13 types of a Somali women you shouldn't marry according to 1922 Geeljire

[Manafesto]

Giving advice on marriage, Guur aan Ka La’aado by Aw-Yusuf Ali Hirsi

Throughout human history, societies have defined what an ideal woman should be like or how she should not be. There have been and still are behaviors that societies expect from women and ones that they do not expect from woman. Women were told and still are told what their roles are, how they should behave, what they should wear and how they should live their life. The Somali community is no exception.

Aw-Yusuf Ali Hirsi known as Aw-Yusuf Barre recited a poem to describe 12 types of woman that he would never marry due to their characteristics. Aw-Yusuf recited this poem while he was an old man, he recited this poem to advise to the younger men in his family on the types of women they should not marry. It is said that Aw-Yusuf Barre recited this poem in 1922.

In this poem Aw-Yusuf warns them against the types of women that they should not marry. Aw-Yusuf gives his reasoning for not wanting to marry each on of the women he mentioned.

1. The woman that has nothing more than her beauty
2. The woman that does not welcome guests
3. The abusive woman
4. The woman that does not want to live near other people
5. The short woman
6. The divorced women
7. The woman that does not do her part to contribute to the family
8. The woman that does not take care of her husband when he comes home
9. The woman that does not dress up or take care of herself
10. The widow
11. The woman that commits Zina
12. The woman with big appetite
13. The woman that does not have a feminine essence

Aw-Yusuf concludes his poem with a prayer asking Allah to give him the ideal woman that he wants. He asks for a woman:

1. Gaari – who is clean, organized, puts her house in order and takes care of her body
2. Raaliyo – who is kind to her husband and takes care of him
3. Garaad badan – who is intelligent and insightful
4. Aan guhaadin – who does not yell at him or emotionally hurt him

Who agrees/disagrees with this list?

Aw-Yusuf said:

Gurey iyo Daroorow arini, waygu gabileeye

Wax i galayba waan uun galgalan, gu iyo jiilaale

Galbi-dhabadka waxa iigu wacan, hal igu gaarnaaye

Garanna wayde meeshaan qalbiga, uga gufaacoone

Guddigayga caawaba maqloo, geliya laabtiina

Oo wada guntada xaajadaa, odaygu soo guurshay



Gaashgaashka waa lagu lumaa, gole ka fuulka ahe

Ha gudoonsan waa kii caqligu, gaan kugu ahaaye

Gurri-billa ninkii doonayee, nacaya goonbaarta

Ee guur ujeedoow i maqal, waan ku garansiine



Guduud looma raacoo haween, gabalba waa cayne

Bidhaan gebi ka laalaada waa, lagu gulaalmaaye

Isu gaadhay gabadhaad tidhaa, meel unbaa go’ane

Gaboodleyda gaashidu kutaal, labada goonyoodba

Ee maradu geyngeyman tahay, guur aan ka la’aado



Ganbadh lagu fadhiistiyo midaan, gaadha fidineynin

Ganuunka iyo xeedhyaha middaan, goor Allaba dhiibin

Gadh-cadaayadii reer tolkey taan, u gogol haynin

Een geedka laga naadinayn, guur aan ka la’aado



Gaadhgaadhka awrtiyo nirgaha, geela laga reebay

Gurijoogta xoolaha midaan, goosanka u diidin

Een garanin soo dheelan ee, guriga uun joogta

Gudbantaan halkayguba galayn, guur aan ka la’aado



Allow garawo giirka iyo afka iyo, ganafka uun taageysa

Oo qoolka uun kula galdi’i, magac waxay gaadho

Gandihii miduu wada nacee, gacalka fiigaysay

Gool boodadii laga samree, goysay ubadkeeda

Intay dhiig isoo galin lahayd, guur aan ka la’aado



Geediga hayaanka ah midaan, gaadhin waligeedba

Ee gabanta loo sido sidii, goodir noo curatay

Waa geeri naagtaan ritiga, kuu gadh qabanayne

Reerkoo gawaan degay dadkoo, gibbiladii waabtay

Anoo galangalciyo oon la tuban, furayna gaadiidka

Geedaha hadii lala dhexgalo, gudimo oodeedda

Galoon badhaxa uma dhaamin karo, geedantada jaane

Guul iyo cidlay igu waddaa, goox aan yuurure’ee

Gosha laga cabsooniyo xidhkay, gooshu ka adeegi

Gaade iyo intay bahal isiin, guur aan ka la’aado



Midda gaaban ee garabkiyo, guudku wada joogo

Ee socodka uma gaatisee, gididiflaynaysa

Ee gura ma laacdee ritiga juu, ku ganacgoysa

Janbal gibin ah een golos ahayn, guur aan ka la’aado



Carmal jeer hortay guursatoo, geeda soo shidatay

0o iga gu’ wayn oo taqaan, gaadmo iyo dhuudmo

Waxay gogosha ii saxartirtoo, illaxidh goysaaba

Dhowr habayn markii lala golyoo, gaax lakala maalo

Gadaal bay lasoo bixi dabbaro, hor ugu gaarnaaye

Intay galab i aynabi lahayd, guur aan ka la’aado



Middaan cowska soo guran aqoon, garab ku boodhlayda

Galgalin jiifta bacadka uun galgalan, gu’ iyo jiilaalba

Oo golaha qoyska iyo ninkaba, leexadu is goysay

Ee giiryar baa cunay i odhan, guur aan ka la’aado



Galbashada dharaartii middaan, gaadhka iga haynin

Een garanin goortii wakhtiga, aanan gafayn reerka

Een guurahaygii milshiyin, aar gudaan ahaye

Anoo luga gorgoray taagnidii, gogosha oo laaban

Intaan ciil la gow odhan lahaa, gaada iga haysa

Amaan goor xun daydayan lahaa, guur aan ka la’aado



Maradaan u gaday khayligaan, gugakan soo iibshay

Garbasaar hadaan ugu darriyo, boqoro giirgiiran

Wal maxidhato ganaca uun banayn, guur aan ka la’aado



Galoolka iyo cowskay badhkood, guna ka gooyaane

Garba duubantaan laga dayeyn, gala in ay laabto

Waxay hooyadeed garab degtoo, la i gargaaraaba

Mar haddaan ka guurana hadday, biidna garan waydo

Gabbaad kob aan lahayn kuma gam’ee, guur aan ka la’aado



Dumaal gaban leh gaayaa tufley, waa mas geed galaye

Haddaan wiilka guulguulo, way igu guhaadoone

Waa gool dhashii haysatee, guur aan ka la’aado



Gabdhahoo ciyaar tuman raggoo, yara dul goocaaca

Golostay ujeedeen haday, guluca soo saarto

Waxay guuntu boodoo ciyaar, daba gablaysaaba

Goobtii midii lagula hadhay, geedka dhiniciisa

Garaclayda geelada irmaan, guur aan ka la’aado



Gool weyn middii loo qaliyo, gogol lasoo dhoobay

Gab hadday tidhaahdoo martidu, igu dul gowriirto

Weelkeedu tuu gorof yaheen, laguba gaaraynin

Nin guraar minkii loodhigeey, gobbi la yaabtaaye

Intaan ciil la gow odhan lahaa, guur aan ka la’aado



Talaabada midaan gaw kasiin, gooray soconayso

Oon gola baxayn oon xarago, gacanta saydhaynin

Een dumarka gaasirin giddigii, guur aan ka la’aado



Allow gaaridii loo xishiyo, gabadha loo aayo

Raaliyo garaad badan midaan, iga guhaadaynin

Adaan gacanta kuu hoorsadaye, ha i gafsiin caawa.

 

[LRW20]

So he's basically saying don't marry a Somali Women

 

[Sophisticate]

That's not a challenge.

 

[Mehdi Hassan]

So he's basically saying don't marry a Somali Women

Most Somali women are tall and don't commit zina and have only ever married once so not really.

 

[MiskeenMikeVick]

In 2020 you would be lucky to get 1/4 of the good characteristics and pray for single digits for the 13 bad types

 

[xyz]

What’s wrong with not wanting to live near other people?

 

[Köttbullar]

Giving advice on marriage, Guur aan Ka La’aado by Aw-Yusuf Ali Hirsi

Throughout human history, societies have defined what an ideal woman should be like or how she should not be. There have been and still are behaviors that societies expect from women and ones that they do not expect from woman. Women were told and still are told what their roles are, how they should behave, what they should wear and how they should live their life. The Somali community is no exception.

Aw-Yusuf Ali Hirsi known as Aw-Yusuf Barre recited a poem to describe 12 types of woman that he would never marry due to their characteristics. Aw-Yusuf recited this poem while he was an old man, he recited this poem to advise to the younger men in his family on the types of women they should not marry. It is said that Aw-Yusuf Barre recited this poem in 1922.

In this poem Aw-Yusuf warns them against the types of women that they should not marry. Aw-Yusuf gives his reasoning for not wanting to marry each on of the women he mentioned.

1. The woman that has nothing more than her beauty
2. The woman that does not welcome guests
3. The abusive woman
4. The woman that does not want to live near other people
5. The short woman
6. The divorced women
7. The woman that does not do her part to contribute to the family
8. The woman that does not take care of her husband when he comes home
9. The woman that does not dress up or take care of herself
10. The widow
11. The woman that commits Zina
12. The woman with big appetite
13. The woman that does not have a feminine essence

Aw-Yusuf concludes his poem with a prayer asking Allah to give him the ideal woman that he wants. He asks for a woman:

1. Gaari – who is clean, organized, puts her house in order and takes care of her body
2. Raaliyo – who is kind to her husband and takes care of him
3. Garaad badan – who is intelligent and insightful
4. Aan guhaadin – who does not yell at him or emotionally hurt him

Who agrees/disagrees with this list?

That is encouraged in Islam and Allah will reward you for it.

Edit: I Bolded the words i was talking about

 

[Manafesto]

So he's basically saying don't marry a Somali Women

Bruh I think this is guy was the inventor of Somali gender wars, he is basicly saying die alone if you can find all these characterics in her.

 

[Octavian]

What’s wrong with not wanting to live near other people?

I wonder too

 

[AbdiGeedi]

Points 5 and 12 are comical.

He forgot to add:

14. The woman who screams hysterically.

 

[Marcus]

Based