Inquisitive_
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I recall a decade ago when our xaalimo's in school/college whether it's on dates or not would order salads/soups in public places (more so on dates) taking a lot of time to finish that small dish while expressing a great deal of modesty & shame in doing so.
That natural shame and modesty was covered through telegraphing, while you take a bite of that lamb, she would sip that soup, the dish she would order was the most healthy option then, it was also much smaller in comparison.
It was ceeb for her to be seen eating at a fast food place or even taking an order, whenever one was spotted, she would say it's a take away "for her brothers", as a result you rarely saw a fat one, they were all slim with many dimes.
Fast forward today, the opposite is the case, every cheap third rate fast food place I walk past is filled with our Xaalimo's with mayonnaise/ketchup all over their mouths, her cheeks stuffed like they are about to explode, yet she somehow manages to talk loud and laugh despite all of this bila xishood.
Waliba waxaa kaga daran they take the front row window seats on busy roads were everyone else can see this shame unfold, seats which everyone else avoids.
They order the same food or in most cases a larger portion then the guy they are on a date with, you would even hear them joke publicly that they have a bigger "appetite" then their man (imaanka laga qaad)
This shameless attitude has also found itself on YouTube were they now shamelessly eat in front of the whole world.
That natural shame and modesty was covered through telegraphing, while you take a bite of that lamb, she would sip that soup, the dish she would order was the most healthy option then, it was also much smaller in comparison.
It was ceeb for her to be seen eating at a fast food place or even taking an order, whenever one was spotted, she would say it's a take away "for her brothers", as a result you rarely saw a fat one, they were all slim with many dimes.
Fast forward today, the opposite is the case, every cheap third rate fast food place I walk past is filled with our Xaalimo's with mayonnaise/ketchup all over their mouths, her cheeks stuffed like they are about to explode, yet she somehow manages to talk loud and laugh despite all of this bila xishood.
Waliba waxaa kaga daran they take the front row window seats on busy roads were everyone else can see this shame unfold, seats which everyone else avoids.
They order the same food or in most cases a larger portion then the guy they are on a date with, you would even hear them joke publicly that they have a bigger "appetite" then their man (imaanka laga qaad)
This shameless attitude has also found itself on YouTube were they now shamelessly eat in front of the whole world.
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