Any Somalis here with a wide jaw?

Thank you. :salute: Long ago I used to assume that this was once the natural order of things. I realize people often speak from a place of experience (some are savory others are not). No one is by any means perfect but I will say I was lucky to be raised by an intelligent and emotionally and available father, Alhamduilah.

Your welcome, alhamdulaah
A lot more mothers should teach their boys how to become good father someday, it'll help everyone lead a better life. Its currently Somali society's weakest link in the chain
 

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Your welcome, alhamdulaah
A lot more mothers should teach their boys how to become good father someday, it'll help everyone lead a better life. Its currently Somali society's weakest link in the chain

All one can do is try their best to raise an emotionally well-adjusted male that is attuned, self-assured, independent, responsible and faithful to the best of their ability. :farmajoyaab:
 
All one can do is try their best to raise an emotionally well-adjusted male that is attuned, self-assured, independent, responsible and faithful to the best of their ability. :farmajoyaab:

Hope Allah gives you success in your endeavours.

Just dont know how your going to find a husband, a somali one at that, that would be up to your standards. Their very..... very rare, your gonna have to pray really hard lol
 

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Hope Allah gives you success in your endeavours.

Just dont know how your going to find a husband, a somali one at that, that would be up to your standards. Their very..... very rare, your gonna have to pray really hard lol

@Saredo intends on introducing me to some very suitable bachelors from beesha. :sass2: To be honest, I have met quite a few who have matched my criteria. Timing is everything and I wasn't in the headspace to settle down. Insh'Allah we will see what happens.
 
@Saredo intends on introducing me to some very suitable bachelors from beesha. :sass2: To be honest, I have met quite a few who have matched my criteria. Timing is everything and I wasn't in the headspace to settle down. Insh'Allah we will see what happens.

Inshallah, all the best
You should seize your opportunities especially if you got high standards because its not like their be there for you to choose all the time.

Remind your father to remember you in his prayers
 

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Inshallah, all the best
You should seize your opportunities especially if you got high standards because its not like their be there for you to choose all the time.

Remind your father to remember you in his prayers
:stressed: My issue isn't a lack of options. Rather it's the contentedness with my current state. My desire for freedom clashes with the time, effort and energy demands of being in a relationship. Insh'Allah we will see what happens with time.
 

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:stressed: My issue isn't a lack of options. Rather it's the contentedness with my current state. My desire for freedom clashes with the time, effort and energy demands of being in a relationship. Insh'Allah we will see what happens with time.
Indeed we’ll see what happens with time. :reallymaury:
 
Thank you. :salute: Long ago I used to assume that this was once the natural order of things. I realize people often speak from a place of experience (some are savory others are not). No one is by any means perfect but I will say I was lucky to be raised by an intelligent and emotionally and available father, Alhamduilah.
adeer did a wonderful job!

i'd love to treat him to a night of khat near tog wajaale.:salute:
 
:stressed: My issue isn't a lack of options. Rather it's the contentedness with my current state. My desire for freedom clashes with the time, effort and energy demands of being in a relationship. Insh'Allah we will see what happens with time.

I see
Well that's very interesting
I feel like with marriage, then you'll kind if be suppressing part of you which is problematic?
I think your one of those people that get worn out by other people and you need a lot me time to recuperate, think and do the things you like and feel like marriage imprison you in a way

you'll have to find someone that can accommodate your freedom and doesn't need a lot taking care of
 

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Indeed we’ll see what happens with time. :reallymaury:

:sass2: I'll get around to it. People keep telling me that a husband is like an extra stream of income.

adeer did a wonderful job!

i'd love to treat him to a night of khat near tog wajaale.:salute:

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Thanks for the offer but aabo doesn't do drugs of any kind. He also hasn't been back home to the Galbeed in over 50 years but he's a great conversationalist so you'll love him.
 
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I see
Well that's very interesting
I feel like with marriage, then you'll kind if be suppressing part of you which is problematic?
I think your one of those people that get worn out by other people and you need a lot me time to recuperate, think and do the things you like and feel like marriage imprison you in a way

you'll have to find someone that can accommodate your freedom and doesn't need a lot taking care of

That's very insightful of you.

Yes; someone who's emotionally independent too but not too independent to the point of being cold and detached (and certainly not hot and cold). A fine balance is good. I do need a lot of time to recharge (and do my own thing) but I'm also very accommodating and able to adjust.
 
That's very insightful of you.

Yes; someone who's emotionally independent too but not too independent to the point of being cold and detached (and certainly not hot and cold). A fine balance is good. I do need a lot of time to recharge (and do my own thing) but I'm also very accommodating and able to adjust.

I think thats fine
there are lots people like that in the world, but they just dont know themselves as much as you do perhaps. That's because we get the opportunity here to learn more about ourselves.

Yes, basically someone who is available for intimacy and some connection, but until you've have your fill and off you go for your break and he goes and does his thing too, until yo want to hang out again and do other things.

This could easily be negotiated provided you find the right suiter
I think this is actually more of a personality thing, plus the guy needs to have his own world and plans and things going on.

Anyway sis, I think this is my last post and hopefully the mods get me banned soon. All the best
 
That's very insightful of you.

Yes; someone who's emotionally independent too but not too independent to the point of being cold and detached (and certainly not hot and cold). A fine balance is good. I do need a lot of time to recharge (and do my own thing) but I'm also very accommodating and able to adjust.
I've been reading ur posts for some time now and I reckon u should follow the nike philosophy,just do it, theres no need to over analyse.
 

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