Would you allow your underage son to

[Sigmundd]

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[mohamedismail]

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Tbh I don't think it makes a difference if they are Somali or ajnabi. For me the real importance would be if they are Muslim. Also I would have to know the parents and who they are. If they are dodgy family I personally wouldn't want my son or daughter in their house or even having that person as a friend.

I wouldn't be comfortable allowing my son to sleep over though. He can hang out there as long as the family are Muslim and we have a good connection.

 

[Sigmundd]

Tbh I don't think it makes a difference if they are Somali or ajnabi. For me the real importance would be if they are Muslim. Also I would have to know the parents and who they are. If they are dodgy family I personally wouldn't want my son or daughter in their house or even having that person as a friend.

I wouldn't be comfortable allowing my son to sleep over though. He can hang out there as long as the family are Muslim and we have a good connection.

True it makes no difference whether somali or not but ajanabi are alien to us so that's why I highlighted them more especially a kaffir family. And yes your son would be at risk whether the family is muslim or not you wouldn't know the type of male creeps are at his friends house. A lot of boys don't say anything if they are sexually abused...

 

[Ozymandias]

No, I would not allow that. He can have as many sleepovers after 18.

 

[Sigmundd]

No, I would not allow that. He can have as many sleepovers after 18.

nah even after 18 I wouldn't want him to go over to his friends house creepy lurkers do still target boys at that age, I heard and know of stories.

 

[Bazed]

No. He can hang out with them but to go to their house isn't something I'd allow.

 

[Sigmundd]

No. He can hang out with them but to go to their house isn't something I'd allow.

Your a wise man can you elaborate as to why you wouldn't i would like to hear your input

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

I hate having people over at my house and I will defo not allow my kids friends over or let them go over to them.

I'd be an over protective aabo so I would hire ex-military officers to be their body guards, gps on their phones and backpacks, chauffers for them etc.

And ofc private intelligence to do extensive background checks on all their teachers, friends, classmates and anyone related to these 3 groups

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

@pinkyandthebrain why are you laughing? I am being dead serious

 

[Ozymandias]

@NordicSomali warya albaabka ma ka baxi kartid, car! Isku day iyo suunka baan kugu dhufaniya awoowga la gub

 

[Bazed]

Your a wise man can you elaborate as to why you wouldn't i would like to hear your input

In this day and age I simply don't trust anyone that I have no knowledge on. Let's say I know my son's friends, I could even think they're good kids and approve of them. This doesn't translate to me trusting the parents of the kid. Also I grew in a way where I had to report back to my parents where I was and who I was with (until I was 14). I'd like to know where my kid is and that he's safe at all times.

 

[Sigmundd]

@pinkyandthebrain why are you laughing? I am being dead serious

no as in is not a bad thing but a bit too much but good for you for stepping up

 

[Sigmundd]

In this day and age I simply don't trust anyone that I have no knowledge on. Let's say I know my son's friends, I could even think they're good kids and approve of them. This doesn't translate to me trusting the parents of the kid. Also I grew in a way where I had to report back to my parents where I was and who I was with (until I was 14). I'd like to know where my kid is and that he's safe at all times.

True the kids could have good heart but their parents or other siblings in the house could have bad intention towards your son just like that somali boy I mentioned. Did you know sexual abuse is prevealnt amongst young boys but is always not reported.

 

[Bazed]

True the kids could have good heart but their parents or other siblings in the house could have bad intention towards your son just like that somali boy I mentioned. Did you know sexual abuse is prevealnt amongst young boys but is always not reported.

Yeah it makes sense. Young boys aren't taken seriously, it's like when you see those reports of female school teachers taking advantage of young boys. The comments people make about that a genuinely disgusting, talking about "I wish it happened to me." I was never a fan of some of the measures my parents took but now I know they're necessary.

 

[Sigmundd]

Yeah it makes sense. Young boys aren't taken seriously, it's like when you see those reports of female school teachers taking advantage of young boys. The comments people make about that a genuinely disgusting, talking about "I wish it happened to me." I was never a fan of some of the measures my parents took but now I know they're necessary.

it's because is rare so that's why is not taken seriously even though is morally wrong and disturbing, its damaging to the child but to be honest I'm more like talking about abuse from a male in that house. That's one of the reason why I don't want my son to have sleepovers creepy men do defo target boys.

 

[Bazed]

it's because is rare so that's why is not taken seriously even though is morally wrong and disturbing, its damaging to the child but to be honest I'm more like talking about abuse from a male in that house. That's one of the reason why I don't want my son to have sleepovers creepy men do defo target boys.

I respect that heavily. You can't trust anyone you don't already know. If my kid wants a sleep over it'll be with his cousins and that's it.