STD/HIV testing within a marriage?

Would you get tested regularly even after getting married?

  • Yes, get tested regularly even if married

    Votes: 16 64.0%
  • No, I have 100% trust.

    Votes: 9 36.0%

  • Total voters
    25

Basra

LOVE is a product of Doqoniimo mixed with lust
Let Them Eat Cake
VIP
These frequent HIV/AIDS thread trends is making me nervous now
 
real somalians dont' catch hiv/aids. i think OP is married to some Madow or jamaican revert. in that case, test him weekly for STDs.
 

Molotoff

Supreme Bosniak Geeljire
VIP
@Knowles why the qashin? No man with selfrespect wants to raise a bastard.

You should have had your qashining authorities taken away from you due to abuse, the same way as they took it away from me.

Nayaa don’t qashin this post now.

:ufdup:
 

Molotoff

Supreme Bosniak Geeljire
VIP
@Knowles why the qashin? No man with selfrespect wants to raise a bastard.

You should have had your qashining authorities taken away from you due to abuse, the same way as they took it away from me.

Nayaa don’t qashin this post now.

:ufdup:


Nayaa eedo @Basra you are also abusing the qashin. I hope they take it away from you too.
 
Bisinka we were just getting used to the suggestion of testing b4 marriage...when did testing *within* marriage come up?
Shidd inkaar baa qabtaan
 

Factz

Factzopedia
VIP
It's rare among the Somali community. Somalia has the lowest aid and HIV rate in Africa. That should at least tell you something.

As my dear sister @sophisticate said. Why bother with marriage if you can't trust the person?
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
Sis I will never trust anyone enough to let them give me a chance of being on medication for the result of my life. Trust who?

I guess asking is procedural but trust is the cornerstone of a relationship. I realize it might be challenging to find a man that abstained all his life in other words an experential match. But if not the individual should be responsible, honest and with good judgement.

I would not do a test because I live in accordance with my ethos and I expect whoever I end up with to get that.

Also, sis, you are worthy of a man that understands and lives - fidelity.
 

Umm-al-Dhegdheeriyaa

Run and I’ll catch you and eat you alive
I think every Somali marriage should be handled like the British monarchy or any other European monarchy. Bride teeth checked, legs spread to check stds and virginity. The prince also checked very closely for any When they had a foreign wife come from Germany or other countries, Of course, in our modern world, bride and groom should be checked thoroughly before the marriage commences. (especially the groom)
Eedo you’re so old fashioned you can’t check virginity by spreading legs. The Hymen is shaped differently for every woman, and some exercises can cause your Hymen to tear
it doesn’t break either that’s a lie, and for some people their Hymen is able to stretch and not have a tear
 
‘Somalis have the lowest rates of HIV!!’ Who tested them? Do they want to be tested? When I went back home and spoke to a healthcare professional who works in such field told me even the sick are wary of being tested for HIV because of the stigma attached to it and the social isolation that ensues if found to be a carrier. The rejection rates of those who’re sick and have the symptoms of HIV are over 99%. That’s why there are few known cases of HIV among Somalis in Somalia.
 

Basra

LOVE is a product of Doqoniimo mixed with lust
Let Them Eat Cake
VIP
Eedo you’re so old fashioned you can’t check virginity by spreading legs. The Hymen is shaped differently for every woman, and some exercises can cause your Hymen to tear
it doesn’t break either that’s a lie, and for some people their Hymen is able to stretch and not have a tear


u r not serious are you??? Perhaps i was not clear. Virginity is checked the next day, when a bunch of women walk into the marital bed to retrieve white bed sheets filled with blood. That is how we will verify virginity !
 

VixR

Veritas
At this rate, any trip to Africa:
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Most people will just end up with the STD/AIDs, because 1) The wife will most likely be none the wiser 2) most men would rather have her get what he has than tell her and be honest. 3) A lot of STI/Ds have latent periods where even he wouldn’t know he had it.
 

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