Who sits in the front seat your girl or your mom?

Basra said:

My dear Inquisitee, This mother and wisdom waa kalaa dheer. Did u see her tatoo on left hand as she was gesticulating? It looks like a hard mother, grew up in streets, probably her son is a crack baby, that's why his face looks lazy, none contemplating stupid.

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That MIL is using the fact that he told his mom to sit in the front as a weapon/bludgeon against the girl, and she’s taking it to heart.

Then her “man” proceeds to help his mother bring her down a few pegs.

This is a toxic dynamic.

I swear my mom would never help my brothers deliver blows to their wives. She treats them like guests after all these years, and they return the respect.

VixR said:

That MIL is using the fact that he told his mom to sit in the front as a weapon/bludgeon against the girl, and she’s taking it to heart.

Then her “man” proceeds to help his mother bring her down a few pegs.

This is a toxic dynamic.

I swear my mom would never help my brothers deliver blows to their wives. She treats them like guests after all these years, and they return the respect.

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And when will you bring your hooyo a son so she could treat him like a guest?

VixR said:

That MIL is using the fact that he told his mom to sit in the front as a weapon/bludgeon against the girl, and she’s taking it to heart.

Then her “man” proceeds to help his mother bring her down a few pegs.

This is a toxic dynamic.

I swear my mom would never help my brothers deliver blows to their wives. She treats them like guests after all these years, and they return the respect.

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Your mom treats your brother's wife as a guest?

Reiko said:

Your mom treats your brother's wife as a guest?

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Yes. My mom’s the type where if that scenario occurred, she’d insist the girl sit in the front.

Reiko said:

Your mom treats your brother's wife as a guest?

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in laws are always guest, yes. I have a Whats up family group from my siblings only. My hubby and my kids family are not in the group. In laws need to stay in their lane.

Basra said:

And when will you bring your hooyo a son so she could treat him like a guest?

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I have before. Anyone who’s not nuclear at our house is a lifetime guest.

VixR said:

Yes. My mom’s the type where if that scenario occurred, she’d insist the girl sit in the front.

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And when she goes to your brothers house she's also treated like a guest?

Don't mind me @VixR im just not used to that kind of dynamic, my sister in law is favored more than blood family in our household, but she's sweet and a caring person, I can't imagine her getting treated like a guest by mom.

Basra said:

in laws are always guest, yes. I have a Whats up family group from my siblings only. My hubby and my kids family are not in the group. In laws need to stay in their lane.

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In laws are your second set of parents, if you stop being qumayo then they might stop the habaar session they've every morning after fajr. Smh

Reiko said:

And when she goes to your brothers house she's also treated like a guest?

Don't mind me @VixR im just not used to that kind of dynamic, my sister in law is favored more than blood family in our household, but she's sweet and a caring person, I can't imagine her getting treated like a guest by mom.

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Yes. My brother’s wives really care what my mom thinks, bc guess what, they’ve been at the receiving end of her hospitality and her personality, which is easygoing and kind.

The way we’re raised, anyone who comes in our house gets the guest treatment, which means the best of what we have to offer. Of course, they become part of the family at some point, but it’s a sort of special favor that’s always in the background.

After seeing qashin like this, I’m seeing the benefit. It clearly fosters good relations. Always civil, always offering special favor, especially if they’re under our roof.

I’ll tell you something else, if that scenario happened, not only would my mom insist, but my in-laws would insist in turn that she sit up front.

Kkkkk I’m his shorty kulaha

My mother sits on the passenger and my wife sits ontop of her.

Reiko said:

Looooool

It's all those years where my mom would tell me to sit in the back whenever she would give elder aunties a ride. It's programmed into my head, I automatically seat at the back if an elderly person is getting in the car.


But its a whole different story if it's his sister.

My friend broke up with her Faraax because he was picking up his older sister and he told her to seat at the back. She told him to stop the car and she got out, she also keyed his car when she got out. And then screamed when he tried to calm her down. Naag nool gang.

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These hoee crazy, I understand getting upset and walking but to key someone's car? That's disrespectful and moronic