A question for the brothers..

[Bundasliga]

Do you even know what the word 'accomadation' means? No offence, but what is wrong with you? Women are already jealous, what makes you think it is Islamically acceptable to make two women live under the same roof? Are you slow?

A room is not enough. Seperate kitchen, bathroom, living area. It is an injustice making them live together. You can't even make your wife live with her parents let alone a co-wife loool.

The wife has the right to live in separate accommodation with her husband and children, and not to share it with anyone, whether it is a father, a mother or a relative.

This is the view of most of the Hanafi, Shaafa’i and Hanbali fuqaha’. She also has the right to refuse to live with his father, mother and siblings.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/94965

First, as a wife, you are entitled to have a separate accommodation for your own, even if it is rented. A wife is not obliged to live with her in-laws as per the Islamic Sharee'ah. In fact, living with the husband’s parents in the same house often incurs problems; therefore, husbands should pay attention to that issue. Please, refer to Fatwa

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Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhu Shaykh I have a very important question regarding polygamy I have spoken to my wife about marrying another wife she is not happy but seems to have accepted it so I am going to need to find out a few things regarding spending and housing before...

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Your wife is not obliged to live with either her relatives or yours. The Muslim wife has a right to an independent accommodation. If she claims her right and requests a separate accommodation, you are obliged to fulfill her right over you according to her status and your ability. You are not required to own the accommodation; you may rent it.

Alot of timo jileecs need to hear that...

 

[NinWero]

Yes, I would. Unless she's learning to become a hafis, she has to do her role.

 

[Angelina]

As long as she has her own separate accommodation in the house that comes with bedroom, bathroom, kitchen etc, no problem.

On a three floor house, wifey #1 can live on the third floor, wifey #2 lives on the the second floor, and wifey #3 lives on the ground floor.

Nope, majority are actually not even okay with that. It needs to be private in which they don't see each other.

You can't even force her to live with your fam, let alone another woman. You're slow.

 

[reer]

Nope, majority are actually not even okay with that. It needs to be private in which they don't see each other.

You can't even force her to live with your fam, let alone another woman. You're slow.

i doubt hes familiar with polygamous men. wives want their own house. and more than one wife in one house is trouble.

 

[World]

Nope, majority are actually not even okay with that. It needs to be private in which they don't see each other.

You can't even force her to live with your fam, let alone another woman. You're slow.

Well they won’t be seeing each other, each will have their own floor to themselves. Maybe separate entrances and exits from the house on each floor as well? What do you think about that solution?

 

[Angelina]

i doubt hes familiar with polygamous men. wives want their own house. and more than one wife in one house is trouble.

Nah, they're trolling and behaving slow. No woman will accept that, and it is Islamically unacceptable as well. Women aren't even accepting polygamy let alone the nonsense they're talking about.

If you can't even provide two different accommodations then it is haram for you to marry again as you clearly can't afford it.

 

[Angelina]

Well they won’t be seeing each other, each will have their own floor to themselves. Maybe separate entrances and exits from the house on each floor as well? What do you think about that solution?

World, I don't have time for your fantasy life.

They'd probably beat each other up anyway. No sane woman would accept it and no man that cares for his peace would do it.

If you can't afford separation, then polygamy is haram for you. Simple as.

 

[World]

World, I don't have time for your fantasy life.

They'd probably beat each other up anyway. No sane woman would accept it and no man that cares for his peace would do it.

If you can't afford separation, then polygamy is haram for you. Simple as.

Ok what if I built two houses next to each other so they’re neighbours? But we shared a garden and front porch together?

 

[Angelina]

Ok what if I built two houses next to each other so they’re neighbours? But we shared a garden and front porch together?

Looool little man, rest!

If you can two women to cooperate in that way, then great for you.

 

[Journey.]

I’m sorry but if I have another woman in my house cooking and cleaning for me, don’t be surprised that I fall in love with her especially if she is young. She’ll be feeding me my favourite meals whilst my so called wife is watching netflix and being a lazy unproductive Karen.

You have to be trolling. I hope you are anyway.

 

[Angelina]

Ibn Qudamah wrote in his book al-Mughni: ‘A husband is not allowed to keep his two wives in a house without their previous agreement since it causes harm to them due to the Ghirah (a feeling of great fury and anger when one’s honour and prestige is injured or challenged) they have that leads to disputes and disagreements.’

is the right of a wife to ask her husband to offer her a separate accommodation, and it is not permissible for him to force her to dwell with his parents or relatives, let alone obliging her to live with his other wives. Therefore, we advise this husband to endeavour as much as he can to acquire a separate accommodation for his wife as it is her right and since she asked him for it. If he is unable to buy an accommodation for her, he can rent a house for her.

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A husband is not entitled to force wives to share a single house.​

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In principle, a wife has the right to live in a separate apartment that secures her privacy and an honorable marital life.

Can Co-Wives Live in a Single Apartment?

I have a question and I am wondering if you may be able to help. I am looking for information on if it is OK for co-wives to live in the same house.

aboutislam.net

@Javelin

This is common sense. It causes fitnah which is why you can not do so, unless the women want to.


Imagine acting like a woman wanting her own place makes her disagreeble and that she has no rights. Islam isn't a religion that abuses women warya. Every day you're here talking about 'feminism' but you're out here trying to take away women's rights. Uffff.

 

[Angelina]

Alot of timo jileecs need to hear that...

Yes, that is why a lot of scholars have been talking about it as in traditional hindu culture, making your wife live with all 9 of your family members as long as she has a 'bedroom' is normalised when Islamically she has a right to her own place. A lot of Asians have still kept that part of the culture.

@Javelin here thinks that South Asian culture is part of Islam. Get out of here.

 

[Hmohamed54]

Having help in the UK, unless you're earning a certain amount isn't possible, but you can get cleaners like 3 times in the week for cheap.

If you have kids, she can spend most times actually playing with them and facilitating their learning, instead of leaving them to their devises constantly cooking and cleaning.

I'd actually try and make sure my child knew at least 3 languages before 5, use different learning techniques so that by the time they're in grade 1, they're well above average ect. Yh, i'd probably end up being like those crazy Asian tiger mums loooool. InshaAllah.

Im tired of tis women honestly. Never satisfied with any responses. May Allah help your husband.

 

[Hmohamed54]

Not really you just can't have 3somes basically you can't bed more than 1 wife at a time but they can all live in the same house with the own bedrooms.

What you doing here anyways this is a question for the bros lol.

You can be intimate with one only at a time. She can watch but not join. Its cool cause you can have an audience bro.

 

[Odious Delirium]

No offence, but what is wrong with you? Women are already jealous, what makes you think it is Islamically acceptable to make two women live under the same roof? Are you slow?

A room is not enough. Seperate kitchen, bathroom, living area. It is an injustice making them live together. You can't even make your wife live with her parents let alone a co-wife loool.

The wife has the right to live in separate accommodation with her husband and children, and not to share it with anyone, whether it is a father, a mother or a relative.

This is the view of most of the Hanafi, Shaafa’i and Hanbali fuqaha’. She also has the right to refuse to live with his father, mother and siblings.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/94965

First, as a wife, you are entitled to have a separate accommodation for your own, even if it is rented. A wife is not obliged to live with her in-laws as per the Islamic Sharee'ah. In fact, living with the husband’s parents in the same house often incurs problems; therefore, husbands should pay attention to that issue. Please, refer to Fatwa

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Providing accommodation for first and second wives

Assalaamu alaykum wa rahmatullaahi wa barakaatuhu Shaykh I have a very important question regarding polygamy I have spoken to my wife about marrying another wife she is not happy but seems to have accepted it so I am going to need to find out a few things regarding spending and housing before...

www.google.com

Your wife is not obliged to live with either her relatives or yours. The Muslim wife has a right to an independent accommodation. If she claims her right and requests a separate accommodation, you are obliged to fulfill her right over you according to her status and your ability. You are not required to own the accommodation; you may rent it.

Yh I agree but if you noticed doesn't say anything about living with Co wives it only talks about relatives and in laws because that mainly includes other men meaning she won't have absolute privacy in her own house and because of fitna. Nothing you have posted disproves what I have said because I know what I'm talking about.

I don't know why your angry with me like I said already if you don't want to do this then you don't have to but just so you know plenty of women live like this it's nothing new especially those that live with millionaire husbands if you don't want live like that make it clear as a rule before you get married otherwise you have no say in the matter and it's up to him if he's considerate enough to allow it.

Advice to women you have a lot of power before you get married make sure you use it remember nikkah is a contract treat it like one and get the best deal you can. Whatever you stipulate aslong as it's not haram is binding if the man accepts it. Go through it with an imam if you need help. If the guy doesn't want to go through with it then just know he wasn't the guy and move on.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Ibn Qudamah wrote in his book al-Mughni: ‘A husband is not allowed to keep his two wives in a house without their previous agreement since it causes harm to them due to the Ghirah (a feeling of great fury and anger when one’s honour and prestige is injured or challenged) they have that leads to disputes and disagreements.’

is the right of a wife to ask her husband to offer her a separate accommodation, and it is not permissible for him to force her to dwell with his parents or relatives, let alone obliging her to live with his other wives. Therefore, we advise this husband to endeavour as much as he can to acquire a separate accommodation for his wife as it is her right and since she asked him for it. If he is unable to buy an accommodation for her, he can rent a house for her.

Redirect Notice

A husband is not entitled to force wives to share a single house.​

Redirect Notice

In principle, a wife has the right to live in a separate apartment that secures her privacy and an honorable marital life.

Can Co-Wives Live in a Single Apartment?

I have a question and I am wondering if you may be able to help. I am looking for information on if it is OK for co-wives to live in the same house.

aboutislam.net

@Javelin

This is common sense. It causes fitnah which is why you can not do so, unless the women want to.


Imagine acting like a woman wanting her own place makes her disagreeble and that she has no rights. Islam isn't a religion that abuses women warya. Every day you're here talking about 'feminism' but you're out here trying to take away women's rights. Uffff.

Ibn qudamah isn't the consensus and he's just stating his opinion based on the point of gairah. Everything else I basically already agreed with.

You can twist my words however you want but your not entitled to a millionaire so yeah I guess to a rich guy he will be more intolerant and something like your point will be deemed as being disagreeable.

Why do I have to explain something so simple? Come on your smarter than that use your brain.

 

[Odious Delirium]

Yes, that is why a lot of scholars have been talking about it as in traditional hindu culture, making your wife live with all 9 of your family members as long as she has a 'bedroom' is normalised when Islamically she has a right to her own place. A lot of Asians have still kept that part of the culture.

@Javelin here thinks that South Asian culture is part of Islam. Get out of here.

Twisting my word I see look you ain't going to get picked up by a rich guy so you don't have to worry about sharing a house with a Co wife.

Why does this trigger you so much damn

 

[Angelina]

Ibn qudamah isn't the consensus and he's just stating his opinion based on the point of gairah. Everything else I basically already agreed with.

You can twist my words however you want but your not entitled to a millionaire so yeah I guess to a rich guy he will be more intolerant and something like your point will be deemed as being disagreeable.

Why do I have to explain something so simple? Come on your smarter than that use your brain.

This is Islamic rights of women 101. I've literally sent you multiple fatwas from 3 different Islamically legitimate websites. I can even send you videos.

This is a fact, it is haram to make a woman live with her co-wife. This is the title of the fatwa in black and white:

A husband is not entitled to force wives to share a single house.​

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.islamweb.net/amp/en/fatwa/264520/

Read about it instead of arguing.


This is not about a millionaire. A man that cannot afford to provide for two women isn't allowed to be polygamous. Everyone knows this. That is why you'll hardly ever find a polygamous man married to two women under the same roof.

Humble yourself and understand what is haram is haram.

 

[Angelina]

Twisting my word I see look you ain't going to get picked up by a rich guy so you don't have to worry about sharing a house with a Co wife.

Why does this trigger you so much damn

Polygamous marriages in which you cannot provide seperate housing is haram.

It is triggering as you're lying about the deen. You're literally saying saying a husband can force wives to live together. That is a lie.

 

[Angelina]

@Javelin

It is the right of a wife to ask her husband to offer her a separate accommodation, and it is not permissible for him to force her to dwell with his parents or relatives, let alone obliging her to live with his other wives.

If he is unable to buy an accommodation for her, he can rent a house for her.

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Why lie? What does that say? Read it.

One thing i'll never understand is when people are delusional and make up b.s.