Ajnabi & a revert says Somali women are cheap (Twitter).

[Cognitivedissonance]

You're very sad wallahi.

You must hate your life miskiin.


That xaalimo that broke your heart must've been somebody very special.

Wallahi I pray to Allah that I fall in love, I feel nothing I think there's something wrong with me, I envy my friends when they get jealous or possessive over their girls, I watch romantic movies that's the closest that I'll get to love

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Sorry I don't accept weed from just anybody off the street.

And my brains are natural god given talent.

Now rock my mic

 

[Insomnia]

I'm not guilting anyone.

We have cheaper mehers. Outsiders taking notice = you calling women cheap, and yourself trash. And propogating it whensoever a Somali woman dates or marries out in a show of astounding self-pity.

Propogates Somali women are cheap and clean, says he's upset his decent sister is called cheap and clean by ajnabis along with, you know, that other cheap and clean Ayan.

Abdi logic.

They request for high meher when it comes to a Somali suitor, and request next to nothing for an ajanabi. Sometimes they revoke the right for mehr altogether and take nothing.

It's nothing to do with Outsiders or Somali men . Everyone in the Muslim community in the UK. Male ,females, imams ,reverts ,young and old takes notice of this and as a result you see a widespread reputation.

But this has less to do with Mehr, more to do with standards. The problem is that they have no standards they would wed any ajanabi man no matter what shape, or form they come in. The condition seems to only be, he must be ''a Non-Somali and a Muslim'' nothing else.


You seem to take a liking of deflecting and misrepresenting the issue. Are you that boxed in? or does this agitate you a lot?

 

[Assata]

Wallahi I pray to Allah that I fall in love, I feel nothing I think there's something wrong with me, I envy my friends when they get jealous or possessive over their girls, I watch romantic movies that's the closest that I'll get to love

It's okay bro some day you'll find your special Pakistani girl.

And she'll make you all the curry and biryani in the world.

 

[VixR]

They request for high meher when it comes to a Somali suitor, and request next to nothing for an ajanabi. Sometimes they revoke the right for mehr altogether and take nothing.

It's nothing to do with Outsiders or Somali men . Everyone in the Muslim community in the UK. Male ,femaleE, imams ,reverts ,Young and old takes notice of this.

But this has less to do with Mehr, more to do with standards. The problem is that they have no standards they would wed any ajanabi man no matter what shape, or form they come in. The condition seems to only be, he must be ''a Non-Somali and a Muslim'' nothing else.

Which selling oneself short.

You seem to take a liking of deflecting and misrepresenting the issue. Are you that boxed in? or does this agitate you a lot?

I already touched on that.
I'm not agitated, I just see things for what they are. I like clear facts and the truth for what it is.

Like I said to Roscharch, I'm not debating the ajnabi demand. I have my own thoughts on that end of things.

But the low meher and the wide propagation of 'cheap and clean' by none other than the Somali man himself is clear as day.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

It's okay bro some day you'll find your special Pakistani girl.

And she'll make you all the curry and biryani in the world.

There's no way I'll marry ajnabi, how will they communicate with my family who don't speak English? Who will teach my kids Somali? Who would make them canjeero cause I plan to settle down in Somalia God willing. I don't want to settle down in the west cause the system is rigged women are given overwhelming authority over men & I don't plan to be with a woman who wears the pants around the house & has all the authority over our kids & I as the father reduced to a sperm donor God forbid.

 

[Insomnia]

I'm not agitated, I just see things for what they are.

Like I said to Roscharch, I'm not debating the ajnabi demand. I have my own thoughts on that end of things.

But the low meher and and the wide propagation of 'cheap and clean' by none other than the Somali man himself.

No you don't see anything to be honest . and yes are agitated by ''cheap and clean'' label since you mention it several times already.

You are blinded by seriouss confirmation bias. Everyone here answers your posts directly , while you ignore points that you don't like.
Why are you fixated on low mehr? Wether she takes high or low mehr is not the issue and isn't measurement of self-worth.
It's the fact theres is zero standards or strings attached. Why have such high standards for your own and nothing for ajnabi? All an ajanabi has to do is be an Ajanabi?

How does that translate itself in how you are viewed and how you value yourself?

''Somali men propagate bla bla'' . Yeah we get it ''Whomever smelled it dealt it''. Great logic.

 

[Assata]

There's no way I'll marry ajnabi, how will they communicate with my family who don't speak English? Who will teach my kids Somali? Who would make them canjeero cause I plan to settle down in Somalia God willing. I don't want to settle down in the west cause the system is rigged women are given overwhelming authority over men & I don't plan to be with a woman who wears the pants around the house & has all the authority over our kids & I as the father reduced to a sperm donor God forbid.

Haye good luck finding that special xaalimo who can make some bomb canjeero for you.

 

[The Ash'ari]

These women are clearly incensed. Their irrationality is mind boggling. How can you establish an argument with women who deny the very tweets that we all see in front of our eyes.

Message to the women (and males like Jugjugwacwac):

Bring me one tweet, video, jinn book, whatever, in which a man degraded the females of an entire ethnic group with the cheap slur, yet the degraded posts a smiley as if she was flirting with him.

Only a Somali girl would do that.

If you don't bring it. Take your 'L' with decorated honors and leave humbled.

 

[VixR]

No you don't see anything to be honest . and yes you are insulted by ''cheap and clean'' .

You are blinded by seriouss confirmation bias. Everyone here answers your posts directly , while you ignore points that you don't like.

Why are you fixated on low mehr? Wether she takes high or low mehr is not the issue and isn't measurement of self-worth.

It's the fact theres is zero standards or strings attached. Why have such high standards for your own and nothing for ajnabi? Al an ajanabi has to do is be an Ajanabi?

How does that translate itself in how you are viewed and how you value yourself?

''Somali men propagate bla bla'' . Yeah i get it ''Whomever smelled it dealt it''. Nice logic.

I'm not insulted. I have a morbid curiosity on the way things are playing out on this topic. It's fascinating.

We don't have high standards for our own. Mehers and status are not the hallmark of Somali marriages, but connections and families. Somali aren't meher-centric like other cultures, so when ajnabis see this, in their eyes as 'cheap', you nod along. Inquiring minds wonder why.

You use it as an online go-to insult, and its biting you in the ass, and will continue to.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Haye good luck finding that special xaalimo who can make some bomb canjeero for you.

I just hope I can find a xalimo back home who wants me for who I am not the passport I'm carrying

 

[Layth]

@The Ash'ari, some people on this forum are mistakenly assuming that you're an alt nick of mine.

@Kaleel can you settle this issue once and for all? I don't want to be associated with what this nigga is saying.

 

[Insomnia]

I'm not insulted. I have a morbid curiosity on the way things are playing out on this topic. It's fascinating.

We don't have high standards for our own. Mehers and status are not the hallmark of Somali marriages, but connections and families. Somali aren't meher-centric like other cultures, so when ajnabis see this, in their eyes as 'cheap', you nod along. Inquiring minds wonder why.

You use it as an online go-to insult, and its biting you in the ass.

Are you seriouss? meher and status are not hallmark of Somali marriages? This might apply to our parents generations , but not to our generation which is what the focus is.





You must be very ignorant of what goes on in the Somali community.

 

[Assata]

I just hope I can find a xalimo back home who wants me for who I am not the passport I'm carrying

If you want good food and for you to be able to "wear the pants" and solely make the decisions in the household and relationship.

Why shouldn't she use your passport and get a better life for herself?

 

[Transparent]

If you want good food and for you to be able to "wear the pants" and solely make the decisions in the household and relationship.

Why shouldn't she use your passport and get a better life for herself?

I'll provide a good life for her back home.

 

[The Ash'ari]

@The Ash'ari, some people on this forum are mistakenly assuming that you're an alt nick of mine.

@Kaleel can you settle this issue once and for all? I don't want to be associated with what this nigga is saying.

You must be a proficient writer and a man endowed with wisdom, forbearance and rationality. You are probably an absolutist like myself. You might also have a touch of charisma that emanates from your posts.

Otherwise, we are nothing alike.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

I'll provide a good life for her back home.

Haahaay waa saas walle rag waa rag

 

[VixR]

Are you seriouss? meher and status are not hallmark of Somali marriages? This might apply to our parents generations , but not to our generation which is what the focus is.





You must be very ignorant of what goes on in the Somali community.

I'm amused rn. I'd wager these ppl are mostly receiving help overseas and the current situation in Somalia is affecting them, but generally speaking, I really don't think I'm wrong in saying that the average Somali meher is modest. These are ppl who grew up in the West I'm talking about, and I'm not saying I haven't seen pricey mehers, but overall they are nothing close to the cultures of my friends.

 

[Assata]

I'll provide a good life for her back home.

Nah she needs the security of a western citizenship.

If y'all act up or marry a second wife and she didn't agree with it.

She'll need to have the option of shoving child support down your throats.

 

[Transparent]

Nah she needs the security of a western citizenship.

If y'all act up or marry a second wife and she didn't agree with it.

She'll need to have the option of shoving child support down your throats.

I'll provide for her regardless if we divorce upon the condition that we have kids,and i dont think those women care too much about their men having a second wife.If they do tho what the f*ck can they do about it