You think it's that easy?
She has access to Legal Aid and he doesn't. HE cannot afford to take her to court when her case will receive free funding from the government.
Absent Fathers in the Somali Community
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You think it's that easy?
She has access to Legal Aid and he doesn't. HE cannot afford to take her to court when her case will receive free funding from the government.
LoveandLight
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I am a Revolutionary! My name is LoveandLight. I am the Greatest Somali Hero of ALL time!
LoveandLight the Liberator, Commander of the Order of the Two Suns, Legendary Hero of the Somali people
Abwaan, Garyaqaan, Nabad-Doon, iyo Gaashaanle Sare Shanta Soomaaliyeed LoveandLight
I have written about this ignominy elsewhere. It is very SAD. I pray for the poor single mothers. Then there are some men who are with their wives, but are not part of their children's lives. They rather talk politics and Qabyaalad with their friends.
Any person can have a child; it takes a man to raise his children!
I pray for the Somali speaking Peoples!
The Somali people are a wounded race! 100% of the males are MUTILATED!!! Herein lies the problem: The Somali people have been brain-damaged! Eating meat (DEATH) further weakens our people!
WAKE UP!
LoveandLight the Liberator, Commander of the Order of the Two Suns, Legendary Hero of the Somali people
Abwaan, Garyaqaan, Nabad-Doon, iyo Gaashaanle Sare Shanta Soomaaliyeed LoveandLight
I have written about this ignominy elsewhere. It is very SAD. I pray for the poor single mothers. Then there are some men who are with their wives, but are not part of their children's lives. They rather talk politics and Qabyaalad with their friends.
Any person can have a child; it takes a man to raise his children!
I pray for the Somali speaking Peoples!
The Somali people are a wounded race! 100% of the males are MUTILATED!!! Herein lies the problem: The Somali people have been brain-damaged! Eating meat (DEATH) further weakens our people!
WAKE UP!
Your friend should talk with some sheekhs
1. Stop having too many kids, invest in birth control
2. Xalimos need to stop lying about their income to collect assistance, it absolves responsibilities from men, make them pay the bills so they don’t have enough to look for another woman.
3. Encourage the men to be hands on fathers and help around the house
When Somalian woman gets divorced, she takes the kids as if she made them on her own. Don’t act like super heroes, sisters make these men pay child support and involve them in their kids’ lives.
2. Xalimos need to stop lying about their income to collect assistance, it absolves responsibilities from men, make them pay the bills so they don’t have enough to look for another woman.
3. Encourage the men to be hands on fathers and help around the house
When Somalian woman gets divorced, she takes the kids as if she made them on her own. Don’t act like super heroes, sisters make these men pay child support and involve them in their kids’ lives.
Your damned if you do and your damned if you dont.
If he divorces her and is not a part of his children's lives due to the mother you will accuse him of being a deadbeat dad. If he stays in the marriage, he is berated by everyone for being used and abused and her crocodile tears will convince the community that she is the miskeen.
Seen this movie too many times.
Aint fallin for it mate.
Why not just have a family intervention happens all the time back home when Two couples dispute the families Will sort the issue out
Doesn't work for everyone. Otherwise there would be much fewer divorces. Exploiting family ties might work for some, but not for everyone. This guy actually tried.
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