I hear you both @Samaalic Era @Yahya. But the doctor has clearly warned the husband and told them to wait "for 2 years to try for another child". Despite the recommendations he still persists, to me thats abuse.
Brothers are you kidding me? The dude is pressuring his wife and going against the doctor's recommendations and you're telling me its not abuse? Come on akhis wallahi
I had mine at 7. I don't know why my parents waited that long to be honest. I still remember the pain as if it were yesterday. But I agree the sooner the better. I'll make sure of that if Allah rewards me with sons
It really doesn't matter to me. I intend on following my father footsteps and providing for my future wife/kids. However, if she chooses to work then all the power to her.
To your original question: Her family is my family too.
Why the distinction sis? I mean if you care that deeply about 'hygiene' then why not go through with circumcision? That's the whole point of circumcision: To improve cleanliness. There's nothing stopping you from teaching your kids about 'hygiene' after having performed circumcision.
I think...
What do you mean? Ofc I'm a muslim
Edit. I see what you mean now @Abdisamad3. I misread the thread title as "Hows dating/marriage for you somalis?" forgot to read the last part "gaals" :damn:
I don't waste energy thinking about this sort of stuff if I'm gonna be honest. Who I will end up with is already written. I just pray that whoever that girl might be is someone who is kind, cultured and pious.
I see. Always listen to your body bro. There's a reason why we are told this from a very young age. I know a dude who developed wrist tendonitis and it still bothers him to this day.
I hear ya, also an interesting way of looking at things. But I mean those risks are still there? Even though (as you put it) we have access to bathrooms and running water.
Let's take an example. In general we know that urinary tract infections (UTI) in males is low (we are also able to treat...
Two words: Family planning. That's what's missing in our community.
I personally know lots of somali families with 8, 9 and 10 kids, who did all of that just to acquire more in child benefits (very egoistical of them if you ask me). I feel like there's some sort of a recurring theme in many of...
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