Anyone else scared of having a daughter in the west?

[Mozart]

Have kids with a woman whose ethnicity you won’t find twerking on TikTok inshallah ya ikhwan.

 

[Angelina]

Have kids with a woman whose ethnicity you won’t find twerking on TikTok inshallah ya ikhwan.

You find that in every other ethnicity. You probably haven’t noticed as you’re too busy being a self-hater. As a Somali guy you lot have bigger fish to fry and for all of those Somali girls twerking, behind her is an odey who refused to parent his daughter and choose Fadi ku dir Dir, unemployment and a secret second wife he can’t afford. Don’t be like many of your father’s gen, do better.

 

[R1ALIST]

Have kids with a woman whose ethnicity you won’t find twerking on TikTok inshallah ya ikhwan.

This comment so that leaves what yemeni women only?

 

[Juke]

Have kids with a woman whose ethnicity you won’t find twerking on TikTok inshallah ya ikhwan.

Spittin facts like always walaal

 

[Angelina]

Spittin facts like always walaal

Are you not married to a gaal? I’d be worried about my children’s aqeedah tbh. A daughter that twerks on TikTok is far better than a gaal who doesn’t even understand Salah.

 

[Khaem]

Why are you men never scared for the deen of your sons? It seems to me that you’re okay with your sons potentially going hell as it’s never about raising the boys but about your daughters?

What about the high rates of sons selling drugs? Boys also getting into relationships and committing Zina? Boys questioning the deen? We have a lot of Kafr male posters here? Yet miraculously, you lot never worry about that do you?

Btw, freemixing is a problem back home as well. ‘Shukaansi’ is normal back home and girls would often talk to a few guys before marrying. In fact I’d say really practicing families in the West have a better understanding of how haram freemixing is than back home.

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[Khaem]

Spittin facts like always walaal

Never seen an Asian twerk on tik tok. Mashallah it's time to go to Japan and make some Geelgire Samurai abdis ready to go kamikaze for dar Al islam

 

[Angelina]

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Talk about what exactly? I believe in holding both men and women accountable.
Am I the one who started this thread talking about how they’re only afraid for their daughter but not their sons? No I don’t think so.

 

[Angelina]

Never seen an Asian twerk on tik tok. Mashallah it's time to go to Japan and make some Geelgire Samurai abdis ready to go kamikaze for dar Al islam

Another self-hater detected. I’ve seen many actually dancing on the gram. The fact that you’ll praise gaals over your own Muslim sisters and put us down says everything.

 

[Khaem]

Another self-hater detected. I’ve seen many actually dancing on the gram. The fact that you’ll praise gaals over your own Muslim sisters and put us down says everything.

It was a joke gahhhhhdamn

Don't worry ayeeyo I'll be marrying a girl from Djbouti

 

[FarmingNomad]

Have kids with a woman whose ethnicity you won’t find twerking on TikTok inshallah ya ikhwan.

Relatively, somalis aren't that bad tbh. Definitely much worse out there

 

[FarmingNomad]

Another self-hater detected. I’ve seen many actually dancing on the gram. The fact that you’ll praise gaals over your own Muslim sisters and put us down says everything.

Thread aside, I dislike folks who put down Somalis while praising others. We've got a lot of sisters who pray, wear hijab and are modest, and there's many ethnic groups far worse than us. I'm yet to see any ethnic group with a spotless record on tiktok; if you're desperate to paint most of your women as harlots, I suspect you have a cuck fetish.

Reminds me of those weirdos on twitter who paint somali women as "the most promiscuous muslim women"

 

[Juke]

Are you not married to a gaal? I’d be worried about my children’s aqeedah tbh. A daughter that twerks on TikTok is far better than a gaal who doesn’t even understand Salah.

This is MEN's business Angie, you wouldn't understand

 

[bluebird]

how about your sons? this is one of the serious problems with somalis in the west, only concerned with what your daughters do this obsession with only focusing on keeping your girls from sinning is why all somali parents are crying 20 years down the road when the sons they thought wouldnt be a problem are the reason they are greying

 

[Abdisamad]

It doesn't matter where your daughter is born what matters is are you a good father whom your daughter respect and look up to.

 

[Barni]

If u get ur daughter to be more career oriented she is less likely to throw it back on a yacht.

 

[Leila]

It seems like some of you guys have never been in Somalia, some kids there get wild just like the ones in the west, unless you live in some tuulo.

 

[iskufilann]

There's nothing to be afraid of tbh. If you raise your daughter in the correct manner and teach her the deen, then you're good to go as you did your part by raising her the right way.

 

[Waa dhamatay]

Being le good father is a cope. Unless you’re a psychic whose able to figure out the perfect approach to raising your kids by reading their mind and what they react well do, most likely you’ll be mediocre no matter hard you try.

Everybody thinks they’re going to be a good parent then 90% end up being middling or worse despite trying their best.

Having a promiscuous daughter or saqajaan son is definitely a legit fear because you might try to instill good values etc and end up being that strict overbearing father with rebellious and repressed kids. Or you may take a moderate approach and end up being a ‘lenient’ father who’s kids take him for granted etc etc. You can’t really control the outcome.

There’s nothing you can do but pray to Allah subhana wa ta’ala

 

[Khaem]

Being le good father is a cope. Unless you’re a psychic whose able to figure out the perfect approach to raising your kids by reading their mind and what they react well do, most likely you’ll be mediocre no matter hard you try.

Everybody thinks they’re going to be a good parent then 90% end up being middling or worse despite trying their best.

Having a promiscuous daughter or saqajaan son is definitely a legit fear because you might try to instill good values etc and end up being that strict overbearing father with rebellious and repressed kids. Or you may take a moderate approach and end up being a ‘lenient’ father who’s kids take him for granted etc etc. You can’t control the outcome.

There’s nothing you can do but pray to Allah subhana wa ta’ala

the parenting is a big part of raising kids but also the environment they are born and raised in will play a big part in how they live.