You never see somali men fighting for their kids

[Aboow]

How are you even questioning whether I'm a Muslim or not?
There's no cope only facts, the guy/dad isn't respected in the societies we live in. That's all I said. The guy has no say in anything, his role is replaced by the government, there's no need for a dad in terms of providing and so on.. everyone is taken care of.

Toughen up my boy! Be a man and assume your role. You have a defeatist mindset. Who is forcing you to get married or have kids? If you feel like the fathers in the west aren’t « respected» than go have kids elsewhere. Simple.

Being a parent is an Amanah for both the mother and father. You are responsible for them and will be questioned on the day of judgement. If you want to partake in grown up activities and get married than assume the responsibility period!

Once you have kids it’s no longer about YOU!

Also, you sound just like those AA. The MeN iS rEpLAcED by tHE gOvErNmENT ! What a cope out! Are you planning to not have a job and live in housing when you have kids?!? How is the husband replaced by the government when your working and providing for the kids?!? Dayooth! You have already made up your mind subconsciously. I feel for sorry for the xalimo that will marry you!

Again Somali men African American men

 

[Wervelwind]

The majority of young Western raised educated Xalimos don't even have a lot of kids. All the young mums I know all have 2-3 kids and work in professional jobs.

Single moms? If not, how much do their husbands help them