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Wallahi I think it’s best we address the marriage issue now with the youth before it gets out of hand years Down the line imo
We have a crisis. This will result in more mixed children
I actually like these two posts. The first person explained some things for those who might not know. The other one begins a dialogue on why people can’t get help from their parents. The ones making these two could be married folk.Two more new marriage posts in less than 24 hours. It's official, r/Somalia has been infiltrated and taken over by unmarried folks.
This sounds like a man wrote it.Another new post with 100+ comments hahaha that subreddit is the gift that keeps on giving. This one sounds like it was written by @DangerBadan lol
We don’t get everything we want in life. We all get rejected sometimes. Let it go walaal.I don't care. I was rejected by over 10 Somali women when I was in university. Everyone I approached rejected me. All of them single still. Now I am 28 and not as youthful and more boring and somehow a dozen women approach me or my parents for marriage since I became 27. Somali men are not fools. You all reject Somali men when they're young and cry after. We will never have sympathy to the crisis they created.
Don't got the time. Maybe in a few yearsWhat's keeping you from organizing one yourself?
oh....so you're bitterI don't care. I was rejected by over 10 Somali women when I was in university. Everyone I approached rejected me. All of them single still. Now I am 28 and not as youthful and more boring and somehow a dozen women approach me or my parents for marriage since I became 27. Somali men are not fools. You all reject Somali men when they're young and cry after. We will never have sympathy to the crisis they created.
I think this is the biggest issue.Somali community needs more events overall.
This sounds like a man wrote it.
We don’t get everything we want in life. We all get rejected sometimes. Let it go walaal.
Also, it’s very hard to believe a dozen women doing the approaching. Especially if they are Muslim and Somali.
Wallahi I think it’s best we address the marriage issue now with the youth before it gets out of hand years Down the line imo
What makes you say that? I don't think anything weird was said, some women on this forum have expressed the same thing.This sounds like a man wrote it.
How do you know for sure they were rejecting people back then? And even if they were, don’t they have a right to say no if they were not genuinely interested? It would be a lot of worse for them to say yes and to try to fake it in an actual marriage.I was pointing out the type of people who are complaining now.... late 20s women who rejected men years ago. No one should feel sorry for them if they complain. Yes, they did approach. At weddings, in my dm, their parents to my parents, through mutual friends. It happens alot now. It's been around a dozen in less than two years wallahi.
It sounds like a man trying to start something. I seen people on here that I think are male say stuff like this about women. It’s belittling in a way.What makes you say that? I don't think anything weird was said, some women on this forum have expressed the same thing.
How do you know for sure they were rejecting people back then? And even if they were, don’t they have a right to say no if they were not genuinely interested? It would be a lot of worse for them to say yes and to try to fake it in an actual marriage.
loool haye believe what you want.That's a lie. The community knows what the issue is. The masjids know. Your parents know. The men know. The women themselves know the men they rejected. Somali men are not the reason for the bad choices some women decide to make. Stop Somali men blaming.
your experiences are not the experiences for all women. There are women who didn’t get approached like that or they were approached by weird, mentally unstable, or criminals, or guys that were trying to get to the west. There’s also young women in their early 20s that couldn’t find someone how do you explain that? Not every Somali family looks for their daughters and not every women is well connected to the community. Women also get rejected while they are young and have broken talking stages or engagements. Just because women get approached more does not mean it leads to marriage.I was pointing out the type of people who are complaining now.... late 20s women who rejected men years ago. No one should feel sorry for them if they complain. Yes, they did approach. At weddings, in my dm, they’re parents to my parents, through mutual friends. It happens alot now. It's been around a dozen in less than two years wallahi.
You expect women to take anything that comes their way but you yourselves would never do they same. You also refuse to consider individual circumstances but think yours should define other people’s outcomes. It’s not uncommon with Somali guys.They deserve it for rejecting Somali men in their early 20s because they thought they could do better. You said you rejected good men in a comment of yours I saw. Nothing xaasid about what I said. Anyone who rejected men while younger should not be crying now.
They don’t lol they just use their own experiences and generalize for the whole community. Most of the Reddit complaints are girls who aren’t getting any type of support so his points don’t even apply.How do you know for sure they were rejecting people back then? And even if they were, don’t they have a right to say no if they were not genuinely interested? It would be a lot of worse for them to say yes and to try to fake it in an actual marriage.
@Ikranay @onthecloud how do you see this all playing out 10 years from now if current trends continue
They expect women to just roll out the red carpet for any man that comes to their door regardless of what he is. I blame the rhetoric over the last 10 years about there not being enough good Somali guys. It’s why some Millennial Somali guys have such a weird ego that you rarely see in gen z Somali guys or even older Somali men. They think because they aren’t a total degenerate that every girl should want them.How do you know for sure they were rejecting people back then? And even if they were, don’t they have a right to say no if they were not genuinely interested? It would be a lot of worse for them to say yes and to try to fake it in an actual marriage.