these topics irl
also its mostly somali habiyars that have a problem with interracial marriages, they'll see a xalimo w a white guy and gossip bout it. an adheer as long as it aint his daughter wont gaf.

you talking about the podcast one where those girls faked being half arab/european to get with their husbands? lol. if you read my comment in that thread you wouldn't even bring this up.

Nah actually look at the comments on Tiktok, twitter ect and even sspot although the comments have become better in the last few yrs.

In every video of a Xalimo marrying out there are 100s of Abdis camped in her mentions calling her a dh1llo, self hater, her children aren't Somali ect. The insults are 10x worse than someone saying 'you can keep him sis'. Somali girls married to ajnabis can't even post an innocent pic with their non Somali husbands without being abused online.

It is 10x times worse when the guy they're married to is a black guy.

Even the article Xoogster sent acknowledges that the men are like that if you read it. They're worse as they think its acceptable for them and not women and even create stuff like Abdiexit.