Arranged Marriages

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Assata

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How do you guys feel about them?

Do you have any personal experiences with arranged marriages?

Personally I have three childhood friends that all had their marriages arranged.

Tbh honest they don't seem happy with their marriages.

Why do you guys think it's still being practiced today even in western countries?
 
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Assata Shakur said:
How do you guys feel about them?

Do you have any personal experiences with arranged marriages?

Personally I have three childhood friends that all had their marriages arranged.

Tbh honest they don't seem happy with their marriages.

Why do you guys think it's still being practiced today even in western countries?
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Arranged marriages are the best, I go to somalia and get to pick the hottest looking one in my relatives and the best thing is that they obey anything I tell them to do. I'm gonna get an 18 year old :banderas:
 
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This type of arrangement works best with an experienced dude and doing this back home. I wouldn't really call it arranged the way Somali's do it because it's totally different from other cultures.

If you ever hear of an arranged marriage in the west it's usually a dumb basement dwelling kid completely out of touch with the world, being paired with an highly inexperienced mostly unwanted/undesirable women, a recipe for disaster when two such people come together, hence the high failure rates.

Two low-self esteem people coming together is an explosion waiting to happen, and only women of that mold usually OK with such arrangements, every other desirable women regardless of her upbringing instantly rejects such guys, on the basis he must be a loser that can't fend for himself, hence is desperate because other women don't want him which ruins his value. (which is how they think)
 
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Inquisitive_ said:
This type of arrangement works best with an experienced dude and doing this back home. I wouldn't really call it arranged the way Somali's do it because it's totally different from other cultures.

If you ever hear of an arranged marriage in the west it's usually a dumb basement dwelling kid completely out of touch with the world, being paired with an highly inexperienced mostly unwanted/undesirable women, a recipe for disaster when two such people come together, hence the high failure rates, two low-self esteem people coming together is an explosion waiting to happen.

In Somalia your a lunatic if you try to find for yourself and don't go the arranged route, the women their are so highly skilled, you will very easily get hoodwinked regardless of your experience, the best ones are all protected well and you simply won't find them anywhere without solid connections, hence arranged marriage is the only route.
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No my that's not the case for all arranged marriages in the west.
I can tell you my friends were not unwanted or undesirable.

One of my friends her family was extremely wealthy so her family decided to keep the wealth in the family by marrying my friend off to her cousin.

And my other two friends had their moms arrange their marriage to each other (one of my childhood friends was a girl and the other was a guy) because their families were also very close.

It's a lot more common than you might think.
A lot of the girls I grew up with ended up in arranged marriages.
 
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Assata Shakur said:
No my that's not the case for all arranged marriages in the west.
I can tell you my friends were not unwanted or undesirable.

One of my friends her family was extremely wealthy so her family decided to keep the wealth in the family by marrying my friend off to her cousin.

And my other two friends had their moms arrange their marriage to each other (one of my childhood friends was a girl and the other was a guy) because their families were also very close.

It's a lot more common than you might think.
A lot of the girls I grew up with ended up in arranged marriages.
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That's totally different and two opposite extreme spectrum, I have seen wadaad's that marry off their kids to each other at a young age to preserve their chastity which I support, although they pick similar aged people which is stupid, there should be 7+ years gap between them.

This is usually done at a young age and I wouldn't really call this arranged, as for the wealthy families, this stuff is common practice, it's extremely rare for a wealthy women to marry a poor dude and since they are Somali and not many around, her only option is to rely on her mother to bring one or marry from a different race.

These are just exceptions to this rule and the few that work, but generally in the west, it's an arrangement between the unwanted, low-self-esteem & undesirables. You sometimes get the 30+ girl that rode that cock carousel for years and has all avenues closed to her that also takes this route, but that's because of the biological clock and even then those marriages fail.

It's like the dude you spotted drinking Alcohol, you will assume he always has, not that this was his first drink (which theoretically is possible)
 
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Arrange marriage is the vest type of marriage.

Dating is the worst type of getting engaged and then getting married

Dating you wont get to know the individual. Because everyone is going to have a fake personality .
 
Assata

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Inquisitive_ said:
I have seen wadaad's that marry off their kids to each other at a young age to preserve their chastity which I support, although they pick similar aged people which is stupid, there should be 7+ years gap between them.
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War what kind of a person are you Inquisitive???
 
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I don't like the idea of getting married to someone you barely know.
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I don't think that's how arranged marriages work for us, we're not Indian. u still get to know the person, the only thing arranged about it is that it was at ur parents' suggestion
 
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Arranged marriage is not a Somali domain. You can rest assured that your parents will not try and hook your sjw ass with anyone else.

Surprisingly arranged marriages do seem to work. Love can come afterwards contrary to europhile beliefs.

I hope you guys are not confusing arranged marriage with forced marriage. People in the west typically do not understand the difference. They somehow manage to equate the two.
 
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I doubt many somalis practice arranged marriage. Its mostly the parents finding you what they think is a suitable spouse and you guys get to know each other and if you guys click then all good if not then you guys get to call it off. It actually works surprisingly well tbh a lot of my cousins had their parents find them spouses and one of my cousin actually got to marry a model like super xalimo I bet most of the guys couldn't take their eyes off her during the wedding :banderas:
 
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