A Xaalimo proposes to me

[TheMadMullah]

Last night after having a reunion dinner with one of my ex a strange convo came up. The xalimo out of nowhere proposed to me (remember) this is 3 weeks after we started talking on the phone again.

It's not that she is ugly or anything coz believ me most of you guys in here will easily be happy to wife her. She is outspoken fashionista and very independent.

Now this is where the problem lies. I met her 4 years ago and after couple of dates i somehow managed to deflower her and took her most precious trophy even though she willingly accepted. Few months down the line we parted and each went on his way and i moved to a new city with no further ties. But since last January i moved to a new city and strangely i met my ex i deflowered in this mall, so we hugged each other and after a few words we exchanged numbers.

Now back to the present we have been talking for 3 weeks and last night was our first dinner date but she shocked me by telling me since we parted she has been thinking about me and said will you marry me BUT my problem is who else has she been with all those 3 years ?? How many guys have dived in there just like i did? Shall i marry her or NOT

What do you guys think!

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

Don't marry her

 

[TheMadMullah]

Don't marry her

Any good reason why i shouldn't sxb

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

Any good reason why i shouldn't sxb

She's not a virgin

 

[Transparent]

Get some of your close female family members to conduct an investigation on her.

 

[Transparent]

If she has vowed to stop her hoeish ways only then should you consider it

 

[Bohol]

Me personally I couldn't marry a chick I deflowered out of wedlock. I would lose all respect for her since she gave up
too easily.

 

[TheMadMullah]

If she has vowed to stop her hoeish ways only then should you consider it

War my concern is simply how many guys could have dived in that thing like I did and why is she bringing up aroos on the first reunion date

 

[Transparent]

One question
Is she fat tho

 

[Transparent]

War my concern is simply how many guys could have dived in that thing like I did and why is she bringing up aroos on the first reunion date

She wants her first to be her one and only

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

War my concern is simply how many guys could have dived in that thing like I did and why is she bringing up aroos on the first reunion date

The fact that you popped her cherry so easily, and she didn't even care nor ask for marriage shows that a lot of guys ran a train on her after. It's been three years since. I hope you don't want her exes coming to your wedding.

 

[TheMadMullah]

Me personally I couldn't marry a chick I deflowered out of wedlock. I would lose all respect for her since she gave up
too easily.

That is exactly the same reason am not going ahead with this. If she gave up easily to me she will do or not done already to others

 

[Transparent]

I wouldn't wife a woman I deflowered tbh man only wifes virgins Laakin it depends if she's worth it

 

[Transparent]

The fact that she proposed whilst being a woman screams gaaaago.

 

[TheMadMullah]

One question
Is she fat tho

She is not fat but slim fit and kind of looks like muna kay

 

[Knowthyself]

somali men are so weird. they willingly take a girls virginity then dislike her for it. like....if you wanted to wife her because of her virginity, why take it from her? also why is it that y'all want a virgin when you're not one yourself? serious question.

 

[Transparent]

She is not fat but slim fit and kind of looks like muna kay

 

[Steamdevolopment]

Me personally I couldn't marry a chick I deflowered out of wedlock. I would lose all respect for her since she gave up
too easily.

She gave up the minute she saw your crusty ass and went: "I can make a man out this he-beats"

 

[Transparent]

somali men are so weird. they willingly take a girls virginity then dislike her for it. like....if you wanted to wife her because of her virginity, why take it from her? also why is it that y'all want a virgin when you're not one yourself? serious question.

It's a matter of principle having a virgin wife indicates that she has mastered the art of self-restraint

 

[TheMadMullah]

somali men are so weird. they willingly take a girls virginity then dislike her for it. like....if you wanted to wife her because of her virginity, why take it from her? also why is it that y'all want a virgin when you're not one yourself? serious question.

Four years ago wifey was the last thing on my mind besides I never made a promise to marry her all I wanted was smash and dash