Can’t be bothered entertaining the gender wars. There are Faaraxs in the west that are motivated and well educated and have an ambition who are searching for Xaliimos in the west instead of back home…. Back home is always a last resort if there is no success but never a priority.She will remain single then. The phenomenon of Somali xaliimos being single in Diaspora is as a result of lack of older Eedo and Ayeeyo- who in history were the match makers, agents for arranged marriages. U need a matriarch older hooyo to do this difficult job of marrying off their daughters and grand daughters via connections and other resources.
But the west gives it a difficult structure as farahs are jobless, aimless, sometimes asexual or high tendancies of homosexuals. That is why i think going to somalia is a good idea to find a husband. There farah -are aimless yes, jobless, but they do have a hunger or motive to marry for diaspora dollar value.
a good example of the single sexually ambiguous farah in the west is this one- celebrating being alone.
Or the single mother Angelina youtuber who more than once has said -she has no sexual feelings for men- she rather be single. Granted she is fighting a bigger fight of mental illness but that is the examples of single xaliimo and single farahs in diaspora!