Ragna qowl baa xira, dumarna meher baa xira.
You do know I wasn’t the one that didn’t put “Not Muslim” at number 1.
That was OP.
My explanation was explaining why OP didn’t put it at number 1.
If you look back at that post, I even say that I would only marry a Muslim.
Your whole argument is based on a misunderstanding.
Again with the deflection, you need to own up that made a serious mistake by giving priority to those reasons over islam.
This is what you wrote
Nothing except for 5 and 6 speaks to his character.
My point was that if your primary reasons for rejecting someone is due to stuff they can’t change, then it’s problematic.
I don’t think you’re racist but you place an unnecessary emphasis on race and pride.
5 and 6 should be 1 and 2.
I agree wholeheartedly, however, someone can convert. That’s why I didn’t mention that.
Personally, I see myself marrying someone that is from an Islamic culture however, I’m speaking generally.
It's very explicit and there's no way to argue that you were speaking on @Qeelbax behalf. She has a mind of her own, if she wanted you to speak for her or agreed with you she would've made it known. What's even funnier is that she completely disagrees with you regarding seeking compatibility in lineage as this is something that’s important to her
@citrus_samurai quoted your post and stated that islam should be the reason number 1, which you then agreed diplomatically but then clarified why you didn’t rank it as number 1. It had nothing to do with Qeelbax’s choice but yours only.
Why you would then act as if I mixed it up is beyond me tbh. If you really believed that I misunderstood you would’ve stated so from the first time I quoted your post questioning you about your odd view of advocating Muslim women to pursue kafir men
Laakin you didn’t do that, even more damaging is that you continued offering your bizarre argument to justify why you didn’t rank islam as number 1.
I wasn’t questioning her but you and if you thought I mixed it up you could’ve just stated “ I think what she means is that” words or an explanation to that effect but you didn’t.
So sxb stop hiding behind her and just own up to your mistakes. There’s nothing to be ashamed of ruunti as we all make mistakes. This is not the first time that I’m noticing your odd views or that I’m calling you out for it so let’s just drop the facade that it’s just a mere misunderstanding when we know that this isn’t the case.