Women who criticize somali men are self haters but men who do it are wadani?

[bluebird]

I'm tired of this silly double standard. Men should at least be tougher and be able to take what they can dish. I'm not for excess criticism for either gender, but its sad how pathetic men would rather whine like babies when real criticism is made about the problems with somali men. You would rather be coddled and pretend there is no problems. The real icing on the cake comes when it is time to discuss the problems of somali women suddenly, mashallah you are wadani and just want to better your people. But of course when a women does it she is just a self hater

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Don’t let these faraxs breeze faze you brush it off go forth explore the world surely for that which lies in between your legs is your oyster

 

[Yonis]

get over it

 

[bluebird]

get over it

tbh I was mad about something when I wrote this carry on.

 

[Mercury]

get over it

Lol you missed the whole point of this thread

Why else you think there's 20+ Page threads about Somali girls with ajnabis

 

[bluebird]

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[Mercury]

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One thing I don't understand is that in the Somali community even if your a single mother what's stoping the father from seeing his kids?

Some of it is court related that's an entirely different thing But I'm saying majority when they divorce they also divorce their kids

And Islamically speaking even if you're divorced you must still support your kids

 

[Jiron]

This gender war must end

It’s time we faraxs focused on the positive of haliimos and vice verse. We all we got, let’s squash this beef and hug it out once and for all

 

[bluebird]

One thing I don't understand is that in the Somali community even if your a single mother what's stoping the father from seeing his kids?

Some of it is court related that's an entirely different thing But I'm saying majority when they divorce they also divorce their kids

And Islamically speaking even if you're divorced you must still support your kids

lool true. The court is just a front. They don't even try. A lady (syrian) I know doesnt live with her kids anymore because her exhusband said she didn't make enough to support them. Now she only sees them occasionally. A lot of dads fight for custody and win at least part time but you rarely see somali dads do it, its like they immediately give up

 

[Mercury]

This gender war must end

It’s time we faraxs focused on the positive of haliimos and vice verse. We all we got, let’s squash this beef and hug it out once and for all

We should praise each other more

 

[BenInHer]

Lol you missed the whole point of this thread

Why else you think there's 20+ Page threads about Somali girls with ajnabis

Don't start, i've lurked around this site for quiet sometime before signing up. Almost all threads Related to Somali women with ajnabis get there criticism, but eventually the thread dies, only to have a "New" poster Revive Old threads, Supporting the Madow too get a rise out of faraxs. this one particular revived a 5 month old thread to post this, ofcourse you will exceed 10pages.....

 

[Mercury]

Don't start, i've lurked around this site for quiet sometime before signing up. Almost all threads Related to Somali women with ajnabis get there criticism, but eventually the thread dies, only to have a "New" poster Revive Old threads, Supporting the Madow too get a rise out of faraxs. this one particular revived a 5 month old thread to post this, ofcourse you will exceed 10pages.....

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[Tjioux]

what these xoolo somali faraxs don't understand is, somali xalimos bash you cuz they want ur attention, you don't need to retaliate, just leave them be, don't be rude to them

 

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[agnes]

I've asked myself if they ever see or talk to women irl.

 

[jamal9]

my earlier response in this thread was deleted. don't know why. I'm just providing my opinion to OP 's question. it is a close-ended question (Yes or No).


Women who criticize somali men are self haters but men who do it are wadani?

Answer: Yes, 100% correct.

 

[BANTU]

The answer is clearly paternalism. If the double standard were to stop you would see an insane shift in Somali culture as a whole. Somali boys are raised to know their place is above Somali girls and the Hooyos subscribe to that mentality. It's not that deep

 

[Bahal]

 

[Somali Legend]

I'm tired of this silly double standard. Men should at least be tougher and be able to take what they can dish. I'm not for excess criticism for either gender, but its sad how pathetic men would rather whine like babies when real criticism is made about the problems with somali men. You would rather be coddled and pretend there is no problems. The real icing on the cake comes when it is time to discuss the problems of somali women suddenly, mashallah you are wadani and just want to better your people. But of course when a women does it she is just a self hater

Nag, nag, nag, nag, and nag. Listen Dahlia, Somali men and women who marry out are self-haters. I know your triggered by my last thread, I was just playfully joking.

Any Somali person who marries out is a self-hater, regardless of gender and they voluntarily leave the Somali race.

 

[bluebird]

Nag, nag, nag, nag, and nag. Listen Dahlia, Somali men and women who marry out are self-haters. I know your triggered by my last thread, I was just playfully joking.

Any Somali person who marries out is a self-hater, regardless of gender and they voluntarily leave the Somali race.

Who's talking about marriage?