Alpha females

[Hodan from HR]

There is no such thing as an alpha female. I am tired of this weird propaganda pushing for men to be like women and women to be like men.

"Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
"The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) cursed the women who imitate men and the men who imitate women.""

A woman who is like that is not an "alpha female". She's the female equivalent of a guy pretending to be a woman.

Does a woman having these traits mean she is imitating men?

*They Are Obsessive Learners
*They Are Strong
*They Are Sought Out
*They Are Highly Ambitious
*They Love Their Mommas (and Daddies)
*They Cultivate Harmony
*They Have Exceptional Confidence

 

[Omar del Sur]

Does a woman having these traits mean she is imitating men?

The apex of "alpha female" behavior is butch lesbianism. I have met met these "alpha females" in real life. I am going by real life- not by some slogans.

Some woman who marches down the street topless might say she's "fighting for the rights of women"- does that really mean she's fighting for the rights of women?

If I tell you I'm a mysterious billionaire who owns a yacht does that mean I'm a mysterious billionaire who owns a yacht?

 

[Revolutionary]

Of course, because you wouldn’t be alpha enough to afford a 2 seater luxury car

Materialism really did a number on you

 

[Hodan from HR]

The apex of "alpha female" behavior is butch lesbianism. I have met met these "alpha females" in real life. I am going by real life- not by some slogans.

Some woman who marches down the street topless might say she's "fighting for the rights of women"- does that really mean she's fighting for the rights of women?

If I tell you I'm a mysterious billionaire who owns a yacht does that mean I'm a mysterious billionaire who owns a yacht?

I believe real strength is quiet.


When you are secure from within, you don't have to scream at the top of your lungs for the world to see nor prove anything to anyone. Nothing about the women you mentioned is in alignment with these traits.

 

[Angelina]

There is no such thing as an alpha female. I am tired of this weird propaganda pushing for men to be like women and women to be like men.

"Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
"The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) cursed the women who imitate men and the men who imitate women.""

A woman who is like that is not an "alpha female". She's the female equivalent of a guy pretending to be a woman.

Strong mindedness is not just a masculine trait similarly being gentle is not just a feminine trait.

Some people are born with certain temperaments. They are not 'acting', so I don't see how you can use that hadith based on your own opinions.

 

[Omar del Sur]

I believe real strength is quiet.


When you are secure from within, you don't have to scream at the top of your lungs for the world to see nor prove anything to anyone. Nothing about the women you mentioned is in alignment with these traits.

I heard about this rapper where I'm from, that he did a song called "That's Gangsta" where he tried to define "gangsta" in a positive way.

I mean if you ask me if I'm in favor of young men being gangsters, of course I will insha'Allah speak against it and talk about how criminality is a bad road for young men.

But if you say "gangsta means getting good grades in school, staying out of trouble, seeking halal money" then it's different.

If you say "gangsta" means

Grateful to
Allah
Never
Gambling
Staying
Thankful to
Allah

I mean if you say that's what "gangsta" means..... I mean I guess if that's what you mean, I guess it's cool but.... that is getting into word games.

If you just ask me if I am in favor of people being gangsters, of course I'm against it but if you redefine "gangsta" like that and say it means getting good grades and being thankful to Allah, I guess I'm okay with it but that's different than what I'm talking about.

If you say "Alpha female" means studying the Quran and giving charity to the homeless.... I mean I guess that's fine.... but it's something different than what I'm talking about.

If you're talking about quiet, inner strength that is peaceful, things like that- that is different than what I'm talking about.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Strong mindedness is not just a masculine trait similarly being gentle is not just a feminine trait.

Some people are born with certain temperaments. They are not 'acting', so I don't see how you can use that hadith based on your own opinions.

if you want to get into this feminist stuff that is in favor of women being masculine and blurring the lines between the sexes, that's up to you but I'm not interested in it.

 

[Angelina]

if you want to get into this feminist stuff that is in favor of women being masculine and blurring the lines between the sexes, that's up to you but I'm not interested in it.

Men are men and women are women. There is no denying Allah has created them different. But for you to suggest that a women cannot be strong emotionally and a man can not have a gentle and kind personality is the height of stupidity.

This has nothing to do with feminism, but simple common sense.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Men are men and women are women. There is no denying Allah has created them different. But for you to suggest that a women cannot be strong emotionally and a man can not have a gentle and kind personality is the height of stupidity.

This has nothing to do with feminism, but simple common sense.

I'm not suggesting whatever you're talking about. I made a post talking about "alpha females".

 

[Amazonian]

Bro your 100% right they more freaky
This one couldn’t wait for her period to be over She liked to be called a little hôe

She nasty wlhi lol

 

[Milo]

*They Are Obsessive Learners

Man I’m fucking dumb bro
I need a wife that can teach me fam

 

[Xaruun]

There is no such thing as an alpha female. I am tired of this weird propaganda pushing for men to be like women and women to be like men.

"Narrated Ibn 'Abbas:
"The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) cursed the women who imitate men and the men who imitate women.""

A woman who is like that is not an "alpha female". She's the female equivalent of a guy pretending to be a woman.

Cope. The Prophet (ﷺ) married alpha naag nool like Khadija who were strong and could handle themselves. Khadija herself was an independent established businesswoman. Obviously she’s a woman trying to act like a man yes?

 

[qalanjoqoordheer]

What kind of abomination is a female Alpha. Too much testosterone in women is what ruining nuclear family in the west.
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Of course, this is what you'd have to say, nuclear families are in decline not because of testosterone teeming women but because living costs are too high to sustain a nuclear family so more couples choose to live together without kids so that the expenses can be shared and won't be driven up by childcare and whatnot.

 

[qalanjoqoordheer]

I'd love to start lessons for pick me's. They are the worst types of women.

Honestly doubt it's a woman, prob a tranny who wishes they were a woman so act bitter towards women it thinks are more manly than itself.

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[Amazonian]

Honestly doubt it's a woman, prob a tranny who wishes they were a woman so act bitter towards women it thinks are more manly than itself.

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War dee yaa la xamaneyaa?

 

[qalanjoqoordheer]

War dee yaa la xamaneyaa?

Not xan, serves more as a warning for any children it tries to indoctrinate.

 

[Bronco]

It's a catch-22 because they'd need a submissive husband for it to work, and that is all nice and dandy on paper.... but she'll inevitably lose respect for him or he'll develop some testicles and walk out at an inopportune time for her.

 

[Desert Flower]

Doqon women raise doqon kids. I don’t make the rules. Sure, it might be cute if your wife hangs on to your every word, but imagine 10 years and 3 kids later and she’s calling you at work every 2 seconds because she can’t decide between whole milk and skim milk at the grocery store. I’m sure you’d wish you had married a “naag nool” instead.

Life is tough, it’s better as a man to marry a woman that’s competent and has sense. The same goes for women.

 

[ReerVanCadde]

A beautiful doqon woman won't always be testing/second guessing you. Like that shit gets tiring. I just want a calm, drama free sex filled life.

 

[Amazonian]

It's a catch-22 because they'd need a submissive husband for it to work, and that is all nice and dandy on paper.... but she'll inevitably lose respect for him or he'll develop some testicles and walk out at an inopportune time for her.

That's not true at all sxb.
No man in his right mind would put up with a woman who's always tempering with his manhood. You can still date a strong willed women without the heartache and stigma.
Some women take the alpha role a little too serious which is why most are single or divorced. Both individuals have to be intune, and at the end of the day she must recognize you as the lead within the household. Being with an independent women who's free and opinionated shouldnt be an issue for any man. Your job as a man is to lead no matter the obstacle. When you've established yourself as the man you were created to be, your wife no matter how emotional or grumpy will always fall in line.