Are somali guys babied

[Dalmoor]

Istubidhyahow af soomali garan meysid. I’m number one when it comes to Somali culture. Gambadh waa symbol of Somali culture.

Really? I think it was a three legged chair. Maybe you need to learn more somali

 

[Gambar]

Really? I think it was a three legged chair. Maybe you need to learn more somali

It is equivalent to a stool that women sit on while making laxoox.

 

[Dalmoor]

It is equivalent to a stool that women sit on while making laxoox.

I'm still right. This is the gambar I was talking about

 

[Mercury]

I used to hate cooking and cleaning I found it boring it was when my mom had health problems I took it upon myself to cook for the family

So at 9 I rushed home before my mom comes from work so I could prepare food for me my siblings and grandma

 

[kickz]

I used to hate cooking and cleaning I found it boring it was when my mom had health problems I took it upon myself to cook for the family

So at 9 I rushed home before my mom comes from work so I could prepare food for me my siblings and grandma

Were you jealous your brothers got to sit around and play Fifa

 

[Mercury]

Were you jealous your brothers got to sit around and play Fifa

Actually I teached them aswell after we where done we played fifa

 

[Dalmoor]

Actually I teached them aswell after we where done we played fifa

Just a help

Taught*

as well*

Do you mean to say, "After we 'were' done playing FIFA"?

Or After they were done playing FIFA?

"Where" is an adverb while "were" is a verb. They got different meanings too.

 

[Kratos]

Who here was babied by thier mothers ? I think this is a trope people just accept cuz I never was, I damn near raised myself since the age of 10 tf

Somali guys are not babied. These girls are just mad that hooyo macaan makes them cook and clean. If you take away cooking and cleaning, what responsibilities do Somali girls have that the boys don't? Somali girls have mommy issues.

 

[Kratos]

Yesterday I came home from work and I was gonna go into the kitchen and make myself some food. As soon as I picked up a plate my mum was like to my sister "Naaya soo soco! Wiilka gaajo baa heyso ee kaaley wax u cuno u sameey!" I could tell that my sister was salty about it because she made me some nasty shit.

 

[Dalmoor]

Yesterday I came home from work and I was gonna go into the kitchen and make myself some food. As soon as I picked up a plate my mum was like to my sister "Naaya soo soco! Wiilka gaajo baa heyso ee kaaley wax u cuno u sameey!" I could tell that my sister was salty about it because she made me some nasty shit.

This is Gold

because she made me some NASTY ShiT

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

Somali girls have mommy issues.

I have been saying this shit for years

 

[Mercury]

Just a help

Taught*

as well*

Do you mean to say, "After we 'were' done playing FIFA"?

Or After they were done playing FIFA?

"Where" is an adverb while "were" is a verb. They got different meanings too.

English is my third language I do fine with it

 

[Saalax Bidaar]

Man no my parents shipped me to Somali outback in the Hawd in Occupied Somali Galbeed

I was tasked with looking after the camels with my cousins.

They pit me against other kids and when I lose a match, They beat me like a red headed orphan.
I was weak.

But after a while I became tough as nails. I also became great in wrestling and they accepted and respected me enough to carry a gun, tooray and a gudin

What a life!

 

[Sambuus]

Somali guys are not babied. These girls are just mad that hooyo macaan makes them cook and clean. If you take away cooking and cleaning, what responsibilities do Somali girls have that the boys don't? Somali girls have mommy issues.

I don’t cook or clean at all tbh. But i still notice in other somali households that the boys usually get babied a lot more than the women.

 

[Genesisx72]

yes, and I'm no exception

 

[Mercury]

I don’t cook or clean at all tbh. But i still notice in other somali households that the boys usually get babied a lot more than the women.

Those parents are crippling the son he’s going to expect the wife to take care of everything in the house just like his mom did

They should prepare them for adulthood

 

[Sambuus]

Those parents are crippling the son he’s going to expect the wife to take care of everything in the house just like his mom did

They should prepare them for adulthood

Exactly, and that’s what’s wrong with the majority of the somali odeeyal and men. They think just because they got babied by their mother, that the wife will take care of everything while they’re outside a local cofe shop drinking shaah and being a harami police

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Who here was babied by thier mothers ? I think this is a trope people just accept cuz I never was, I damn near raised myself since the age of 10 tf

I guess it’s really just depends. Like for example for some families The oldest are boys so the dudes do a lot of the household chores. I’m an example of this. My sisters are both under the age of 12. They just chill around the crib watch YouTube and play fortnite.

I also know a few other families like this as well.

Last ramadan some eedo looked at me like this when she saw me helping my mom make some sambusa.

 

[Dalmoor]

English is my third language I do fine with it

Good for you

 

[Kratos]

I don’t cook or clean at all tbh. But i still notice in other somali households that the boys usually get babied a lot more than the women.

Girls get spoiled and babied by their fathers and boys get spoiled and babied by their mothers. Somali mothers are usually more tough on their daughters because they try to raise them into what they think is a responsible woman. This often comes with a whole heap of pre-determined gender roles like cooking and cleaning. Fathers do the same for the boys. Somali dads can be very harsh on their sons. Maybe since so many diaspora Somalis come from single mother households, the girls don't experience a father's care/protection.

If Somali boys are babied by their mothers then the girls are babied by their fathers. The ones who grew up without a father however may have negative experiences and develop mummy issues.