Would You rat out your gaal sibling if they confided in you and begged you not to tell your parents?

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

What would you do?

 

[Hmohamed54]

The haqq has came to them why am Im gonna stress myself out let alone my parents

 

[Qeelbax]

I chose option 2 and 5. I wouldn’t cut them off completely but It wouldn’t be the same.

If they go Ayan Hirsi on me, then it’s definitely complete cut off and they’d be dead to me.

 

[Fobnimo Till I Dhimo]

I think it would be better to amus imagine one of the waalids goes crazy and catches a case some waalid's maskaxs r not built to compute their caruur becoming gaalo there's no telling what they might do the results could be absolutely devastating and now u got that shit hanging over your head for the rest of your life cuz u couldn't amus

 

[Kalsoon]

May Allah protect us from this fitnah. This is a really difficult one. On one hand, I love my sibling but knowing they don’t believe in Allah is something that will change how I see them. I might need to process it as it would be tragic to me. Then, ask follow up questions to understand their reasoning. I wouldn’t want to hurt my parents by telling them the bad news. Might limit my time with them but I would still try to stay in contact and give merciful reminders.

Even without saying anything, I’m guessing a person who is gaal will only hide their gaalnimo for so long. Sooner or later, they will get tired of pretending and want to live openly as a gaal. Then, people’s suspicions would be confirmed without me saying anything.

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

Your siblings will know if you're a gaal without you telling them. They also wouldn't tell the parents not to necessarily protect you but to not hurt them.

 

[Username]

Why would I care? That means they are sensible and can think for themselves, that's a positive to me.

I would not tell my parents because Muslims are extremely crazy about this stuff, they can denounce blood relatives over this stuff, no one else does that.

 

[Gacmeey]

My anger would get the best of me and my parents would know something is up without even me telling them

 

[Shaafici Mujaahid]

You need to understand it is a belief not action. They might have just disbelieved or lost faith for a dumb reason but as long as they are alive and they see Muslims and Islam in better light they could repent. I know of Muslims that have converted back and they left the deen because of dugsi and Dhaqan celis. Some hate the deen because of Al SHabab and the equate islam with that wrongly.

 

[cooli3o]

Telling your parents will make them hate Islam 10x more. Muslims lack hikma nowadays, theyare so harsh and severe, think so black and white, if you do kufr, they will go all extreme and try to embarresss and destroy you, as if that is gonna help them anymore