What’s considered cheating?

Cici

Cici

Two parts:

What’s considered cheating to you? Is making out considered cheating? Is forming an emotional romantic connection with someone else ( on purpose or otherwise) considered cheating? Is texting someone else romantically considered cheating even if you’ve never met irl? Is having a dating app profile but not actually using it to meet ppl irl considered cheating? Is keeping somebody else around who you know is interested in you and you give them little encouragements to keep them around considered cheating? Is flirting considered cheating? Is dancing with someone else at the club considered cheating?

-I have this friend who has this great bf. One night we went out and hanged out with some guys at an event. Her guy had his arm around her waist the whole night, they danced (not too provocative), he kissed her neck a little while dancing and they were just being really affectionate with each other. She never told him she was in a relationship though. So my question is is her behavior considered cheating? Be it she wouldn’t behave this way in front of her man but technically she didn’t do anything to be labeled cheating, like making out with the guy.
 
Yukon_Niner

Yukon_Niner

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That is indeed cheating, I mean you have to be an absolute simp to convince yourself it ain't.

Cici said:
I have this friend
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Guure

Guure

Whatever boundaries you and your partner set when it comes to the oppisite sex.
just communicate really thats the most important.
Some Men/Women are fine with their partner having a same-sex bestfriend or whatever,
and some dont even like their partner to smile at the cashier.:manny:

Imo cheating doesnt have to be only sexual intercourse.
Any kind of intimacy is considered cheating in my world.
 
FiftyPence

FiftyPence

Cici said:
Two parts:

What’s considered cheating to you? Is making out considered cheating? Is forming an emotional romantic connection with someone else ( on purpose or otherwise) considered cheating? Is texting someone else romantically considered cheating even if you’ve never met irl? Is having a dating app profile but not actually using it to meet ppl irl considered cheating? Is keeping somebody else around who you know is interested in you and you give them little encouragements to keep them around considered cheating? Is flirting considered cheating? Is dancing with someone else at the club considered cheating?

-I have this friend who has this great bf. One night we went out and hanged out with some guys at an event. Her guy had his arm around her waist the whole night, they danced (not too provocative), he kissed her neck a little while dancing and they were just being really affectionate with each other. She never told him she was in a relationship though. So my question is is her behavior considered cheating? Be it she wouldn’t behave this way in front of her man but technically she didn’t do anything to be labeled cheating, like making out with the guy.
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If I catch you looking at another female, you have cheated. When you are walking down the street, you better look at the ground.
 
Cici

Cici

Guure said:
Whatever boundaries you and your partner set when it comes to the oppisite sex.
just communicate really thats the most important.
Some Men/Women are fine with their partner having a same-sex bestfriend or whatever,
and some dont even like their partner to smile at the cashier.:manny:

Imo cheating doesnt have to be only sexual intercourse.
Any kind of intimacy is considered cheating in my world.
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Most couples don’t set boundaries like that, it’s just assumed that everyone has the same definition of cheating which is physical intimacy like kissing, oral and sexual intercourse.

What she did doesn’t fall into any of those categories so by most people’s standards it’s not cheating right
 
Cici

Cici

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Sammo said:
If I catch you looking at another female, you have cheated. When you are walking down the street, you better look at the ground.
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you’re kidding? That’s toxic asf, y’all need to work out Yale’s issues with a therapist instead of taking them out on your significant other.
 
Guure

Guure

Cici said:
Most couples don’t set boundaries like that, it’s just assumed that everyone has the same definition of cheating which is physical intimacy like kissing, oral and sexual intercourse.

What she did doesn’t fall into any of those categories so by most people’s standards it’s not cheating right
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Kissing neck isnt intimacy?
 
Cici

Cici

Humans are inherently polygamous leaning, so monogamy is hard enough without y’all adding more to it to make it damn near impossible.
 
NotMyL

NotMyL

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It’s pretty easy, anything you feel guilty or hide from your partner is considered cheating in my opinion.
 
VixR

VixR

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What’s considered cheating to you? Is making out considered cheating? Yes. Is forming an emotional romantic connection with someone else (on purpose or otherwise) considered cheating? Depends. Sometimes this just happens, and it’s inevitable. I’ve had it happen. But did you stop it? Is texting someone else romantically considered cheating even if you’ve never met irl? Depends. I don’t think it’s cheating if you’ve never met the person, but this just signals you aren’t getting your romantic needs met. Is having a dating app profile but not actually using it to meet ppl irl considered cheating? No. Is keeping somebody else around who you know is interested in you and you give them little encouragements to keep them around considered cheating? Yes. But again, did they reign it in? Is flirting considered cheating? No. I don’t. Is dancing with someone else at the club considered cheating? Yes lol.
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FiftyPence

FiftyPence

Cici said:
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you’re kidding? That’s toxic asf, y’all need to work out Yale’s issues with a therapist instead of taking them out on your significant other.
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Looool I was joking. On a real note, I consider cheating to be texting, calling, or even interacting in a inappropriate way towards the opposite sex. I don’t think men and woman can be friends.
 
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Aladdin

Having "interest" in someone. Imagining the possibility is considered cheating, before the action took place
 
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NINKII DHAKADA DHEERA

NINKII DHAKADA DHEERA

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As a person who was cheated on in the past I consider that cheating that friend of yours is an absolute dirty who open her legs pretty much for every nigga she just didn't do it infront of u bcz she knew what kinda person u will see her as but at least u could tell your friend was a

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Ayubi

Physical intimacy such as kissing, flirting, dating or sex is considered cheating.

If you express your love to another person while you're married, there's something wrong in your relationship but I wouldn't consider that cheating.

Either way, if your with a partner, stick with that person or leave if you're unhappy.
 
Mahacagalla

Mahacagalla

Cici said:
Two parts:

What’s considered cheating to you? Is making out considered cheating? Is forming an emotional romantic connection with someone else ( on purpose or otherwise) considered cheating? Is texting someone else romantically considered cheating even if you’ve never met irl? Is having a dating app profile but not actually using it to meet ppl irl considered cheating? Is keeping somebody else around who you know is interested in you and you give them little encouragements to keep them around considered cheating? Is flirting considered cheating? Is dancing with someone else at the club considered cheating?

-I have this friend who has this great bf. One night we went out and hanged out with some guys at an event. Her guy had his arm around her waist the whole night, they danced (not too provocative), he kissed her neck a little while dancing and they were just being really affectionate with each other. She never told him she was in a relationship though. So my question is is her behavior considered cheating? Be it she wouldn’t behave this way in front of her man but technically she didn’t do anything to be labeled cheating, like making out with the guy.
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Yes yes yes yes yes yes and yes.

All of those things to me is cheating. I would react to this thinking, why have a profile if you already are with me? Why are you even talking to other guys over text if your are with me let alone LEADING THEM ON TO KEEP THEM AROUND :mad::mad::mad:

Dancing with another man who is not your family member to me is a boundary crossed but not cheating. Flirting is not cheating to me but you have to ask yourself why are you such a flirt? Is your self confidence that low that you need daily/weekly reminders of male attention?

Is making out considered cheating?

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Your friend is a I hope her man leaves her and she dies a spinster with 8 cats.
 
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