Black abaya forced 😴

Espaa_

Ku sali nabiga {scw}
yes secular like uae now emarati girls wear colorful abayas, if they wear black abayas it has beautiful designs my dad says haraaammm this is all haram! jokes on him one of my aunties in uae from my dad's side wears colorful abaya and black abaya with designs he gets angry and got angry when he saw that she doesn't fully cover her hair with hijab cuz most emarati girls like to show their hair
thats crazy wth im sorry abayo
 

Espaa_

Ku sali nabiga {scw}
Also i agree about the self hate part i would say she has some to a certain level because she defends somalia when my dad says its a poor country. Like for example my mum doesn't friend somalis her friends are mostly arabs ok i understand she relates with arabs cuz she was raised in their country but its a bit too much she even said somalis in somalia their mindest is weird?? what does that even mean bruh idk!
isnt yemen not as poor as somalia? Only difference is one is arab the other african. My mother was raised in the khaleej and she doesnt interact with arabs at all even though she knows their language and culture. She prefers her own. But everybodys different in life.

How about your somali grandparents?
 
isnt yemen not as poor as somalia? Only difference is one is arab the other african. My mother was raised in the khaleej and she doesnt interact with arabs at all even though she knows their language and culture. She prefers her own. But everybodys different in life
I thought somalia had more money. Yemen has had war for more than a decade and some of them are starving..
 
isnt yemen not as poor as somalia? Only difference is one is arab the other african. My mother was raised in the khaleej and she doesnt interact with arabs at all even though she knows their language and culture. She prefers her own. But everybodys different in life
Yesss infact Yemen is way poor than Somalia like i wanted to say to my dad Yemen is war torn country stop acting like you're Saudi,qatari,Bahraini etc like the rich gulf countries
 
Ikr! Nope I never visited but inshallah I want to go to Hargeisa where my mum is from
Oh hargeisa is so nice. It has the best weather. Theres a cool breeze in the summer. Not too hot and not cold. Food is great too. They have a lot of fun places to go. Hope u go there one day.
 

mr.overeasy

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Your dad is actually doing too much :dead:
IDK man, she said she was wearing pants and stuff without him around on campus.

"When I reach to college I take out my black abaya and chill in my maxi elegant dresses last time I went with trousers omg that was scary it was the first time then ofc when I finish college and am near the house I put back on my open black abaya"

That is inviting trouble, I don't wear tight shirts showing my muscles when I go to campus, I wear non-form fitting stuff as a guy, women have it worse.

Women are naturally beautiful, she will find guys lining up trying to convince her of haram if she keeps it up not even trying to beautify herself.

While to colors are not something he should say is bad, for the most part he is correct about abayas and the society is ruining her views!

I would not send my daughter to a western uni because of this, not because they are incapable, but because people there want to slowly drag them to haram.

Today its pants and a maxi dress, tomorrow its short shorts, the stuff she admitted to wearing was already form fitting and haram.

Too many people on here either ignore islamic rules or toss it out completely, and that is the best way to destroy your life and your afterlife.

No hedonists are happy, and if this sister lets society convince her step by step to abandon Islam and do haram, she will join the ranks of depressed people in the west.

Look at tiktok, how many women and men are posting about their depressing lives sad about their state, they are all losers, and I have nothing but hope in my heart the original poster doesn't end up like them.
 
IDK man, she said she was wearing pants and stuff without him around on campus.

"When I reach to college I take out my black abaya and chill in my maxi elegant dresses last time I went with trousers omg that was scary it was the first time then ofc when I finish college and am near the house I put back on my open black abaya"

That is inviting trouble, I don't wear tight shirts showing my muscles when I go to campus, I wear non-form fitting stuff as a guy, women have it worse.

Women are naturally beautiful, she will find guys lining up trying to convince her of haram if she keeps it up not even trying to beautify herself.

While to colors are not something he should say is bad, for the most part he is correct about abayas and the society is ruining her views!

I would not send my daughter to a western uni because of this, not because they are incapable, but because people there want to slowly drag them to haram.

Today its pants and a maxi dress, tomorrow its short shorts, the stuff she admitted to wearing was already form fitting and haram.

Too many people on here either ignore islamic rules or toss it out completely, and that is the best way to destroy your life and your afterlife.

No hedonists are happy, and if this sister lets society convince her step by step to abandon Islam and do haram, she will join the ranks of depressed people in the west.

Look at tiktok, how many women and men are posting about their depressing lives sad about their state, they are all losers, and I have nothing but hope in my heart the original poster doesn't end up like them.
Black abaya is annoying especially since am in the uk I just don't like black abaya why would I leave islam😭 wanting to wear colorful abayas is not the next step to leaving islam am not even a trousers kind of girl I just wore it 1 time and didn't like it I am a dress kind of girl I like to express my femininity in cute elegant colorful abayas this is not haram this is just strict thinking from my dad
 
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i still wear hijab, but i think im going to take it off. but I usually just wear normal colored dresses and not the very long types, just loose blouse dresses and wear pants a lot. my little sister wears pants exclusively and my mom is also from somaliland so I think that's just your dad. the arab girls I know also don't wear black abaya exclusively, a lot of them don't even wear the hijab, so I think your dad is very extreme but UK Muslims are always a bit extreme it seems lol.
 
i still wear hijab, but i think im going to take it off. but I usually just wear normal colored dresses and not the very long types, just loose blouse dresses and wear pants a lot. my little sister wears pants exclusively and my mom is also from somaliland so I think that's just your dad. the arab girls I know also don't wear black abaya exclusively, a lot of them don't even wear the hijab, so I think your dad is very extreme but UK Muslims are always a bit extreme it seems lol.
yeah it's my dad yep all arabs girls i see dont wear black abaya omgg i hate uk muslims plus we got the whole dawah bros uk is full of second gen salafi muslims
 
IDK man, she said she was wearing pants and stuff without him around on campus.

"When I reach to college I take out my black abaya and chill in my maxi elegant dresses last time I went with trousers omg that was scary it was the first time then ofc when I finish college and am near the house I put back on my open black abaya"

That is inviting trouble, I don't wear tight shirts showing my muscles when I go to campus, I wear non-form fitting stuff as a guy, women have it worse.

Women are naturally beautiful, she will find guys lining up trying to convince her of haram if she keeps it up not even trying to beautify herself.

While to colors are not something he should say is bad, for the most part he is correct about abayas and the society is ruining her views!

I would not send my daughter to a western uni because of this, not because they are incapable, but because people there want to slowly drag them to haram.

Today its pants and a maxi dress, tomorrow its short shorts, the stuff she admitted to wearing was already form fitting and haram.

Too many people on here either ignore islamic rules or toss it out completely, and that is the best way to destroy your life and your afterlife.

No hedonists are happy, and if this sister lets society convince her step by step to abandon Islam and do haram, she will join the ranks of depressed people in the west.

Look at tiktok, how many women and men are posting about their depressing lives sad about their state, they are all losers, and I have nothing but hope in my heart the original poster doesn't end up like them.
i looked up what pants and maxi dress should be. got this:

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doesn't look that bad to me?
 

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