A man who has been previously married

Anyways, girls, don't be guilted or pressured into playing stepmother. Powerful/wealthy men have something to offer for your stress/troubles, not an average faarax.

They will tell you all sorts of sob stories and try to scare you into lowering your standards and stop critical thought.
 

Basra

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Girls, would you consider getting to know a man who was previously married and his kids?



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Bronco

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Ok modified version for the girls who said maybe:

What if his ex-wife is ajnabi so you won't have to worry about he said, she said bullshit in the community and the calacaal
 
Ok modified version for the girls who said maybe:

What if his ex-wife is ajnabi so you won't have to worry about he said, she said bullshit in the community and the calacaal


It's not about the community or what people say, it's about you and your husband living together, dealing with marriage and then on top of that, the ghost of his past marriage.
 

Manafesto

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@AishaBarri is right, nothing is wrong with marrying a divorced man with 2 or 3 kids, you will be in good hands if you become my HennyQueen.:mjlol:

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Basra

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Well most Women prefer a married man to a single man. Its all to spite and win over the already married woman lol
 
This is not about judging single parents. There are plenty of wonderful people who just had bad luck or a test from Allah.

However, it is important to heal fully, focus on good co-parenting and clear boundaries regarding finances and child/care/timetable.

But people who are bitter, aggressive, have no boundaries, have a horrible relationship with the ex, cannot provide etc, etc. have no business trying to get remarried.

How can some of these men rush into a 2nd marriage when they haven't even reflected on what went wrong in the first place, take cold showers and find a therapist. Smh
 
Ok modified version for the girls who said maybe:

What if his ex-wife is ajnabi so you won't have to worry about he said, she said bullshit in the community and the calacaal
The question is Is he emotionally available
Is he over his past marriage
Or is he damaged if he is it’s not gonna be a healthy relationship
 

Basra

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This is not about judging single parents. There are plenty of wonderful people who just had bad luck or a test from Allah.

However, it is important to heal fully, focus on good co-parenting and clear boundaries regarding finances and child/care/timetable.

But people who are bitter, aggressive, have no boundaries, have a horrible relationship with the ex, cannot provide etc, etc. have no business trying to get remarried.

Like you


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This is not about judging single parents. There are plenty of wonderful people who just had bad luck or a test from Allah.

However, it is important to heal fully, focus on good co-parenting and clear boundaries regarding finances and child/care/timetable.

But people who are bitter, aggressive, have no boundaries, have a horrible relationship with the ex, cannot provide etc, etc. have no business trying to get remarried.

How can some of these men rush into a 2nd marriage when they haven't even reflected on what went wrong in the first place, take cold showers and find a therapist. Smh
He’s been divorced an hour and he’s already on the market
Like child bye
 

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No man would would bring his kids from his previous marriage around the new wife maybe once in a blue moon lol. This is how somalis move.

Some of you speaking like those kids would be around 3 or 4 days of the week lol. And what man doesnt have the decency to cook and clean that 1 time his kids do come to stay.
 
No man would would bring his kids from his previous marriage around the new wife maybe once in a blue moon lol. This is how somalis move.

Some of you speaking like those kids would be around 3 or 4 days of the week lol. And what man doesnt have the decency to cook and clean that 1 time his kids do come to stay.


That's even worse.

A man who doesn't spend a lot of time with his children should be avoided like COVID-19.
This is a person who cannot be trusted.
 

Jungle

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That's even worse.

A man who doesn't spend a lot of time with his children should be avoided like COVID-19.
This is a person who cannot be trusted.
That doesnt mean i dont spend time with them, it just means i dont bring them around you. Id rather take them to their ayeeyos house and other relatives where they will be at every week. Spend time with them there. You dont have to be involved.

Always something with you xalimos lol
 
That doesnt mean i dont spend time with them, it just means i dont bring them around you. Id rather take them to their ayeeyos house and other relatives where they will be at every week. Spend time with them there. You dont have to be involved.

Always something with you xalimos lol


No.. that's hurtful for the babies, they are precious and need to be in their father's house as often as possible. You may think this is a good thing but they will feel unwanted and hurt and start resenting you. Find a nurturing woman who loves children so you can have family time.

Don't marry a woman who is ok with you not bringing your babies around.
 

Bronco

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The question is Is he emotionally available
Is he over his past marriage
Or is he damaged if he is it’s not gonna be a healthy relationship

Of course he would be. What are these assumptions @Finesse 'ghost of his last marriage'

If he's a normal, functioning man he can kick the marriage like it never happened and move on.
 

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