Why is sex gross?

Basra

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NotMyL

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I suggest you talk to your hubby, if he’s not making you feel loved and cared for during the act, I imagine you can feel gross after. Sit down and have a talk with him.
 

Gibiin-Udug

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I suggest you talk to your hubby, if he’s not making you feel loved and cared for during the act, I imagine you can feel gross after. Sit down and have a talk with him.
Imagine telling a faraax you make me hate sex. I hope he doesn’t kill her. Their ego is fragile.
 

NotMyL

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Imagine telling a faraax you make me hate sex. I hope he doesn’t kill her. Their ego is fragile.
Yikes I hope not, if she cares about his feelings maybe she can start the conversation in a way that’s not to insult his skills. Somalis make sex talk unnecessarily awkward, I would rather have the talk with my partner than be stuck in a boring sex life.
 
Wow, thank you ladies for bringing this very important discussion to the forefront.

It's surprising how many men seem to think that women don't find men physically attractive. Your wife has as much of a right in you making yourself attractive for her as you do in her making herself attractive for you. Can't expect wifey to be a 10/10 when you're a -2 with a belly, bidar, and bad breath.

Moral of the story, ask your lady what she likes, go the gym regularly, throw down when you come home from work, and make your Somali wifey feel loved and desired lol
 

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Wow, thank you ladies for bringing this very important discussion to the forefront.

It's surprising how many men seem to think that women don't find men physically attractive. Your wife has as much of a right in you making yourself attractive for her as you do in her making herself attractive for you. Can't expect wifey to be a 10/10 when you're a -2 with a belly, bidar, and bad breath.

Moral of the story, ask your lady what she likes, go the gym regularly, throw down when you come home from work, and make your Somali wifey feel loved and desired lol
Now that is a wellbeing issue
There are people who actually hate sex and have Genophobia are an exception!
 
Wow, thank you ladies for bringing this very important discussion to the forefront.

It's surprising how many men seem to think that women don't find men physically attractive. Your wife has as much of a right in you making yourself attractive for her as you do in her making herself attractive for you. Can't expect wifey to be a 10/10 when you're a -2 with a belly, bidar, and bad breath.

Moral of the story, ask your lady what she likes, go the gym regularly, throw down when you come home from work, and make your Somali wifey feel loved and desired lol

Lmao its funny how men let them self go during marriage but expect xaliimos to fit and tight. You see somali dads with pop bellies and stain teeth and still want their wives to be sexually available. smdh
 
Scientifically speaking, Semen has an effect on female behavior and introduces gene regulator to the female recipient. So, aside from the moral aspect of sex(whether someone should be responsible with their sex practice and make a commitment like marriage etc), people ought to understand how deeply personal it is affecting the biology of the female.

One study reported that women whose partners don't use condom(and there fore ejaculate in them) are less prone to depression compared to the ones whose partners use condom.

Sex is too personal. A woman is not only giving up her goods to the guy, but some of the make-up of her biology once he donates his semen. Something to think about huh? Her partner better be someone who deserves to have such an impact on her. At least right?
 
btw, I am not demonizing sex. According to Islam, it is GOOD. Something Muslims are encouraged to enjoy as they please according to the Quran. It just has to be the responsible way(commitment).

Also, one of the conditions for a guy to marry is he must be able to have sex or he can not marry a woman. A woman can also ask for divorce if her husband is incapable of making love to her as she wants.

Islam is open about sex and how human beings require it in their life. It asks humans to regulate it so it does not lead to negative social and personal consequences.
 
One study reported that women whose partners don't use condom(and there fore ejaculate in them) are less prone to depression compared to the ones whose partners use condom.

if barebacking makes women less depressed why are married women some of the most depressed people assuming their husbands are rawdogging them.
 
if barebacking makes women less depressed why are married women some of the most depressed people assuming their husbands are rawdogging them.


Who can say what is the cause of their depression for certainty without personally talking to them? Who also can assume only sex is what makes a married woman happy? I mean, ask yourself, is marriage only about having sex when you want it? Sex is only part of the calculus in a life of partnership. We are social animals and require many things outside a quickie.

The married women may not also be getting good sex. Some of them cheat for that reason. It could be many things. We can speculate but we would never know the exact cause of someone's issues unless we are privy to their personal story.
 
btw, I am not demonizing sex. According to Islam, it is GOOD. Something Muslims are encouraged to enjoy as they please according to the Quran. It just has to be the responsible way(commitment).

Also, one of the conditions for a guy to marry is he must be able to have sex or he can not marry a woman. A woman can also ask for divorce if her husband is incapable of making love to her as she wants.

Islam is open about sex and how human beings require it in their life. It asks humans to regulate it so it does not lead to negative social and personal consequences.

Its strange how none of three monothestic religions teach married men and women how to have a deep and spirtual connection during sex. They just expect us to figure it out
 
Who can say what is the cause of their depression for certainty without personally talking to them? Who also can assume only sex is what makes a married woman happy? I mean, ask yourself, is marriage only about having sex when you want it? Sex is only part of the calculus in a life of partnership. We are social animals and require many things outside a quickie.

The married women may not also be getting good sex. Some of them cheat for that reason. It could be many things. We can speculate but we would never know the exact cause of someone's issues unless we are privy to their personal story.

Do yo know why zina is considered one of biggest sins? Because sex is a is or should be the deepest and most spirtually bonding thing a man and woman can have after kneeling 5 times a day before allah.
 

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