Beauty digging.

[ReerVanCadde]

I like all girls I meet unfortunately, then some girls point out I'm always flirting astagfirullah. You know it's like eating cake.
If I'm eating lemon cake does that mean I hate banoffee, carrot or chocolate cakes?
May Allah calm my raging hormones insha'Allah.

 

[Angelina]

I like all girls I meet unfortunately, then some girls point out I'm always flirting astagfirullah. You know it's like eating cake.
If I'm eating lemon cake does that mean I hate banoffee, carrot or chocolate cakes?
May Allah calm my raging hormones insha'Allah.

Lol, seek help.

 

[Mercury]

Yep and no one expects a man to when he says he wants a beautiful wife. We all assume he will also take other things into consideration. People should have the same mentality when it comes to women as well.

This thread reminds me of this scene

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

First of all, women ABSOLUTELY MUST demand a man that is financially stable! Absolute must!! I wouldn’t want my sisters, cousins or future daughters to be with someone who isn’t able to support them. I’m pretty sure every man in his right mind would think the same.

Now that is out of the way, wealth=/=beauty. There are not equals at all! Neither in terms of actual tangible value and accessibility. There are dimes sprinkled all over the world, we hear of random beauties “discovered” in random ass third world countries. Simply walking out an about you’d run into beautiful women anywhere in the world.

Now as for wealthy people? Are they as common?! Nowhere near!! And I’m not talking about well-off people, I’m talking WEALTHY. Several properties and assets, consistently making over 300k/year. Don’t even get me started on millionaires!

Shit lacaag can make you beautiful! A nigga can splash a several hundred thousands in surgery and make his bland looking high school sweetheart look like a dime

Wealth if properly managed is a security and something that appreciate in value if you’ve made the right choices. Beauty is fleeting, it’s a depreciating asset.You’ll both be covered in wrinkles eventually

Reason some people give grief to women about seeking wealthy men, made men is because it is implied that she’d be living the easy life, and that’s why they’ll poke and question why do you deserve that?! Same way if an average/below average guy strictly seeks dimes while he ain’t much himself. Either way, if they can get it good for them, as it really doesn’t do much for me

 

[QueenofKings]

Reason some people give grief to women about seeking wealthy men, made men is because it is implied that she’d be living the easy life, and that’s why they’ll poke and question why do you deserve that?! Same way if an average/below average guy strictly seeks dimes while he ain’t much himself. Either way, if they can get it good for them, as it really doesn’t do much for me.

Agree but I think society is still way easier on that 4/10 brother who wants an 8/10 girl than they are on a girl saying she wants a wealthy man. But I defo agree there is an element of ‘what makes you think you deserve it’? And this is perhaps even more of an issue if the girl doesn’t fit the beauty standard.

Also, us girls are our own worse enemy - the competition is real. So many women love to shame, women who want to date affluent men and even stay at home mums because of their own jealousy and insecurity.

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

Agree but I think society is still way easier on that 4/10 bummy brother who wants an 8/10 girl than they are on a girl saying she wants a wealthy man. But I defo agree there is an element of ‘what makes you think you deserve it’? And this is perhaps even more of an issue if the girl doesn’t fit the beauty standard.

Also, us girls are our own worse enemy - the competition is real. So many women love to shame, women who want to date affluent men and even stay at home mums because of their own jealousy and insecurity.

Completely agree about women being women’s greatest enemy! I’ve never heard any man berate or insult a woman like another woman would. Sometimes shit just leave me looking like this

As for society being easier on 4/10 men seeking 8/10 women, I’d disagree to be honest. Nigga would get laughed at, dismissed and never taken seriously. It might not be talked about as openly and as often, but guys like that are NEVER taken seriously, neither by men nor women. And they shouldn’t

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

It's because of social control and hypergamy.

Basically, people want the best that they can get, but life works differently for men and women. This is basically my perspective in my 27 years of living on Earth.

Men are expected to engage with women, to court them into dating, romancing or marrying them. Women, although just as able of doing this, are generally expected to have guys go to them.

Because of this mating dynamic, there are certain strategies that are employed to get the best outcome.

For men, there is generally a quadrant, where one axis is related to going for easy women vs challenging women. The other axis is related to going for a lot of women at once vs focusing on one at a time. Here are the results:

1. Easy women + a lot at a time: basic fuckboi mindset. Get em, fk em, leave em. Rinse and repeat. Generally a follower of hedonistic philosophical mindsets.

2. Challenging + a lot at a time: playboy. Romance for them is about excitement. They get a rush for going for difficult women.

3. Easy woman + one at a time: life on easy mode. Doesn't want to work hard for a woman. No hate on this guy. He'll prob get bored. Then again, so will she lol. Generally into relationships and marriage.

4. Challenging woman + one at a time: wanting the best for marriage. Works hard to be the best. Gets the best. Makes a family with the best. Most woman think of this guy for marriage, without realizing they may not be the woman he's thinking about, which is why they get frustrated when they get hit on by guy number 3.


I'm not gonna get into women, cause I ain't an expert on them. However, knowing this sort explains the taboo.

If a man can guilt trip a woman into lowering her standards, she becomes less challenging. This makes mating easier. This makes life easier. It's a biological strategy. Not acknowledging that its hypocritical means potentially getting a hot woman. Eating their cake while keeping it too.

That's my perspective.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

Agree but I think society is still way easier on that 4/10 brother who wants an 8/10 girl than they are on a girl saying she wants a wealthy man. But I defo agree there is an element of ‘what makes you think you deserve it’? And this is perhaps even more of an issue if the girl doesn’t fit the beauty standard.

Also, us girls are our own worse enemy - the competition is real. So many women love to shame, women who want to date affluent men and even stay at home mums because of their own jealousy and insecurity.

This is because mating is a strategy game. If you can shame a woman. That's more men on you and less on her. That gives you more options, which means you'll increase your probability of being in a happy marriage.

The game is fucked.

 

[Halimo-2018]

It bothers them cus they broke lol "A man who has nothing to give will talk about love"

 

[Revolutionary]

Thats all fine and all however what if hypothetically speaking he loses his job or lost a lot of money somehow, would you stay with him as he recovers or would you ditch him, the answer determines all @Desert Flower @Angelina and whoever it may concern

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

What would you rather have FLAWLESS looks, like 12/10 natural beauty.

or you’re like Chloe Kardashian, ugly kid born into millions.

this would settle the whole is money and beauty equal talks

 

[Angelina]

This is because mating is a strategy game. If you can shame a woman. That's more men on you and less on her. That gives you more options, which means you'll increase your probability of being in a happy marriage.

The game is fucked.

I think you're forgetting that the women who often behave this way tend to have zero sense of self preservation. If that was their motivation, they wouldn't be be dating broke men as well. Sadly, they shame women to get the attention of men that really can't offer them much and expect women to also have little self interest, all in the name of 'love'.

You'll often see these women talk about riding or dying for their man. Talk about car dates and shaming women into splitting or paying for dates.

Men in general care too much about what benefits them to behave this way.

 

[Angelina]

Thats all fine and all however what if hypothetically speaking he loses his job or lost a lot of money somehow, would you stay with him as he recovers or would you ditch him, the answer determines all @Desert Flower @Angelina and whoever it may concern

If your wife loses her beauty or becomes old, would you stay?

Sounds like a silly question right?

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

I think you're forgetting that the women who often behave this way tend to have zero sense of self preservation. If that was their motivation, they wouldn't be be dating broke men as well. Sadly, they shame women to get the attention of men that really can't offer them much and expect women to also have little self interest, all in the name of 'love'.

You'll often see these women talk about riding or dying for their man. Talk about car dates and shaming women into splitting or paying for dates.

Well there's a difference between wanting sex and wanting stability. All depends on the woman's desire afterall. Which is why I'm cool with honesty. I may not respect what you want, but at least I know what you want and can react accordingly.

 

[TheManWhoIsAlive]

Thats all fine and all however what if hypothetically speaking he loses his job or lost a lot of money somehow, would you stay with him as he recovers or would you ditch him, the answer determines all @Desert Flower @Angelina and whoever it may concern

Quite the dilemma. More likely to become common in our volatile economy.

 

[Bronco]

What would you rather have FLAWLESS looks, like 12/10 natural beauty.

or you’re like Chloe Kardashian, ugly kid born into millions.

this would settle the whole is money and beauty equal talks

That's for niggas though. And option 1 every damn time.

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

If your wife loses her beauty or becomes old, would you stay?

Sounds like a silly question right?

My question wasn’t silly.

12/10 natural beauty, drop dead gorgeous, a physical specimen of raw beauty.

OR

You’re born into a filthy rich family, but your ugly.

Choose 1.

 

[Angelina]

My question wasn’t silly.

12/10 natural beauty, drop dead gorgeous, a physical specimen of raw beauty.

OR

You’re born into a filthy rich family, but your ugly.

Choose 1.

I would choose the second option. Riches can turn unattractive people to beautiful. Kylie Jenner is one such example.

 

[Revolutionary]

If your wife loses her beauty or becomes old, would you stay?

Sounds like a silly question right?

Wealth is easier to lose, what's your answer

 

[Ghengis Kaarhis]

That's for niggas though. And option 1 every damn time.

I’d take option 1 as well.

I’m already handsome
But if I was an Adonis

And I got pride, I’d want to make my own millions, even if born into a rich family, I’d still have the urge/need to carve something for myself