Why older Somali men so secretive about their second wife?

I know a lot of adeers who have done this. Some of them even their kids and wife don't know. They go back to Somalia with an excuse and end up married with a young wife. These guys are all 50-70 years old. Waa wada duuq so its better they enjoy their last days instead of doing this.
 
What he did is 100% wrong and haram. Yes, islam allows up to 4 wives but Allah swt discourages the practice at the same time also: "But if you feel you many not be able to deal justly between them, then marry only one."

In the case of polygamy many forget that the first wife has rights to. If the first wife doesn't like the idea of sharing her husband with multiple women or be part of such relationship, then she has the option to demand divorce for example.

The fact that this guy married a 2nd wife, all while not telling his 1st wife is not only morally wrong but haram as well. Because he has infringed on his 1st wife's rights - what if she doesn't wish to be in a polygamous relationship?
 

Lostbox

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No lie, he became a Somali politician. This shit writes itself. :russ:
This is so ridiculous it should be in wrtingw

"Broke man with 4 kid, get a second wife and pops out more kids, then becomes the president of somalia"

:mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
 

Mercury

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I believe marriage is what you make of it if you want a fun marriage you go travel the world with your wife stay at 5 star hotels and do couple activities

But I guess they bored with their marriage and to have fun they marry a secret wife
 

Lostbox

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this happen cause he broke what they agreed upon thats why its a secret
No, he knew the wife wouldn't be happy or not even his kids, an his definitely not broke. I feel like his very gullible even for a person at his age. It sounds like the lady sweet talk him and has worked perfectly on him. As I said before his the shy quiet type
 
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General Asad

And What Is Not There Is Always More Than There.
this happen cause he broke what they agreed upon thats why its a secret
Not only broke men do it. I've seen a lot of rich cadaan men do this to their wives and a couple of rich middle eastern guys do it too. But its rare though.

Islamically, a man can still marry without a wife's consent, maybe it could be haram if she is not aware.:zhqjlmx:
Yeah, islamically it isn't haram but a lot.of men who want 4 wives don't have the money or time to support them. They want 20+ kids with each wife but they won't put in the work to please her or put in effort to care about her (which is haram).
 

Daacad90

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Not only broke men do it. I've seen a lot of rich cadaan men do this to their wives and a couple of rich middle eastern guys do it too. But its rare though.


Yeah, islamically it isn't haram but a lot.of men who want 4 wives don't have the money or time to support them. They want 20+ kids with each wife but they won't put in the work to please her or put in effort to care about her (which is haram).
It becomes haram when you don't provide fairly to your wives financially and also other aspects. Its says in the quran marry one if you can't provide for more than one. Those men are playing with human souls. Imagine how grave such a sin is on the day of judgement.
 

General Asad

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It becomes haram when you don't provide fairly to your wives financially and also other aspects. Its says in the quran marry one if you can't provide for more than one. Those men are playing with human souls. Imagine how grave such a sin is on the day of judgement.

The farahs in here aren't practicing the right form of islam lol. They want all 4 wives to fight each other and pick favorites. They only want them for sex. Haram alaik.

How many of them are attractive/financially stable to be talking like this? Kibiir and ciayaalsooqnimo wlhi :uCkf6mf:
 

Lostbox

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It becomes haram when you don't provide fairly to your wives financially and also other aspects. Its says in the quran marry one if you can't provide for more than one. Those men are playing with human souls. Imagine how grave such a sin is on the day of judgement.
The farahs in here aren't practicing the right form of islam lol. They want all 4 wives to fight each other and pick favorites. They only want them for sex. Haram alaik.

How many of them are attractive/financially stable to be talking like this? Kibiir and ciayaalsooqnimo wlhi :uCkf6mf:

This man is not broke. Bloody hell how many times do I have to say it. Why would my family be near or befriend any ghetto leech in the Somali community?
 
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