So Muna, was a girl I dated two years ago when I lived in Ohio, a special somebody, we dated for about seven months and even met her parents,Muna had trouble accepting that I was Non-practicing Muslim who had doubts about Islam.
We've were sewn together, laughed at in our silly things, listened to each others' troubles, planned excursions, and we've never had sex. I've never asked for it,she's always been firm on waiting till marriage, And she used to talk about our marriage alot! But once a one or two-week period, she had doubts.
We matched, we really did ,95% compatible is what it looked, but religion, the values that come with, were direly and in earnest important to her. And every one to two-week period, she voiced her concern, not by yelling, not by screaming,but by hurting.
She was divided by the knowledge that I will not go to her heaven,that I am fated to her hell and that I don't recognize it. She was haunted by the idea that, because we hold antipodal religious/political convictions, we should be fated to an ill marriage.
On many occasions, we've discussed our difference in opinions. And, one occasion, it's become heated, not because we became angry but because she became hurt. She believes, for whatever reason, that a married couple in order to be successful in their union must share common political, (esp.) religious, and moral ground.
So I break it off, and my mom and brothers was would tell me why didn't I just act like a Muslim and not reveal my doubts on Islam and the fact that I was searching for answer or a proof in what to believe , they would tell me we never noticed you were conflicting and confused about your faith untill you told us so and you could gotten away with it ,but I choose to teIl her because sooner or later I will not be able to hold it.
Would you guys marry a non-practicing Muslim with doubts on Islam but is morally Islamic and is in search for a a valid proof that Islam is the right one? And why not?
We've were sewn together, laughed at in our silly things, listened to each others' troubles, planned excursions, and we've never had sex. I've never asked for it,she's always been firm on waiting till marriage, And she used to talk about our marriage alot! But once a one or two-week period, she had doubts.
We matched, we really did ,95% compatible is what it looked, but religion, the values that come with, were direly and in earnest important to her. And every one to two-week period, she voiced her concern, not by yelling, not by screaming,but by hurting.
She was divided by the knowledge that I will not go to her heaven,that I am fated to her hell and that I don't recognize it. She was haunted by the idea that, because we hold antipodal religious/political convictions, we should be fated to an ill marriage.
On many occasions, we've discussed our difference in opinions. And, one occasion, it's become heated, not because we became angry but because she became hurt. She believes, for whatever reason, that a married couple in order to be successful in their union must share common political, (esp.) religious, and moral ground.
So I break it off, and my mom and brothers was would tell me why didn't I just act like a Muslim and not reveal my doubts on Islam and the fact that I was searching for answer or a proof in what to believe , they would tell me we never noticed you were conflicting and confused about your faith untill you told us so and you could gotten away with it ,but I choose to teIl her because sooner or later I will not be able to hold it.
Would you guys marry a non-practicing Muslim with doubts on Islam but is morally Islamic and is in search for a a valid proof that Islam is the right one? And why not?
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