What is sad, is that this mentality is a hill a lot of young Somali men are willing to die on. They cling on to dated ideas that cause suffering to women and children and brand it as tradition and conservative values. Its why many are resentful of Western and educated Somali women as we're not brainwashed to believe that they have the right to treat us any way they deem fit. They're angry, they can't treat women the way society 50 years ago treated women. Its obvious some have predator and abuser streaks. They're not fooling anyone.
Of course they are angry. They want everything to come easy to them, to do the bare minimum and get away with it and the worst of them want to get away with outright abuse and shameless sinning.
They think women are on earth to be their baby factories, their maids and their sex slaves and they would prefer it if we were mute with a smile on our faces whilst we did all of that.
I want Somali women to study the deen and then make note of all of their rights and demand them. We must teach our daughters and our sons what the rights are of each being on this planet and make sure they uphold it.