Leaving monotheism to follow your own form of religion is for sure a bigger L than just being agnostic/deist/atheist, I've always maintained that, honestly.It’s all such nonsense idk how they fall for it, just goes to show that some people need something to follow, to guide them, to tell them what to do. They probably think they’re smart for leaving their Abrahamic religion as well, I just find it a bit ironic.
But then again, it’s their own choice.