Would you be willing to marry someone with a “past”?

[NA9]

Not somebody who is the neighbourhood but just somebody who has been in previous relationships where they’ve had sex etc. Is this a dealbreaker for you?

 

[Starscream]

Muslim female no
Gaal yes

 

[cinina]

Allahu aclam wallahi but if I had the choice between a chaste man and an unchaste one who were identical in every other respect, I’d choose the one who respected his body and Lord more.

But it shouldn’t be a deal-breaker. Zina is a major sin but then so is using riba money. We shouldn’t demonise certain sins while brushing off others based on our whimsical preconceptions.

And girls say no thank you to double standards
WE ARE TOO WOKE FOR THIS SHIT

 

[Slickback]

Can you answer your poll?

I think culture & religion play a big part, not to mention it being very context dependent. I am curious, this topic has been rehashed many times, but what is the female consensus?





@Idil-Beydaan @cinina @Knowles @Anab

 

[Merchant of Mogadishu]

No.

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Can you answer your poll?

I think culture & religion play a big part, not to mention it being very context dependent. I am curious, this topic has been rehashed many times, but what is the female consensus?





@Idil-Beydaan @cinina @Knowles @Anab

Never thought of Marriage anyways. So such a thought never crossed my head. But as cinina says there are other major sins that shouldn't be brushed under a carpet. If someone genuinely repents and regrets that's another thing. To begin with who would have the guts to tell a prospective partner they committed adultery? You're not supposed to air your sins
I would say NO tho

 

[Steamdevolopment]

In the danish system we believe in the possibilities of rehabilitation.


If they are willing to reform and is into my kind of stuff, we can figure out something provided they are attractive :siilaanyosmile:


AND have something even more between the ears.

 

[Slickback]

In the danish system we believe in the possibilities of rehabilitation.


If they are willing to reform and is into my kind of stuff, we can figure out something provided they are attractive :siilaanyosmile:


AND have something even more between the ears.

I was going to tag you, but then I remembered you are straight up mandem

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Another thing is that Dating is haram to begin with. So whether someone is chaste or not, if someone's already hooked up with a girl/boy for pleasure then seeks a pure person for marriage. That's hypocritic

 

[Muji]

Even lesbians are demanding chaste women. That’s a turn out for the books.

With me, I honestly don’t care. My only pre-requisites are that he has a big clan I can milk and is gullible enough to believe that I’m capable of jeceyl.

Who says I’m staying for the wedding night anyway?

 

[darklight]

i dont care as long as they're honest about their past

 

[cinina]

Never thought of Marriage anyways. So such a thought never crossed my head. But as cincinna says there are other major sins that shouldn't be brushed under a carpet. If someone genuinely repents and regrets that's another thing. To begin with who would have the guts to tell a prospective partner they committed adultery? You're not supposed to air your sins
I would say NO tho

What have you done to my name??

 

[Steamdevolopment]

I was going to tag you, but then I remembered you are straight up mandem

But I wear lip-stick and thight fitting clothes and high heels?

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

What have you done to my name??

I apologise cinina dear

 

[Anab]

Can you answer your poll?

I think culture & religion play a big part, not to mention it being very context dependent. I am curious, this topic has been rehashed many times, but what is the female consensus?





@Idil-Beydaan @cinina @Knowles @Anab

Nah

 

[Desert Flower]

No.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

depends honestly .

If the person has all the traits I was looking for in a wife than I would marry her regardless of her past. They would be a last resort option though if I didn't meet anyone who didn't have a past.

I would still 100% prefer marrying someone else who didn't have a past. Because I currently don't have a past.it would be cool to meet someone who has stayed clean all there life.

I plan on looking for a spouse later on. Not now

 

[Idil-Beydaan]

Even lesbians are demanding chaste women. That’s a turn out for the books.

With me, I honestly don’t care. My only pre-requisites are that he has a big clan I can milk and is gullible enough to believe that I’m capable of jeceyl.

Who says I’m staying for the wedding night anyway?

Evil kk

What farax wronged you my dear?

 

[Kingjames]

It would be hypocritical if I said no, so it doesn’t really matter.

As long as she haven’t had sex with someone I know

 

[Basra]

Not somebody who is the neighbourhood but just somebody who has been in previous relationships where they’ve had sex etc. Is this a dealbreaker for you?

Not really. Its actually sexier if He has a past. (A girl should not have a sex past lol) u just have to tell him we r going to the STD clinic and check both of us. Be diplomatic huuno