Being Intersex in a Somali Household - Intersex Xalimo tells her experience

[Timo Jareer and proud]

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[Material]

One of the saddest things ive seen on tik-tok for a long time

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

They should have raised ''her'' as a boy since from the information he's giving us he have stronger male characteristics. He doesnt get his period, and he has to tuck in his thing, and doesn't need a sports bra (probably because he's flat chested ). And also shame on his parents for shaming him for the way we was born. He cant help it.

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

They should have raised ''her'' as a boy since from the information he's giving us he have stronger male characteristics. He dont get his period, and he has to tuck in his thing, and doesnt need a sports bra. And also shame on his parents for shaming him for the way we was born. He cant help it.

She said in the comments of her other tiktok videos that she looks like a girl & hasn't hit puberty yet (she's 16 btw). Waa gabar

 

[Material]

They should have raised ''her'' as a boy since from the information he's giving us he have stronger male characteristics. He dont get his period, and he has to tuck in his thing, and doesnt need a sports bra. And also shame on his parents for shaming him for the way we was born. He cant help it.

but this must of been a shock and uncommon for these parents so we shouldnt place all the blame on them they are still human

 

[Jacki]

Oh man my heart breaks for this person. I’m so sorry babe

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

but this must of been a shock and uncommon for these parents so we shouldnt place all the blame on them they are still human

but since this is a medical condition I'm sure the doctors have explained to them what intersex is. The parents could have done better in my opinion. Hopefully they change there ways and stop seeing their intersex child as a burden.

 

[kickz]

She said in the comments of her other tiktok videos that she looks like a girl & hasn't hit puberty yet (she's 16 btw). Waa gabar

Could she not have corrective surgery done in that case.

 

[Jiron]

Nothing is worse than being judged for something you had no control over, and interesting thing I heard about our culture is that labeeb (intersex) always lean towards one gender more than the other, so when the child becomes of age, they are given a choice to choose their gender which also comes with name a change. However this is the first time I am hearing about the relationship aspect of it. I wish there is something that we can do to help her find happiness, because she deserves it.

 

[Lord]

I remember posting this question on sspot and someone asked what kind of a somali ask this kind of question. Wallahi i feel bad for them.

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

They should have raised ''her'' as a boy since from the information he's giving us he have stronger male characteristics. He doesnt get his period, and he has to tuck in his thing, and doesn't need a sports bra (probably because he's flat chested ). And also shame on his parents for shaming him for the way we was born. He cant help it.

You can’t see that on a baby they probably just went the way the doctor said
Why should they raise her female if it was obvious it was a boy ?
It was just an accident

 

[arawelo]

They should have raised ''her'' as a boy since from the information he's giving us he have stronger male characteristics. He doesnt get his period, and he has to tuck in his thing, and doesn't need a sports bra (probably because he's flat chested ). And also shame on his parents for shaming him for the way we was born. He cant help it.

He/she said they have female features and their older siblings are all girls so it’s easier to be a girl

 

[Molotoff]

Whats an intersex

 

[mr steal your naag]

I dont understand it is he gay?

 

[Alluring]

I dont understand it is he gay?

Intersex people are born with reproductive systems that don't fit into the regular female/male structure. That is why they are known as "intersex"

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

Whats an intersex

Intersex is a general term used for a variety of situations in which a person is born with reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn't fit the boxes of “female” or “male.”

 

[Alluring]

I thought intersex children are raised as intersex until they become of age and then can choose which gender they want to be. Can't she get estrogen and surgery to make her fit the woman category.

 

[Naacasfrompunt]

And we have Trans men turning into women cutting their private parts so they can be females while some people don’t even have a private part that’s fucked up

 

[Gladiolus]

I feel bad for her, in sha Allah she finds happiness

 

[Nafiso Qalanjo]

You should post this on FKDspot