A Muslim Simp.😬

[Jeghbamjdb]

Imagine being raised with Islam and still being a simp. It would be a bit understandable if you were a miskiin cadaan that was brought up with sayings like, "Happy wife, happy life," but that isn't the case at all.

It's quite the opposite actually. In the case of Islam it is(paraphrasing and simplifying btw), "happy and satisfied husband, happy afterlife."

One of the .ost despicable creatures out there.

 

[Onyxbrainster]

What’s wrong with spoiling and being good to your wife? Don’t simp if it aint ur wife but simp for ur wife at all costs it’s halal tf

 

[Jeghbamjdb]

What’s wrong with spoiling and being good to your wife? Don’t simp if it aint ur wife but simp for ur wife at all costs it’s halal tf

May Allah help you.

 

[Jeghbamjdb]

@Onyxbrainster I think we have different definitions of what constitutes a simp.

 

[Onyxbrainster]

May Allah help you.

Wdym allah help me? That’s your wife man what the hell

 

[Onyxbrainster]

Only insecure men who don’t got it like that shame other men who are good to their wife. Buy her roses, be playful with her, and just do what you gotta do.

 

[Jeghbamjdb]

Wdym allah help me? That’s your wife man what the hell

That's not simping g, that's just being a good husband.

 

[Lostbox]

Do you want your future partner to treat you well? Would it surprise you if they expect the same?

 

[Jeghbamjdb]

Do you want your future partner to treat you well? Would it surprise you if they expect the same?

A simp: one that puts women on a pedestal and tries to gain their favour by being submissive to them and being accepting of all their demands, just so they can get some crumbs of attention.


Being a benevolent husband is not being a simp.

 

[Mercury]

You know theres a sunnah that reminds men to treat women kindly its not just your wife but all women you come across in life

 

[Jeghbamjdb]

You know theres a sunnah that reminds men to treat women kindly its not just your wife but all women you come across in life

Source?

Islam tells us to treat all believers well, despite their gender, but I haven't come across a hadith that says that men should go out of their way to be kind to women.

Just treat them like you would any other believer.

 

[Mercury]

Source?

Islam tells us to treat all believers well, despite their gender, but I haven't come across a hadith that says that men should go out of their way to be kind to women.

Just treat them like you would any other believer.

Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (may Allah's peace and blessings be upon him) said: "I advise you to treat women kindly, for the woman was created from a rib, and the most crooked part of the rib is its uppermost part. If you try to straighten it, you will break it; and if you leave it, it will remain crooked. So, treat women kindly."

 

[Angelina]

Okay we get it, you're redpill filth.

Its sad, even being nice to one's wife is controversial amongst to some Muslims. There is a reason why in one of the Prophet's last sermin was to treat women well. He emphasized it as the Arabs at the time and tbh till this day, had a bad habit of mistreatment.

Back home and other Eastern countries, mistreating women is the norm and Muslim guys in the West tell us that basic kindness is 'simping'.

Anyways Allah will deal with some you men. Funnily enough, most of these guys don't even get fulfulling married lives as instead of being the best husband they can be, they look at life from a power lense.

 

[Angelina]

Source?

Islam tells us to treat all believers well, despite their gender, but I haven't come across a hadith that says that men should go out of their way to be kind to women.

Just treat them like you would any other believer.

There are multiple and I mean multiple hadiths about treating women well.

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Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:
The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, "The believers who show the most perfect faith are those who have the best behaviour, and the best of you are those who are the best to their wives."


I'm sure you think this is simping as well? The fact that the best of men are best to to their wives. You don't even believe your deen tells you to be kind to women.

 

[Jaydaan]

Imagine being raised with Islam and still being a simp. It would be a bit understandable if you were a miskiin cadaan that was brought up with sayings like, "Happy wife, happy life," but that isn't the case at all.

It's quite the opposite actually. In the case of Islam it is(paraphrasing and simplifying btw), "happy and satisfied husband, happy afterlife."

One of the .ost despicable creatures out there.

Happy wife happy life is global theme men of all kinds agree on. A miserable woman can bring everything around her down. So keep her happy and enjoy life

 

[Jiron]

we should avoid the usage of the 'S' word, treating women good is very positive and not something to look down on

 

[Abdisamad]

If you can't or have no intention of keeping your wife happy then don't marry a woman at all.. Life is not about power and gender competition.
The difference between a beta male and an alpha male, an alpha male can provide for and make his woman happy a beta male is struggling to get with any woman, has a horrible attitude towards women and low-income as well..

 

[Omar del Sur]

OP is right but this is a very feminist website. This place is like Reddit. There's a difference between being nice and being a simp and I think everyone knows that but people are pretending not to.

 

[Omar del Sur]

Simp​

It is when a male is overly submissive to a female and gains nothing from it. So overly submissive that other guys cringe and feel ashamed when seeing them. This applies to males in relationships when they are so submissive that they say literally anything to be in favor with the female.
Jake: Bro, did you hear what collin said to his girl?
Alex: Yeah, he's such a Simp he's embarrassing to be around.
by Mr. Sinful September 02, 2020
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there is nothing in Islam advocating this. there's a difference between being nice and what this is describing.

even CNN gets this:

The new slang teens use to insult boys who are 'too nice' to girls | CNN

Many parents might be unfamiliar with the word "simp," but chances are your tween or teen has used or at least heard the term. Simp is slang for a person (typically a man) who is desperate for the attention and affection of someone else (typically a woman).

www.cnn.com

""'Simp' is slang for a person (typically a man) who is desperate for the attention and affection of someone else (typically a woman)," said Connor Howlett, 23, a digital strategist for Turner PR in New York City, in an email to CNN."

How can people have the moral highground if they don't want to adhere to simply being honest? Obviously, you don't need to twist the meaning of words and engage in dishonesty if the truth is on your side in an argument.

 

[Angelina]

Simp​

It is when a male is overly submissive to a female and gains nothing from it. So overly submissive that other guys cringe and feel ashamed when seeing them. This applies to males in relationships when they are so submissive that they say literally anything to be in favor with the female.
Jake: Bro, did you hear what collin said to his girl?
Alex: Yeah, he's such a Simp he's embarrassing to be around.
by Mr. Sinful September 02, 2020
1811
372


there is nothing in Islam advocating this. there's a difference between being nice and what this is describing.

even CNN gets this:

The new slang teens use to insult boys who are 'too nice' to girls | CNN

Many parents might be unfamiliar with the word "simp," but chances are your tween or teen has used or at least heard the term. Simp is slang for a person (typically a man) who is desperate for the attention and affection of someone else (typically a woman).

www.cnn.com

""'Simp' is slang for a person (typically a man) who is desperate for the attention and affection of someone else (typically a woman)," said Connor Howlett, 23, a digital strategist for Turner PR in New York City, in an email to CNN."

How can people have the moral highground if they don't want to adhere to simply being honest? Obviously, you don't need to twist the meaning of words and engage in dishonesty if the truth is on your side in an argument.

No, you're the one that is being dishonest. In this day and age a man simply buying his wife gifts and being loving towards her can garner the word 'simp'. Even basic respect can make you seem like a simp. Unfortunately, a lot of men are more obsessed with power and always having the upper hand than having a loving relationship in which a man realises that being the best husand is not only good for his marriage but also akhira.

How many times have we seen online a man that is being loving, doing something thoughtful for his wife be branded as a 'simp'? Its always the redpill types as well.


You need to stop calling people and concepts you don't agree with as feminist.