Ajnabi men are more loyal to their wives than Faraxs - true or false?

[mr.overeasy]

Listen if only Somali father were present and providing for their kids and taking about their futures but we all know is not always the case. Somali men need to have self awareness. Your kids are a reflection of the father and mother. No one else!

your daddy issues aren't present in everyone.

My father as well as almost every other somali father in my community are great men who went to great lengths to keep their family fed.

I remember growing up seeing my dad juggle double shifts along with medical school, that is a man!

Your bad experiences with some westernized farax that acts like the other ethnicities you fetishize doesn't represent somali men.

We are hard working muslim men and would rather die than let things go wrong, the ones who are astray are westernized and are bad muslims.

 

[YahyeZazx]

they also act like somali men are uber abusive but will get absolutely ruined by other men and still blame us.

Arabs and asians have a culture of really abusing their women, while madthows and cadaans tend to cheat and not take care of their families financially in their cultures.

These ladies want to blame faraxs then run to the most abusive cultures possible simply because they are mentally colonized and think somali men are trash.

If they want to get cheated on instead of have a partner for life that's their problem.

edit: fixed spelling errors

What I wanna know is why do they marry other ethnicities but come back after divorce like we’re gonna take them back? Somali men are known to be very picky and it comes down to pride. We wont ever take a bums ex wife that’s a death sentence where I’m from. The only divorcées we’ll take in are women who were previously married to Somali men. That’s it

 

[Aboow]

your daddy issues aren't present in everyone.

My father as well as almost every other somali father in my community are great men who went to great lengths to keep their family fed.

I remember growing up seeing my dad juggle double shifts along with medical school, that is a man!

Your bad experiences with some westernized farax that acts like the other ethnicities you fetishize doesn't represent somali men.

We are hard working muslim men and would rather die than let things go wrong, the ones who are astray are westernized and are bad muslims.

Loooool i do have daddy issues and most of the people in my city have it aswell. Atleast i have self awareness and know I need to heal from that trauma. It’s traumatic being raised by a single mother that is struggling financially and you have to go without and grow up fast. Alhamdulilah love myself enough to understand that my father leaving is: 1) a reflection of my father inability to uphold his duty which ultimately will be questioned by Allah. 2) there’s a trend of single motherhood in our community whether you like it or not! 3) most Somali men don’t value their women and believe they can always pack up and leave the first family to make another one! Again, the men that do that will be questioned! What puzzles me is how you guys refuse to dig dipper to see why are the kids acting out? Why do they have « identity issues ? » but what do I know am just a fatherless Somali women!

 

[YahyeZazx]

Loooool i do have daddy issues and most of the people in my city have it aswell. Atleast i have self awareness and know I need to heal from that trauma. It’s traumatic being raised by a single mother that is struggling financially and you have to go without and grow up fast. Alhamdulilah love myself enough to understand that my father leaving is: 1) a reflection of my father inability to uphold his duty which ultimately will be questioned by Allah. 2) there’s a trend of single motherhood in our community whether you like it or not! 3) most Somali men don’t value their women and believe they can always pack up and leave the first family to make another one! Again, the men that do that will be questioned! What puzzles me is how you guys refuse to dig dipper to see why are the kids acting out? Why do they have « identity issues ? » but what do I know am just a fatherless Somali women!

I’m sorry that you grew up without a dad, but that’s something you have to go pick up with your biological father. Attacking all Somali men because you were deprived of a daddy isn’t the logical thing to do. Tell your future husband about your phobias in that department and hopefully he stays put so that your children don’t experience the hell that you did.

 

[Guled111]

My only knowledge about somali marriage comes from social media.So I am basically an expert.

Ajanabi men are great unless they are reverts (apparently reverts eat their Somali children).

Also #abdiexit a fat white lady looked in my direction (may have been cos I was eating at the time).
Seethe xaalimos, seethe.

What do you mean eat their children?
Can you elaborate for me

 

[Woke1.4rm.Shibis]

The stories I hear from my married ajanabi co workers I would say false .
Faraxs dont cheat , we are forever loyal . Dont put these thoughts to these halimo shimbirs heads .

 

[Bluefire]

What do you mean eat their children?
Can you elaborate for me

I was being sarcastic, generally Somalis talk a lot about reverts marrying Somali women and abusing them.

 

[mr.overeasy]

Loooool i do have daddy issues and most of the people in my city have it aswell. Atleast i have self awareness and know I need to heal from that trauma. It’s traumatic being raised by a single mother that is struggling financially and you have to go without and grow up fast. Alhamdulilah love myself enough to understand that my father leaving is: 1) a reflection of my father inability to uphold his duty which ultimately will be questioned by Allah. 2) there’s a trend of single motherhood in our community whether you like it or not! 3) most Somali men don’t value their women and believe they can always pack up and leave the first family to make another one! Again, the men that do that will be questioned! What puzzles me is how you guys refuse to dig dipper to see why are the kids acting out? Why do they have « identity issues ? » but what do I know am just a fatherless Somali women!

Ahh there it is.

You have daddy issues, your dad isn't the rest of us. You had a single mom and now you think all men are deadbeats and somali women are great.

I understand that was hard, but that isn't the norm at all. Most somali men by far are not deadbeats like your dad.

You have a skewed idea of men, thats an issue with your perception not with the men.

May ALLAH (SWT) heal you and remove the hate from your heart!

 

[mr.overeasy]

I’m sorry that you grew up without a dad, but that’s something you have to go pick up with your biological father. Attacking all Somali men because you were deprived of a daddy isn’t the logical thing to do. Tell your future husband about your phobias in that department and hopefully he stays put so that your children don’t experience the hell that you did.

thats just how it is.

Somali women who hate somali men almost 100% o the time either had no dad or slept around, or both.

A woman with a good upbringing doesn't share her opinions.

 

[mr.overeasy]

The stories I hear from my married ajanabi co workers I would say false .
Faraxs dont cheat , we are forever loyal . Dont put these thoughts to these halimo shimbirs heads .

That is big facts!

The western nations have an epidemic of cheating due to a lack of religiousity and corrupted cultures.

The somalis are largely out of cheating, both the men and women, because we have Al-Islam in our hearts and a good culture and community.

 

[senor chang]

That is big facts!

The western nations have an epidemic of cheating due to a lack of religiousity and corrupted cultures.

The somalis are largely out of cheating, both the men and women, because we have Al-Islam in our hearts and a good culture and community.

Arabs cheat on their wives alot and theyre muslims

 

[mr.overeasy]

Arabs cheat on their wives alot and theyre muslims

thats because they worship cadaan culture. Also they ditched Islam.

If you find an arab who is a real muslim not from the gulf states they are usually pretty alright.

the ones who cheat have been outside arabia for generations or are from a degenerate nation like the uae.

A yemini is usually alright, but an emerati will cheat for days.

 

[Wervelwind]

I understand that was hard, but that isn't the norm at all. Most somali men by far are not deadbeats like your dad.

In my life I've seen like 50% of all Somali families not have fathers. Am I just an outlier then sxb?

 

[Wervelwind]

Listen if only Somali father were present and providing for their kids and taking about their futures but we all know is not always the case. Somali men need to have self awareness. Your kids are a reflection of the father and mother. No one else!

Are you planning on marrying? To a Somali man?

 

[Bluefire]

In my life I've seen like 50% of all Somali families not have fathers. Am I just an outlier then sxb?

Yes.

WTF tho half of Somali families!

I have personally seen no Somali families without two parents but I understand that I am an outlier.

 

[Man with a garuun]

I was being sarcastic, generally Somalis talk a lot about reverts marrying Somali women and abusing them.

You don't sound like a Somali guy!

 

[Bluefire]

You don't sound like a Somali guy!

You are correct.

I am in-fact an undercover gypsy.

 

[Bluefire]

You don't sound like a Somali guy!

Out of curiosity what made you think I’m not Somali?

 

[Man with a garuun]

Out of curiosity what made you think I’m not Somali?

I didn't question your Somalinimo; I just thought you weren't a Somali guy.

 

[Bluefire]

I didn't question your Somalinimo; I just thought you weren't a Somali guy.

Damn some else made a similar comment.

Apparently I type in an effeminate way.Gotta fix up before someone asks me for my dads number.