Any other woman on here totally fine with polygamy?

[boredandtired]

I feel like it's rare to find women who aren't bothered by their husband having another wife, I personally don't care because that just means another woman who can help relieve me of the tasks expected from a wife

 

[Mohmed]

I feel like it's rare to find women who aren't bothered by their husband having another wife, I personally don't care because that just means another woman can take on the tasks expected of a wife.

You have an interesting set of opinions. From anti-natalism to caving in to polygamy (all from a woman too!)

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Sure, some women don't care about a man emotionally and are happy to get other things out of a marriage. I respect it.

One thing I would say is this, make sure he gets the other wives tested, and get regular STD checks done. Don't put your life in the hands of a man or in the hands of some other women you have no control over.

 

[techsamatar]

I thought you was Antinatalist ?? since when is a spouse and reproducing on your mind?

 

[boredandtired]

I thought you was Antinatalist ?? since when is a spouse and reproducing on your mind?

I am an antinatalist, why would that negate this opinion? I'm not the one having kids, that will likely be the other wife

 

[Moon-]

no Im a romantic i wouldn't be able to

 

[techsamatar]

I am an antinatalist, why would that negate this opinion? I'm not the one having kids, that will likely be the other wife

Your most odd person I have come across. So for what purpose is having a spouse of course he would want Kids with you or lets say it just happens what you gonna do ? have an abortion.

 

[DubatDiaries]

Totally fine might be a bit of a stretch but it's one of those things I've grown to accept. The Islamic concept of marriage is not strictly monogamous, its always a possibility. + You can't marry gaalo men so..... maxaa la qaban karaa?

 

[Khaem]

 

[boredandtired]

Your most odd person I have come across. So for what purpose is having a spouse of course he would want Kids with you or lets say it just happens what you gonna do ? have an abortion.

I don't plan on ever having kids, I'll take any possible measures to prevent that from occurring

 

[boredandtired]

Sure, some women don't care about a man emotionally and are happy to get other things out of a marriage. I respect it.

One thing I would say is this, make sure he gets the other wives tested, and get regular STD checks done. Don't put your life in the hands of a man or in the hands of some other women you have no control over.

I mean I would enjoy the emotional aspects of marriage, I just don't care about him having another wife. What are the possible downsides?

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I mean I would enjoy the emotional aspects of marriage, I just don't care about him having another wife. What are the possible downsides?

Downsides?

1. Your putting your sexual health in the hands of several other people.
2. Financial stressors
3. Other wives
4. Other in-laws
5. You are on a rota, you can't see your husband whenever you want.
6. You can't just move to another country, without it affecting your husband's other wives.
etc, etc.

But if you are able to handle these kind of things, go for it.

 

[Khaem]

Downsides?

1. Your putting your sexual health in the hands of several other people.
2. Financial stressors
3. Other wives
4. Other in-laws
5. You are on a rota, you can't see your husband whenever you want.
6. You can't just move to another country, without it affecting your husband's other wives.
etc, etc.

But if you are able to handle these kind of things, go for it.

I don't understand this rota thing. If I'm doing polygamy ever then I'm gonna have a single larger house. Why pay multiple homes? I'm never doing more than 2 in the west and I'd limit the children I'd have between them. If I want more then I'm goimg home following the footsteps of my great grandfather and having a large land and estate for all the wives to have their own space.

 

[Bazed]

If you agree to it then so be it.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I don't understand this rota thing. If I'm doing polygamy ever then I'm gonna have a single larger house. Why pay multiple homes? I'm never doing more than 2 in the west and I'd limit the children I'd have between them. If I want more then I'm goimg home following the footsteps of my great grandfather and having a large land and estate for all the wives to have their own space.

What on EARTH makes you think that you can have two wives under ONE roof. It is forbidden to do this, unless they explicitly agree to it beforehand. And, I wish you LUCK, trying to find two women willing to suffer in one house together.

 

[Khaem]

What on EARTH makes you think that you can have two wives under ONE roof. It is forbidden to do this, unless they explicitly agree to it beforehand. And, I wish you LUCK, trying to find two women willing to suffer in one house together.

I'm talking about a large house with extensions to it like those asians do when they got multiple gens under a roof. And you should see the type estate and land my great grandfather got Walahi non of these girls better be complaining when I replicate it.

 

[Kane]

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[Lightshow]

Its moments like these that I realise:

The next y haplogroup chad taking over the entire western world might be an unassuming polygamist, producing son after son while everyone else runs after the western success dream.

 

[Kane]