Are my parents open minded

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My siblings and I are allowed to be In relationships before marriage.
But my parents just need to know.
Like I am allowed to go on a date with a guy even without a mahram around.

I told this to my somali friend and she was shocked, she said that's totally not allowed in her household, she can only talk on the phone with him with her family around. Which is the correct islamic way I agree. But that's too awkward for me.

How are your parents when you are getting to know someone?

 

[Amazonian]

Yeah def modern Somalis
My girls wont be dating no nigga. I'm no dayuus

 

[Drago]

My parents are chill
But if I had a daughter ?

 

[KingSomali999]

yeh your parents are open minded and you should be happy they see things are that way. it seems like they trust you not to do haram things with a guy even when their around and that’s a sign of a good relationship with your parents. i’m guessing you live in the west too?

 

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yeh your parents are open minded and you should be happy they see things are that way. it seems like they trust you not to do haram things with a guy even when their around and that’s a sign of a good relationship with your parents.

Or maybe it's just how they got to know each other too.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Yeah def modern Somalis
My girls wont be dating no nigga. I'm no dayuus

It's not dating though, it's getting to know stage, without being intimate.

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

I remember when I was 16 I got caught lackin chatting on my Phone with a girl in the living room on WhatsApp and my mom saw it
She was like: astagfirullah , khasaaro , who taught you that etc and my dad gave me that face
So yes your parents are Open minded

 

[KingSomali999]

Or maybe it's just how they got to know each other too.

yeh but it’s hard tho specially from the dads side cuz he knows what every guy wants from a girl,and that they’re i’ll try to charm u for it

 

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I remember when I was 16 I got caught lackin chatting on my Phone in the living room on WhatsApp and my mom saw it
She was like: astagfirullah , khasaaro , who taught you that etc and my dad gave me that face
So yes your parents are Open minded

My brothers use to date white girls since primary school and my parents they would say nothing lmao.

 

[Ciyaalka Xaafada]

My brothers use to date white girls since primary school and my parents they would say nothing lmao.

I had always to do this whole dating ting til 18 Hidden ☠
Girlfriends were Like: iNtRoDuCe Me To Ur PaReNtS

 

[salma saluuni]

Yeah def modern Somalis
My girls wont be dating no nigga. I'm no dayuus

Cos you know there’s niggas out there like you soo maha

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

Yeah def modern Somalis
My girls wont be dating no nigga. I'm no dayuus

 

[BobSmoke]

Your parents are open minded.

My parents never complained about my dating. Because I dont move reckless with my shit.

However I'll be damned if I catch my sister dating.
I have to brainwash her with wisdom of male deception tactics and what to look for in a guy.
She kinda scared of dating cause of me.....I think

 

[Amazonian]

Cos you know there’s niggas out there like you soo maha

Every man at the dinner table is thinking about whether he goin get sum tonight while you're smiling, enjoying yourself and being all innocent and shit. The whole time he's undressing you with his eyes, he ain't hand that debit card over for free shorty. Whatchu you think, he being nice?
Nah no ones going on a date

 

[Amazonian]

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This the right time to be a hypocrite dumbass
Or are you okay with your daughters turning up just because you a G?

 

[Amazonian]

It's not dating though, it's getting to know stage, without being intimate.

What happens after you've gotten to know the person?
Continue talking?

 

[Drago]

What happens after you've gotten to know the person?
Continue talking?

You think its hands holding time? Shes a haliimo not japanese
The second step is ofc making him canjeero as he watches football

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

This the right time to be a hypocrite dumbass
Or are you okay with your daughters turning up just because you a G?

Don't include me in this I don't do tht to girl or girls
And yes I wouldn't let my daughter or daughters date or be with non guardian man or man's

 

[Sumaaya]

My siblings and I are allowed to be In relationships before marriage.
But my parents just need to know.
Like I am allowed to go on a date with a guy even without a mahram around.

I told this to my somali friend and she was shocked, she said that's totally not allowed in her household, she can only talk on the phone with him with her family around. Which is the correct islamic way I agree. But that's too awkward for me.

How are your parents when you are getting to know someone?

I don’t know about right or wrong but I’m not talking to no guy on the phone with my family present, they will only be informed when everything is almost finalised InshAllah

 

[Sumaaya]

Are the open minded? I don’t know tbh

Are they okay with casual dating or getting to know someone with the intent of marriage?
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