Absolute Hypocrisy! Why Are Open Haram Relationships Acceptable And Normalized But A Man With Multiple Wives Is Not?!

[Keep it a boqol]

Being promiscuous and dating multiple people with no intention of commitment is perfectly fine and acceptable in the modern world. In fact it’s highly encourage with today’s feminism for both men and women to participate in this culture because of the virtue of “freedom” and equality.

 

[Juliet]

You're not depriving children of love and attention they need from both parents if you're splitting your time between 2 wives and 2 sets of children. Parental involvement is critical for proper child development, in which a 50% father will not suffice. We've seen the effects absent dads have on communities, and it aint pretty, to say the least.

In these other relationships, children are mostly not involved. Not too hard to comprehend.

 

[World]

You're not depriving children of love and attention they need from both parents if you're splitting your time between 2 wives and 2 sets of children. Parental involvement is critical for proper child development, in which a 50% father will not suffice. We've seen the effects absent dads have on communities, and it aint pretty, to say the least.

In these other relationships, children are mostly not involved. Not too hard to comprehend.

Are you another kaafir?

 

[Juliet]

Are you another kaafir?

You can be muslim, and not accept polygamy

As a woman, I care for children's wellbeing first and foremost. When i become a mum one day inshallah, I don't want my children being deprived of a proper abo

 

[World]

You can be muslim, and not accept polygamy

Only a kaafir will say that a child will develop better by having two khaniis men raise them over having his mother and his father who happened to be married to another woman.

 

[Mount23]

You're not depriving children of love and attention they need from both parents if you're splitting your time between 2 wives and 2 sets of children. Parental involvement is critical for proper child development, in which a 50% father will not suffice. We've seen the effects absent dads have on communities, and it aint pretty, to say the least.

In these other relationships, children are mostly not involved. Not too hard to comprehend.

Tf the guy talking about how cheating, LGBT relationships and Sex work is legal, you prefer that over Polygamy lol

Brainwashed beyond belief

 

[MilknMeat]

You're not depriving children of love and attention they need from both parents if you're splitting your time between 2 wives and 2 sets of children. Parental involvement is critical for proper child development, in which a 50% father will not suffice. We've seen the effects absent dads have on communities, and it aint pretty, to say the least.

In these other relationships, children are mostly not involved. Not too hard to comprehend.

Lol gaalo lovers always hate the deen

 

[Juliet]

Only a kaafir will say that a child will develop better by having two khaniis men raise them over having his mother and his father who happened to be married to another woman.

where the hell did I say that? I meant a traditional nuclear family loool

I'm 100% against lgbt btw

 

[World]

where the hell did I say that? I meant a traditional nuclear family loool

I'm 100% against lgbt btw

Well the thread is focused on lgbt so that’s why I assumed but ok nvm you’ve clarified your position

 

[Periplus]

Ain’t no body is accepting open relationships.

What is this false equivalency shit.

 

[sorevsa]

Ain’t no body is accepting open relationships.

What is this false equivalency shit.

Same with sex work, a lot of people dont really support it due to its exploitative industry

 

[Somali Salafi]

You're not depriving children of love and attention they need from both parents if you're splitting your time between 2 wives and 2 sets of children. Parental involvement is critical for proper child development, in which a 50% father will not suffice. We've seen the effects absent dads have on communities, and it aint pretty, to say the least.

In these other relationships, children are mostly not involved. Not too hard to comprehend.

Women will use any excuse they can to oppose polygamy. Pathetic.

 

[Dinaz]

Being promiscuous and dating multiple people with no intention of commitment is perfectly fine and acceptable in the modern world. In fact it’s highly encourage with today’s feminism for both men and women to participate in this culture because of the virtue of “freedom” and equality.

in what world are open relationships accepted?

 

[Dinaz]

Women will use any excuse they can to oppose polygamy. Pathetic.

do they have to accept it?

 

[Dinaz]

Well life is too short to be sad. If he no longer finds me attractive or places my self worth only on looks, and goes marry someone else, i would leave. PS I am against open relationships or lgbt

open relationships seem odd lol. I think it starts with the SO wanting to cheat and manages to convince the other to accept an open relationship so it's not considered "cheating"

 

[Qahwe]

Well life is too short to be sad. If he no longer finds her attractive or places her worth only on looks, and goes marry someone else, she should leave the marriage. No time for being sad, Wallahi. Enough nights full of anxiety about exams, .. etc. in our earlier life not also when we are older. We want peace. PS. I am against open relationships or lgbt

 

[Quickly]

Which one of you girls want this lool

https://nypost.com/2019/12/06/polyamorous-florida-woman-with-4-boyfriends-is-pregnant/amp/

 

[Keep it a boqol]

Ain’t no body is accepting open relationships.

What is this false equivalency shit.

in what world are open relationships accepted?

I also mean causal dating. Open relationships are starting become more common in the western world.

“Casual dating or a casual relationship is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the additional commitments of a more formal romantic relationship. Motives for casual relationships vary.”

Now this is much more acceptable and encouraged in our society. Movies, music, and in current culture this is a norm. So why is this acceptable and a man who’s islamically financially and obligated to take care of multiple wives wrong?

 

[Qahwe]

I also mean causal dating. Open relationships are starting become more common in the western world.

“Casual dating or a casual relationship is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have casual sex or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the additional commitments of a more formal romantic relationship. Motives for casual relationships vary.”

Now this is much more acceptable and encouraged in our society. Movies, music, and in current culture this is a norm. So why is this acceptable and a man who’s islamically financially and obligated to take care of multiple wives wrong?

An open relationship both parties are engaged in extra-marital affairs. While polygamy only the man. From a Gaalo point of view, an open relationship is fair, while polygamy is unfair. It is the opposite in Islam.

If a woman chooses not to continue in a polygamous relationship it is her choice sxb. It will never normalize since women are going to university and are working full time jobs. What is it like getting back to home after work knowing your husband won’t be spending time with you today because he is with another woman, it hurts.

Anyways, tell the woman you are marrying you want to marry another woman later in marriage if she accepts khalas. No need for a gender war.

 

[Maan]

Allah created men and women differently. Its natural men will desire more than 1 women no matter how beautiful or pious she is. We have followed the western culture in regards to monogamy being the most proper way. Yet the very same people that follow monogamy and preach monogamy are the same ones caught with prostitutes mistresses and women on the side