A question for the brothers..

AbrahamFreedom

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She's a lesbian. It works out. She's my best friend. She's incredibly beautiful and is so peaceful. I have never seen her get mad or yell. I don't deserve her. I live in ultimate peace like my abo does.
How did u even find out she was lesbian? Is she somali? Does she go out with other women or is she just doing nothing?
 

Yahya

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An absolute must. As am Muslim woman she must provide for at least 4 days of the week. She can work part time the choice is hers, as long as she's home and with the kids by the time i come back we are within the agreement. Anything less is pure laziness and against our religion.

I can help out on the weekends and on my days off of course, but a wife's duties are sacred and must be adhered to.
 
I'm honestly not convinced. I don't see how that's too much to handle with like 3 kids when it's the *only* thing she has to concern yourself with. It's not like she wouldn't get any help at all from me either.

That's also why I specified unless I'm *rich* rich. I would get her help for sure, but not for the reasons you mention. With the level of wealth you're describing, ambitions go past just a wife and kids. I would hire help to substitute my increased absence.
I agree with you. Not working and not doing nothing can't be good for your mental health.
An absolute must. As am Muslim woman she must provide for at least 4 days of the week. She can work part time the choice is hers, as long as she's home and with the kids by the time i come back we are within the agreement. Anything less is pure laziness and against our religion.

I can help out on the weekends and on my days off of course, but a wife's duties are sacred and must be adhered to.
Not doing chores isn't against the religion. In the Shafi madhab along with others she doesn't have to do chores. In the Hanafi, they believe that a girl from a rich family doesn't have to. Chores are not sacred in Islam. During the time of the Prophet s.a.w having servants was the norm if you could afford it. Women didn't even always breastfeed their kids if they were upper/middle class like how the Prophet s.a.w was breastfed by Halima Sacidia.

So, what on earth are you talking about?
 
A wife, has to abide by the rules, the rules that have been set by the protecter of the house the husband.

A husband can help out here and there, but the wife will still need to do her duties. The importance of a wife being obedient to her husband is very important in Islam, and a husband has to respect his wife.
 

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