Being a man

[Amk]

Whats the hardest part about being a man in modern day society?

 

[The alchemist]

To put it simply, anything that veers off the track of a man not being able to take care of his family is an issue that needs to be understood through many filters of human affairs. It can be the change in cultural and social forces, macro-economic problems like poverty, limitations in opportunities, even greater, the economic participatory expectation redefining gender relations, market needs in human skill incentivizing specific bias for characteristics in male personality. Many male-specific problems can be seen from a systemic lens.

Ask me as an individual, and my basic advice is contradictory to what's written above, emphasizing realism and pragmatism. Stop complaining about shit and go out and be somebody, take care of your people, don't stop improving while holding yourself accountable for your actions, choices, lack thereof, your relationship with people, things you have direct control over, and response management to what you can't control, etc.

 

[Clllam]

I don’t know because I’ve never been a woman

 

[NordicSomali]

not speaking about feelings...

 

[senor chang]

Being told not to cry

 

[Amk]

not speaking about feelings...

y do u want to speak about ur feelings

 

[NordicSomali]

y do u want to speak about ur feelings

because i have feelings...

 

[Kool-Aid]

This is the best time in history to be a man!

 

[Phiirso]

Proper Guidance

When you have no elder to teach you the proper way to live life, you tend to make mistakes that could've been avoided had you had that guidance in your life.

Tough luck, however, whether guided or not, you must figure out the trajectory of your life on your own.