Ajnabi & a revert says Somali women are cheap (Twitter).

[The Ash'ari]

I don't take being called one of "few" as a compliment. Just like I doubt you would take it as a compliment if you were called "one of the few decent Faaraxs". You need to apologise. No self-respecting man speaks of his sisters like that.

I apologise sincerely.

I see now how some of my comments came out very harsh and could have been misconstrued.

 

[ChickenOriental]

I apologise sincerely.

I see now how some of my comments came out very harsh and could have been misconstrued.

Thank you walaal. That's really kind of you. I know you are passionate because you want the best for dadkaaga.

 

[Ferrari]

Nobody is deflecting. We all know that this idea about gabdaheena exists among ajanabis. But guys give somali girls some credit. I used to be really naive and thought "mashaAllah, we Somalis are so kind we welcome reverts who are shunned by others into our families". It was only after reading the horrific things ajanabis have said about us that I have done a total 180 and won't even consider an ajanabi. To the people who will say that is "unislamic", why don't you tell those heathens who are calling us names to be grateful and stop being unislamic first?

It ain't that deep guys. Faaraxs please don't be like @The Ash'ari miskiinka is scarred by someone. There are plenty of things that Xaliimos could bash Faaraxs for - and they have - but it doesn't change anything. All we have are each other, we should not be tearing one another apart.

So you were considering ajnabi before that? Interesting that you need horror stories about ajnabi marriages as an epiphany and the reason why should marry a faarax.

 

[XamarCade]

:siilaanyolaugh:

 

[ChickenOriental]

So you were considering ajnabi before that? Interesting that you need horror stories about ajnabi marriages as an epiphany and the reason why should marry a faarax.

No, walaal. I was open to it - not chasing it. That's the difference. The horror stories just made me decide it was definitely not worth being open to. Also, there are other things that put me off that I didn't mention e.g. daqankeena when it comes to keeping marriages together - which I like a lot - and also not wanting to lose my language or my kids to not have a qabiil.

 

[waraabe]

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Kkkkkk just because amisom paid few apples for your women you think every woman goes for the same. Stop insulting women

 

[VixR]

It's goes both ways, different styles. It's to the point I can't say anything positive about Somali men in general online, bc the second you go to bat for them, the next millisecond you'll see shit flying your way so it didn't take me long to establish that it's best to keep it neutral, and to have only the relevant ppl in your life know their worth to you

 

[XamarCade]

Kkkkkk just because amisom paid few apples for your women you think every woman goes for the same. Stop insulting women

LOL don't hate u fucking lander

 

[Ferrari]

No, walaal. I was open to it - not chasing it. That's the difference. The horror stories just made me decide it was definitely not worth being open to. Also, there are other things that put me off that I didn't mention e.g. dagankeena when it comes to keeping marriages together - which I like a lot - and also not wanting to lose my language or my kids to not have a qabiil.

Yes there is a difference. I don't oppose it but I'd like for those who cross that bridge to to never attempt to cross back.

 

[waraabe]

LOL don't hate u fucking lander

I am just saying 2 apples is only done in a particular place so don't insult women sxb


See you don't like me insulting you

 

[Jubba_Man]

Case in point,
@Jubba_Man you blamed me of stalking you, but on god this what I stumbled across, and the best evidence that under that Bantu facade of yours, you're actually a online Somali man trope:
Quote:


Can you imagine. Is this not quite the tale for a Bantu? They pretend to be other things kkkk.

I stay on your mind, don't I? Can't blame you. You probably have all my quotes saved somewhere.

 

[Assata]

It's goes both ways, different styles. I can't say anything positive about Somali men in general online, bc the second you go to bat for them, the next millisecond you'll see shit flying your way so it's best to keep it neutral, and to have only the relevant ppl in your life know their worth to you

Wallahi that's very true seeing as Somali women have been dragged through the mud by these qaashin (some men were very nice and uplifted our name though).

I'll have to keep neutral from here on out.

But I'll still spread my philosophy around the world of Somalis in general being superior to these arabs and qaashin reverts.

 

[VixR]

I stay on your mind, don't I? Can't blame you. You probably have all my quotes saved somewhere.

When did you become Bantu? I sorta have a thing for Yemeni-looking Bantus

 

[ChickenOriental]

Yes there is a difference. I don't oppose it but I'd like for those who cross that bridge to to never attempt to cross back.

Don't you think the problem is with how these sisters that marry ajanabi men/ consider them behave?

For example, what if every somali woman demanded that any ajanabi man that wanted to marry her should learn Somali? At least then he will be part of the culture -- if she is giving up the ability for her children to have a qabiil, the least the revert/ajanabi could do is bloody make an attempt to close the gap.

These girls act cheap and don't behave like their culture has value. That's what I have a problem with. I know Somali women who are married to non-Somalis who are very wadani and have successful marriages. One even said the new generation of Somali girls need to stop marrying ajanabi because they are being taken advantage of and doing things the wrong way - isolating themselves from the community.

 

[John Michael]

You know I'm all about psychoanalysis, but I can't find the origin point of this one. Even these supposed masjid list women we hear about being called C&C are properly married women, yet the tenacity of it is such that you'd think a significant portion of the community consisted of two bit street prostitutes, and that it wasn't devout, Quran-thumping Salifis being discussed. I've even seen the ceeb stuff generalized, through tribe of the girl to all women from such and such tribe that they argue back and forth to each other like a pox.

With the sheer constancy of it emanating from Somali guys online, at this point I wouldn't be surprised if these "ajnabis" weren't also Somali men. The reason I say this is bc I've stumbled upon it on this very forum through a sublink of old threads that are routinely featured under the thread being viewed. Case in point,
@Jubba_Man you blamed me of stalking you, but on god this what I stumbled across, and the best evidence that under that Bantu facade of yours, you're actually a online Somali man trope:
Quote:


Can you imagine. Is this not quite the tale for a Bantu? They pretend to be other things kkkk.

Abaayo they even had a go at a Somali YouTuber married to a Somali guy.

I think the YouTube was called modernsomalis or something.

They'll stop at nothing, including lying to publicly shame somali women. It's quite sad and funny at the same time.

 

[VixR]

Wallahi that's very true seeing as Somali women have been dragged through the mud by these qaashin (some men were very nice and uplifted our name though).

I'll have to keep neutral from here on out.

But I'll still spread my philosophy around the world of Somalis in general being superior to these arabs and qaashin reverts.

I don't bash them either though. People on here and online in general can switch from bashing to neutrality or praise in the blink of an eye. I'm not trying to get whiplash. I'm not saying nothing :siilaanyosmile:

 

[Ferrari]

Don't you think the problem is with how these sisters that marry ajanabi men/ consider them behave?

For example, what if every somali woman demanded that any ajanabi man that wanted to marry her should learn Somali? At least then he will be part of the culture -- if she is giving up the ability for her children to have a qabiil, the least the revert/ajanabi could do is bloody make an attempt to close the gap.

These girls act cheap and don't behave like their culture has value. That's what I have a problem with. I know Somali women who are married to non-Somalis who are very wadani and have successful marriages. One even said the new generation of Somali girls need to stop marrying ajanabi because they are being taken advantage of and doing things the wrong way - isolating themselves from the community.

Yes they decrease their self worth and dignity, that's the problem. No women should have to sacrifice her self respect for any guy, but when these girls do it for non Somali guys while their parents expect the best somali guy, it is a disgrace!

There are smart Somali woman who marry ajnabi for the right reasons but they are a minority.

It needs to stop. Some of them are content with a guy being an ajnabi, that's it. No other requirements, nothing, just be not Somali. It shows how much Thur expect from life.

 

[The Ash'ari]

Abaayo they even had a go at a Somali YouTuber married to a Somali guy.

I think the YouTube was called modernsomalis or something.

They'll stop at nothing, including lying to publicly shame somali women. It's quite sad and funny at the same time.

Show us any of those tweets on Ummah Forum topics where any Somali guy initiated 'lying'

I'm waiting.

 

[Assata]

I don't bash them either though. People on here and online in general can switch from bashing to neutrality or praise in the blink of an eye. I'm not trying to get whiplash. I'm not saying nothing :siilaanyosmile:

:siilaanyolaugh:
In real life I'll constantly have to take up for Somali men and women.

Because unfortunately I'm around severe self hating Xaalimos and Abdis constantly.

Somebody has to have dignity and stand up for their people.

But online I can be strictly neutral.

Somalis are superior to these ajanabis and these garbage reverts tho.

 

[Zuleikha]

This is a UK problem



We doing it for the laughs but y'all serious

This is not a UK thing. I have never seen somali girls with ajanabi wallahi and I am well connected with the somali community and the salafi community aswell.

These ajanabis on twitter probably saw the amount of somali women bashing posts on twitter and forums and thought it's fun to bash somali women if their own men are doing exactly the same thing.