Anyone realize their standards get more realistic as they get older?

[Basra]

Did your standards drop or you learned more about yourself? It’s good to be realistic but don’t put yourself down.

 

[Kalsoon]

 

[Ozymandias]

What if a man doesn't have any standards , and would do every woman

 

[Netflix]

Visit the nearest shopping center and look at the first ten couples. What is the percentage of guys who look like male models? The answer is almost none. What does that tell you?

Subpar to average-looking men can get with pretty girls. But it won't be as strong a relationship as it would be if you were attractive.

Invest in your face, and you won't have to lower those standards. I can help you if you let me.

 

[Basra]

Visit the nearest shopping center and look at the first ten couples. What is the percentage of guys who look like male models? The answer is almost none. What does that tell you?

Subpar to average-looking men can get with pretty girls. But it won't be as strong a relationship as it would be if you were attractive.

Invest in your face, and you won't have to lower those standards. I can help you if you let me.

 

[Abdirazaq]

What if a man doesn't have any standards , and would do every woman

You’re talking about men who commit zina and are engaged in the degenerate lifestyle. I have some level of standards when it comes to physical attractiveness, it’s just not too high of a bar I’d say.

As long as they aren’t overweight and have a face I could see myself loving overtime I’m good. No need to be super pretty is essentially what I’m fine with, I’d say my standards are much higher when it comes to behaviour. I might be truamatized by all the crazy/emotionally unavailable women in my life growing up.

 

[Yami]

When I was younger I only felt attracted to women who were pretty and fun to be around but now that I’ve gotten older I think my standards dropped, maybe as a realization that it’ll probably be hard for me to attarct a pretty somali women. In fact that idea of being with a pretty Xalimo as a wife is kinda intimidating ngl, I’d much prefer to have a close and intimate relationship with a Xalimo who’s a 4-6 out of ten in looks with a BMI of under 26, that’s calm, mature, kind and never went through the “fun” faze than be with a pretty Xalimo who gets attention from everyone but doesn’t want to settle down.

What do you guys think? Is it low self esteem or has my standards become more realistic as I’ve become older valuing appearance less and who they are as a person more.

I’ve only felt like that when I let myself go. Moment I feel like wanting to attract a good looking girl again I start the push ups workouts and bi weekly fade cuts immediately

 

[GaradShabeel]

I’ve only felt like that when I let myself go. Moment I feel like wanting to attract a good looking girl again I start the push ups workouts and bi weekly fade cuts immediately

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[Basra]

You’re talking about men who commit zina and are engaged in the degenerate lifestyle. I have some level of standards when it comes to physical attractiveness, it’s just not too high of a bar I’d say.

As long as they aren’t overweight and have a face I could see myself loving overtime I’m good. No need to be super pretty is essentially what I’m fine with, I’d say my standards are much higher when it comes to behaviour. I might be truamatized by all the crazy/emotionally unavailable women in my life growing up.

 

[Yami]

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