A Muslim Simp.😬

[Omar del Sur]

No, you're the one that is being dishonest. In this day and age a man simply buying his wife gifts and being loving towards her can garner the word 'simp'. Even basic respect can make you seem like a simp.

How many times have we seen online a man that is buying loving, doing something thoughtful for his wife be branded as a 'simp'? Its always the redpill types as well. Funny how selective you are as the same website also states:

It is true that "simp" can be misused in that sense but even the way you describe this misusage of the term "In this day and age a man simply buying his wife gifts and being loving... can garner the word 'simp'"- seems to indicate that even you recognize that this is a misusage of the term.

My post was dealing with the word in the sense of what it actually means and in the sense that OP was using it.

"A simp: one that puts women on a pedestal and tries to gain their favour by being submissive to them and being accepting of all their demands, just so they can get some crumbs of attention.


Being a benevolent husband is not being a simp."

I mean... sure... there are guys who use the word incorrectly but that doesn't get rid of what the word actually means and the sense in which OP used it which is the correct meaning. He obviously wasn't talking about buying flowers for one's wife.

You need to stop calling people and concepts you don't agree with as feminist.

There is definitely a feminist influence in this thread. CNN is even open about it- if you read the article, they want to get rid of the word or change it to mean something good because it supposedly promotes "toxic masculinity" and they even are openly pushing against the term in order to groom men for some sort of "new masculinity". I don't think we need to push any sort of "new masculinity". Most people here are in the West and so yes many people here are influenced by Western ideologies such as feminism and liberalism and there is no sin on me if I point that out.

""Think the energy of puppy dog eyes but manifested in a romantic, human form," Howlett said. "It's used in an insulting manner. Though typically playful, there are definitely undertones of toxic masculinity since it's related to showing too much emotion."...
One way to think of a simp, said Sean Davis, a marriage and family therapist in Sacramento, California, is "simply someone who is ahead of their time."" -the CNN article

 

[TekNiKo]

How the hell can you be a simp to your wife? Ridiculous comparison, simp should only be used during the courting stage

 

[Angelina]

It is true that "simp" can be misused in that sense but even the way you describe this misusage of the term "In this day and age a man simply buying his wife gifts and being loving... can garner the word 'simp'"- seems to indicate that even you recognize that this is a misusage of the term.

My post was dealing with the word in the sense of what it actually means and in the sense that OP was using it.

"A simp: one that puts women on a pedestal and tries to gain their favour by being submissive to them and being accepting of all their demands, just so they can get some crumbs of attention.


Being a benevolent husband is not being a simp."

I mean... sure... there are guys who use the word incorrectly but that doesn't get rid of what the word actually means and the sense in which OP used it which is the correct meaning. He obviously wasn't talking about buying flowers for one's wife.

Lol, he didn't. He even has issues with basic things like happy wife, happy life. What weird individual would have issues with that. Married people will tell you their lives are happier when their other halves are happy as well. I as a woman would be happy when my husband is and if my husband is sad, then obviously my life will be difficult as he is a big part of my life.

Acknowledging the fact that the majority of men missuse the word 'simp' and how harmful it is when it comes to the Muslim community isn't feminist.

The issue you have is you're so obsessed with Westernization and feminism that you fail to understand that the Muslim community has the opposite problem. We have an issue of many Muslim women globally not getting their Islamic rights or treated with respect across the world. Look at the cultural Jahiliya in places like Pakistan, parts of the Arab world and even to some extent back home. Our jahil culture surrounding women still has an impact on the way some of our men treat and view us. Our communities have different views and dynamics compared to non Muslim cadaaans. Still in 2022, scholars are preaching to some Muslim communities to not treat their daughter in laws as a free maid they abuse and you want to talk about 'simps'.

This is the issue I have with some Muslim men. They use issues that plague gaals and use it to bash Muslim women. A perfect example is divorce laws. Divorce laws aren't an issue with Somalis... Because guess what, majority don't record their marriages and men hardly pay child support, yet for some strange reason Somalis and other Muslim men love to talk about it.

 

[Rocktheboat]

OP is right but this is a very feminist website. This place is like Reddit. There's a difference between being nice and being a simp and I think everyone knows that but people are pretending not to.

And that's a good thing. Look at what you wetbacks are doing in your home countries. You could use some feminism

 

[Omar del Sur]

Lol, he didn't. He even has issues with basic things like happy wife, happy life. What weird individual would have issues with that. Married people will tell you their lives are happier when their other halves are happy as well. I as a woman would be happy when my husband is and if my husband is sad, then obviously my life will be difficult as he is a big part of my life.

Acknowledging the fact that the majority of men missuse the word 'simp' and how harmful it is when it comes to the Muslim community isn't feminist.

The issue you have is you're so obsessed with Westernization and feminism that you fail to understand that the Muslim community has the opposite problem. We have an issue of many Muslim women globally not getting their Islamic rights or treated with respect across the world. Look at the cultural Jahiliya in places like Pakistan, parts of the Arab world and even to some extent back home. Our jahil culture surrounding women still has an impact on the way some of our men treat and view us. Our communities have different views and dynamics compared to non Muslim cadaaans. Still in 2022, scholars are preaching to some Muslim communities to not treat their daughter in laws as a free maid they abuse and you want to talk about 'simps'.

This is the issue I have with some Muslim men. They use issues that plague gaals and use it to bash Muslim women. A perfect example is divorce laws. Divorce laws aren't an issue with Somalis... Because guess what, majority don't record their marriages and men hardly pay child support, yet for some strange reason Somalis and other Muslim men love to talk about it.

You invoke Third World countries but outrage over guys using the word "simp" is first-world problem. It's in the category of "patriarchal design of kitchen sinks" and "math is racist". If I get on a plane to Yemen and talk to the women, I don't think their bleeding concern will be guys on the internet using the word "simp". If that's the oppression of the women, the women must have it pretty easy.

 

[Omar del Sur]

And that's a good thing. Look at what you wetbacks are doing in your home countries. You could use some feminism

Oh, the West is working on it. That's why the Brazilians elected Bolsonaro. Apparently, Brazilians didn't like their schoolchildren being taught transgenderism. Apparently that's what the West is talking about when they monologue about "human rights".

 

[Omar del Sur]

oh I just looked at that video. you are a sucker if you believe Western propaganda. Honduras is one of the most dangerous countries in the world. of course women get killed. they get killed just like men get killed except the feminists make it this big issue and make a bunch of propaganda about it being a war on women. people there aren't going around killing women just for being women. they just happen to live in a violent country so yeah women get killed. the men get killed way more frequently in those countries but the feminists just talk about women deaths to push their feminist agenda.

edit: Above Honduras- in the purple is the killings of women. in the greyish color is the killings of men. the whole "feminicidio" issue as they call it is utterly fake. it is a hoax.

 

[Angelina]

You invoke Third World countries but outrage over guys using the word "simp" is first-world problem. It's in the category of "patriarchal design of kitchen sinks" and "math is racist". If I get on a plane to Yemen and talk to the women, I don't think their bleeding concern will be guys on the internet using the word "simp". If that's the oppression of the women, the women must have it pretty easy.

Its not just third world as those third world traditions still persist amongst Western Muslims. The in-law issue is still a major problem amongst Western Asian Muslims. In fact, forced marriages still happen here. My point here, women within the Muslim community aren't still treated well as certain things are still entrenched in their jahil culture. Even being amongst cadaans, we're still cultural.

My whole issue is that Muslim guys as a whole are no where near simps. Muslim women as a whole are struggling to get their basic rights and a bit of kindness, let alone men behaving like simps. We're not cadaan women who have the same relationship dynamics, so as a Muslim man why talk about simps?!

 

[Angelina]

oh I just looked at that video. you are a sucker if you believe Western propaganda. Honduras is one of the most dangerous countries in the world. of course women get killed. they get killed just like men get killed except the feminists make it this big issue and make a bunch of propaganda about it being a war on women. people there aren't going around killing women just for being women. they just happen to live in a violent country so yeah women get killed. the men get killed way more frequently in those countries but the feminists just talk about women deaths to push their feminist agenda.

edit: Above Honduras- in the purple is the killings of women. in the greyish color is the killings of men. the whole "feminicidio" issue as they call it is utterly fake. it is a hoax.

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Latin countries probably have the worst sexual trafficking and women turning down advances can be a death sentence. Yemen and Somalia at times are war torn countries and I doubt women were ever targeted the way they are in Honduras. Men are murdered everywhere more so than women. Its usually men in gangs and on the front line, but this isn't a comparison between just men and women of that nation. More women are murdered there, compared to other nations, even violent ones.

Ah I just read something. Come on Omar. Come on! Funny how you failed to mention that the majority of the women are murdered by a family member or a partner. Nah that is shocking! Simply looking at graphs and not looking at context is misleading. So how on earth is that a hoax?!

Seems you lot have high rates of men abusing and killing their partners or women they aspire to be with and that is flipping worse and more scary than being murdered by a rival gang member.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Latin countries probably have the worst sexual trafficking and women turning down advances can be a death sentence. Yemen and Somalia at times are war torn countries and I doubt women were ever targeted the way they are in Honduras. Men are murdered everywhere more so than women. Its usually men in gangs and on the front line, but this isn't a comparison between just men and women of that nation. More women are murdered there, compared to other nations, even violent ones.

Ah I just read something. Come on Omar. Come on! Funny how you failed to mention that the majority of the women are murdered by a family member or a partner. Nah that is shocking! Simply looking at graphs and not looking at context is misleading. So how on earth is that a hoax?!

Seems you lot have high rates of men abusing and killing their partners or women they aspire to be with and that is flipping worse and more scary than being murdered by a rival gang member.

Women turning down advances can be a death sentence? I mean there are threats to the safety of women if you live in a poor country in Latin America or Africa. I could go and start demonizing Africans but I have no interest in doing so. There are dangers to women in Honduras and there are dangers to women in South Africa.

I don't lecture people on Somalia because I don't speak Somali and I would want to understand Somali-language sources if I were to say a lot about Somalia. If anyone wants to learn about Latin America, I invite them to learn Spanish. But if you really want to know about the region, consuming Western propaganda in English isn't going to make you a knowledgeable person in regards to the region.

You say Latin Americans kill their female partners.

"The Latin American countries that reported the highest incidence of death of women by intimate partner or ex-intimate partner in 2020 are the Dominican Republic (1.0 per 100,000 women), Paraguay (0.9 per 100,000 women) and Honduras (0.8). Six countries reported a decrease in the death rates of women caused by their partner or former intimate partner compared to the year 2019: Argentina, Honduras, Paraguay, Puerto Rico, Dominican Republic and Uruguay. Five countries maintained the same rates as the previous year: Chile, Colombia, Ecuador, Nicaragua and Panama, and only Costa Rica and El Salvador registered an increase in the death rates of women caused by their intimate partner or ex-partner."

Muerte de mujeres ocasionada por su pareja o ex-pareja íntima

Los países de América Latina que reportaron la mayor incidencia de muerte de mujeres por pareja íntima o ex-pareja íntima en 2021 son la República Dominicana (1.6 por cada 100.000 mujeres), Uruguay (1.1 por cada 100.000 mujeres) y Honduras (1.0). Además, son los únicos tres países de América...

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Yes, I condemn that 0.8 woman per 100,000 in Honduras gets murdered by her partner. It is terrible and I condemn it.

As for violence and criminality, your English-language outlets aren't telling you this- in Mexico, the "human rights defenders" defend the drug cartels. They help and they support the drug cartels.

Nor are your English-language Western propaganda outlets telling you the long history of how the United States has destabilized the region and created chaos throughout the region. How they have been meddling in the region and undermining the region for about two hundred years since the independence from Spain.

These English outlets are not telling you one tenth of the reality. You will not understand the region without knowing the language anymore than I can lecture about Hausa people without knowing Hausa. Anyways it is an absurdity that you complain about the criminality in the region while also promoting liberal and feminist ideology. If you go to a poor African country- and you tell them God doesn't exist. You push secularization on them, you push liberal ideology, you try to remove their culture and their religious values from them- what do you think is going to happen? The Mexicans are a warrior race and have been since the Aztecs. They are innately religious and spiritual people- they are descended from Indians.

For centuries and centuries the people were deeply religious and lived under theocracy- Catholic theocracy during the centuries of Spanish rule, mesoamerican theocracies in the pre-Hispanic days. When Mexico first became independent, it was a Catholic monarchy and theocracy. The United States plotted and had the Emperor overthrown and the monarchy eliminated and replaced with secular liberal democracy, US style. The United States for about two centuries has backed liberalism and secularization in Mexico. It's actually very similar with Somalia. You have a people who are inherently religious, who have warrior tendencies.... you push secularism on them and.... you have a recipe for chaos. Yes, you have poor people, you take away their religious and traditional values and you have set them up for disaster.

Maybe in some way you feminist elements feel that you can gain personally by pushing such ideology. But whatever satisfaction you gain comes at the cost of destroying the society. The feminists function like termites serving to destroy the institutions of religion and family. They are anti-social elements- they and liberals help to create the breeding grounds for chaos, criminality, destruction of religion and family so I think it is absurd to hear them rail against crime. In the US they were just recently calling for defunding the police.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

OP is right but this is a very feminist website. This place is like Reddit. There's a difference between being nice and being a simp and I think everyone knows that but people are pretending not to.

You need to peddle your thoughts to your fellow Mexicans instead of trying to force it onto us.

 

[ForwardSweep]

I'm certain it's not possible to "simp" for someone you're in a relationship with. The whole concept of simping rests on a fundamental factor and that's not getting pussy from the one who the simp simps for. I bet these Gen Z ciyaal went and got the definition changed and I'm out here looking like an out of touch old man.

 

[Keo]

Simp knows no religion

 

[Periplus]

The ummah is finished at this point.

You either have partying alcoholics that snort Charlie and say Wallahi each weekend or loners that use Islam to justify being a c*nt.

There is barely any middle ground between the two on the internet.

 

[Nilotic]

And that's a good thing. Look at what you wetbacks are doing in your home countries. You could use some feminism

 

[Rocktheboat]

Are you Australians familiar with that word?

 

[Nilotic]

Are you Australians familiar with that word?

We're familiar with everything American; y'all don't realise how culturally influential American popular culture is.

 

[Jeghbamjdb]

A thread filled with obtuse people who can't seem to understand simple definitions.


A benevolent husband who lives with his wife in an honorable and respectful way=a good husband that follows the sunnah

A simp: one who is entirely submissive to his woman and doesn't demand to be treated properly when his wife sees him as a fan. A man whose right as the head of the home isn't respected because of his doormat tendencies = wretched and spineless, not one to be emulated

And stating this doesn't make me 'red pill', whatever that means.

Is it a misunderstanding or do some of these sick people actually want to be simps or have simps as husbands?

@Omar del Sur only reasonable dude on here.

 

[Jeghbamjdb]

The ummah is finished at this point.

You either have partying alcoholics that snort Charlie and say Wallahi each weekend or loners that use Islam to justify being a c*nt.

There is barely any middle ground between the two on the internet.

'Muh, ummah is finished'

Maybe this might be the reason why you don't have maidens on your spindle.

L+maidenless.

 

[Periplus]

'Muh, ummah is finished'

Maybe this might be the reason why you don't have maidens on your spindle.

L+maidenless.

Nigga what?