Splitting the bill

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This comedian chick I follow on the gram was talking about this issue months ago.

I DMed her and we spoke even more.

She just spoke on her insta story about how her friend “offered to pay for the bill” and the date she was with ended up letting her pay. The girl got bothered and just didn’t contact the dude after that.

The comedian chick after that legit started talking about how “fake offers” don’t mean shit and etc. she than proceeded to send screenshots from various women that were in here DMs talking about the same topic to her. All those chicks were bothered when the man let them pay.

I find it dumb how y’all offer to pay but get bothered.

Regardless any how a lot of dudes already plan on paying for the date especially if the dude is the one asking the girl out.

I've done it in the past, and the decent ones where like 'hell no' and look offended that you even want to pay.

:ahh:

My type of guy
 

Molotoff

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If I like the girl, i.e if I think it could lead to something serious, of course I would pay.
 
Why are u offering in the first place


It was a naive way of seeing what type of man they are. I like men that look at me as though i've lost the plot for even suggesting the ludicrous idea that I pay. Those men are very manly you see.

Now, i don't do that, i just sit there and look pretty and distracted when the bill comes.
 

Factz

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Society says we are, but it actually doesn't translate in real life.

Women are still expected to do most of the child rearing, whilst men are still expected to be the breadwinners.

I'd say men and women are equal, but with different roles.

That's good but there should be no hypocrisy in both end. I see it like this. If I go into a date with a woman and she expects me to pay the bills then that's fine because you're showing a sign that you prefer & respect traditional roles. It's also a sign that she is wifey material who likes to cook, clean and do other chores while expecting her man to pay for the house bills and work hard to provide.

My only problem is when women who prefer working and doing 50/50 chores while expecting from men to be traditional is my biggest concern. You can't pick and choose what you like. You have to choose two options, either be a traditional wife or split equally on everything with your husband.
 
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Jake from State Farm

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It was a naive way of seeing what type of man they are. I like men that look at me as though i've lost the plot for even suggesting the ludicrous idea that I pay. Those men are very manly you see.

Now, i don't do that, i just sit there and look pretty and distracted when the bill comes.
First part Sounds stupid as f*ck.

No nigga is less manly for accepting a request you offered.
 
lol. so ur gonna leave when a stranger doesnt want to pay your meal...? How entitled u are...kibir ayaa kaa buuxo. waxaa cuntey maa iska bixisid...ciyaal cunto afka loo galiyo miyaa tahay..?
Wallahi waad la yaabaysaa naagahaan kibirka ku jira wax laga faa'iidayana majirto oo naagaha kale waxba ma dheera.
 
Okay, I overhead these cadaan people talking about splitting the bill. One of the guys was saying he doesn't believe he should pay on dates. Whilst the other was traditional and said he would.

It got me thinking about the issue and also, the constant discussion people have on the matter on social media.

Personally, i would be irratated if a guy I was talking to decided to 'split' the bill. However, thats just me.

Okay, men if you were meeting up with the girl of your dreams at a restaurant ect would you split or pay? Be honest, i'm not judging.

Girls, how would you feel if you were meeting up with a guy you really liked and then at the end expected you to pay for your half?

Please no gender wars or bashing.

The smartest 1 xalimo and most genuine and humble one I've been out personally with always split the bill.

The other ones were typical xalimos who had the looks always expected me to pay.
 

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It's funny how women say they love traditionnal men when it benefits them.
But in reality, they hate being at home and taking care of the kids and not leaving the house..Such hypocrites. Never pay for a modern western female.
 
Wallahi waad la yaabaysaa naagahaan kibirka ku jira wax laga faa'iidayana majirto oo naagaha kale waxba ma dheera.

Men on here have just admitted that if they don't like a woman they would not pay.

Where as if they do, they would. How is it kibir wanting a man that is serious about pursuing you?
 
Men on here have just admitted that if they don't like a woman they would not pay.

Where as if they do, they would. How is it kibir wanting a man that is serious about pursuing you?
Who made them the spokesperson of men? And out of everyone here you take Jerome's word our resident african american?:mjlol:
 
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