How long should it take?

[Kingjames]

Had this argument yesterday with my Aabo.
How long should you date someone before it’s time to get married?
My dad says that it shouldn’t take more than 6 months. But I think that you should have at least dated for 1-2 years.

What’s the ideal time for you guys?

 

[Boqor]

7-36 months

 

[Gambar]

He is right, 6 months is enough time.

 

[Kingjames]

He is right, 6 months is enough time.

Do you think you know someone after 6 months?

 

[Gambar]

Do you think you know someone after 6 months?

Saaxib, we are Muslim, so unless you mean wasmo and moving in together before you get married then 6 months is enough time.

 

[Kingjames]

@Jjero why did you delete your comment?

 

[Zailah]

6 months isn’t entirely enough to know the person and to me that’s just the preliminary stage. 12-18 months is perfect. You can get to know someone faster than 6 months but that’s a whirlwind romance

 

[Kingjames]

6 months isn’t entirely enough to know the person and to me that’s just the preliminary stage. 12-18 months is perfect. You can get to know someone faster than 6 months but that’s a whirlwind romance

There is plenty of examples of people lusting for each other so they rush the process and end up getting divorced. But 12-18 months is perfect.

 

[Zailah]

There is plenty of examples of people lusting for each other so they rush the process and end up getting divorced. But 12-18 months is perfect.

Then when the honeymoon phase ends, reality hits them and they separate or divorce with kids.

 

[Kingjames]

Saaxib, we are Muslim, so unless you mean wasmo and moving in together before you get married then 6 months is enough time.

Who said I was a Muslim?

 

[Boqor]

Anyone who says more than 12 months is ahlul jahanam

 

[Jeesto]

6 months isn’t entirely enough to know the person and to me that’s just the preliminary stage. 12-18 months is perfect. You can get to know someone faster than 6 months but that’s a whirlwind romance

This ^^^^

 

[Zailah]

Anyone who says more than 12 months is ahlul jahanam

Can you not wait

 

[Mercury]

9-12 months

 

[Boqor]

Can you not wait

No I can't, I want the fun part of the marriage over and done with:siilaanyosmile:

 

[Hilaac]

6 months is enough tbh

 

[Kingjames]

6 months is enough tbh

But you don’t know somebody fully in such a short time

 

[CrazedOpal]

1-2 years (not including dating period before hand)

Y'all saying under 6 months are gonna get a divorce lmfao.

 

[Merchant of Mogadishu]

a week max.

 

[Mercury]

More than 2 years ?



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