alpha or a beta does it really matter to you

[Jake from State Farm]

if so explain why?


I personally don’t give a shit about it. I’m just happy being myself

 

[Basra]

if so explain why?


I personally don’t give a shit about it. I’m just happy being myself

What do u mean? More explanation please.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

What do u mean? More explanation please.

I’m pretty uninformed about it. I been unfollowing people on twitter for the past month cause of how cringe it is.
My first time seeing it was a couple months ago.People were calling one guy a beta cuck because he was in a relationship with a women who previously had a child with her ex boyfriend. They had a picture of the couple and it showed them together and one key aspect of the picture of was the man was holding the baby in the picture.
Comments we’re just going on about him taking care of another’s mans baby. How the women went to breed to with alpha male but made a beta male take care of her kids


I think alpha means to be like a leader or like a superior person.

While a beta is laid back. Okay with following.

 

[Basra]

I’m pretty uninformed about it. I been unfollowing people on twitter for the past month cause of how cringe it is.
My first time seeing it was a couple months ago.People were calling one guy a beta cuck because he was in a relationship with a women who previously had a child with her ex boyfriend. They had a picture of the couple and it showed them together and one key aspect of the picture of was the man was holding the baby in the picture.
Comments we’re just going on about him taking care of another’s mans baby. How the women went to breed to with alpha male but made a beta male take care of her kids


I think alpha means to be like a leader or like a superior person.

While a beta is laid back. Okay with following.

The example u gave is silly. I think babies are babies, and a dad is not who is biological to u, it is who raised u.



As to alpha and beta things, in my era, 20 years ago lol we were discussing about nice guys vs bad boy guys. I guess bad boys will fall under alpha today era. Nice guy finish last, because nice guys are smarter. But the nature of our sex is- we r biologically programmed to like bad boys. A cruel twist to nature

 

[Jake from State Farm]

The example u gave is silly. I think babies are babies, and a dad is not who is biological to u, it is who raised u.



As to alpha and beta things, in my era, 20 years ago lol we were discussing about nice guys vs bad boy guys. I guess bad boys will fall under alpha today era. Nice guy finish last, because nice guys are smarter. But the nature of our sex is- we r biologically programmed to like bad boys. A cruel twist to nature

The example I showed is what people be would view as a beta male.

The nice guys finish last ideology is dumb. It’s just dudes complaining about chicks when they don’t put themselves out there. And when they do they try to For a specific girl that’s not interested In them.

If a chick your interested but doesn’t want you and wants to date trash dudes than let her date them. She can complain and post her rants on social media like the other millions of chicks.

 

[YourBroMoe]

The example I showed is what people be would view as a beta male.

The nice guys finish last ideology is dumb. It’s just dudes complaining about chicks when they don’t put themselves out there. And when they do they try to For a specific girl that’s not interested In them.

If a chick your interested but doesn’t want you and wants to date trash dudes than let her date them. She can complain and post her rants on social media like the other millions of chicks.

You've been undergoing a metamorphosis bro. But to answer your question, it's a simplification of the very complex subject of modern relationships.

A few generations ago, gender norms were different. Women were expected to get married to men, and stay at home to take care of the kids. This mode of living gave women a different mating strategy. Ideals such as: femininity, maternity, chastity and agreeableness were the norm. The reason was because these attributes made women more accepted for marriage. Men on the other hand were expected to be level-headed, a leader within the home, protective, and a provider. This model worked well in society for centuries, but with the advent of Feminism, this completely removed that model within our modern society. (I am not calling this bad, I am simply acknowledging that this ideology changed society)

Under this new ideology, women are now expected to be individualistic. This meant new ideals are formed. Independence, a strong-will, intelligence, assertiveness, expressiveness. To men, of whom their lives did not change, this change in women presented a completely different playing field for relationships as a whole.

What is the current purpose of marriage?
What roles should wives and husbands have? Are there any at this point?
What constitutes as a relationship?

These are but a few questions that are never asked in this current world. However, the main question, that has subconsciously swelled up within the minds of men is this: "What makes an attractive man?"

The folly of this question lies in the fact that it doesn't account for the new ideal women now profess: individualism.

This quality makes the question men are asking themselves irrelevant. Because if women all like different things, then why should that question even matter? There are basic desires, like looks. But that's something you can't control. And this lack of control is the basis for my sensible implication that this is not what men mean when they ask themselves, "What makes an attractive man?"

They mean a personality. Which traits, if faked, will help me woo women? Do I have to be cocky? More sensitive? What do I have to be?

My answer, be yourself. It may sound cliched, but women liking you for you is better imho than women liking you because of the fake persona you create.

Again I say, this is a dichotomy formed by men who need to simplify the complexity of modern relationships.

 

[yaanyuur]

I’m pretty uninformed about it. I been unfollowing people on twitter for the past month cause of how cringe it is.
My first time seeing it was a couple months ago.People were calling one guy a beta cuck because he was in a relationship with a women who previously had a child with her ex boyfriend. They had a picture of the couple and it showed them together and one key aspect of the picture of was the man was holding the baby in the picture.
Comments we’re just going on about him taking care of another’s mans baby. How the women went to breed to with alpha male but made a beta male take care of her kids


I think alpha means to be like a leader or like a superior person.

While a beta is laid back. Okay with following.

You're saying the prophet was a beta for marrying widowed women and taking care of their children? Let me show show u a beta man @Western4Life (receiver).

 

[Jake from State Farm]

You're saying the prophet was a beta for marrying widowed women and taking care of their children? Let me show show u a beta man @Western4Life (receiver).

I ain’t say no one is considered beta. I just stated something I read

 

[CaliSomali]

All western men are betas. They cannot compare to the more masculine foreign males of Africa or the middle east. Western whites (excluding eastern Europe) and indhoyar in particular are the most effeminate males on the planet.

 

[YourBroMoe]

All western men are betas. They cannot compare to the more masculine foreign males of Africa or the middle east. Western whites (excluding eastern Europe) and indhoyar in particular are the most effeminate males on the planet.

What do you make of women's seeming disdain for masculine men? It seems to contradict what you've just said. I'm not naive. I simply want to hear your personal opinion on this.

 

[CaliSomali]

What do you make of women's seeming disdain for masculine men? It seems to contradict what you've just said. I'm not naive. I simply want to hear your personal opinion on this.

Patriarchal societies actively suppress any feminist movements. That's why western white women hate it. If men are truly masculine (like in the middle east, South Asia, and Africa) then women have to be feminine. Patriarchal societies would never let women dress provocatively, sleep around, or choose careers over families. That's why feminists work to actively feminize men in the west. Now western white men think it's normal for many men to sleep with their daughters or for their girls to go out late at night to the club. They've been taught from childhood to accept an "open" society.

 

[YourBroMoe]

Patriarchal societies actively suppress any feminist movements. That's why western white women hate it. If men are truly masculine (like in the middle east, South Asia, and Africa) then women have to be feminine. Patriarchal societies would never let women dress provocatively, sleep around, or choose careers over families. That's why feminists work to actively feminize men in the west. Now western white men think it's normal for many men to sleep with their daughters or for their girls to go out late at night to the club. They've been taught from childhood to accept an "open" society.

I guess my next question then is: how do you define masculine and feminine?

 

[CaliSomali]

I guess my next question then is: how do you define masculine and feminine?

Masculine: takes care of his family financially, is traditional and caring of his culture, makes sure the women in his family are not out with random men (basically safe-guarding them), and being the head of the family in decision making.

Feminine: Women getting married and taking care of kids, dressing modestly, and keeping her image in society in a dignified manner (no rumors around her activities).

Both men and women in my opinion should have some self-respect. It's a shame seeing westerners rolling around on the floor drunk as hell well into later adulthood. People should act like adults and not animals.